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Amorous Pop Culture

Engineered Homogeneity

A description of the lad mag = FHM, Maxim, Zoo - ideal female:

The downside to such manufactured people is that they’re all the same. If you were mugged by any one of the women in the top 10, you couldn’t pick the perpetrator out of a lineup. They’re all white. They all have long hair and they’re almost all blonde. They all have the same high cheekbones. They all have the same nose. Each woman is allowed exactly one deviation from the norm, and the deviation is immediately remarked on – her tattoos or her extra-dark eye makeup or her curves. The girls of FHM are obviously products of a fundamentally icky consumerist objectification, but their engineered homogeneity also reveals an incredibly limited imagination.

The female ideal pushed by laddie magazines has become as smooth and lifeless as an iPhone

Amorous Pop Culture

Norman Mailer's Kinky Sex Games

That Norman Mailer might have a few sexual fetishes is no surprise. I do wonder why he didn’t write of them.

Carole Mallory, one of Mailer’s lovers says:

“He particularly liked to play the role of producer. The scene would be the casting couch,” the New York Post quoted her, as saying.

Mailer also liked to pump her for information about her previous lovers.

“He liked to hear the details of the sexual behavior of stars with whom I’d had sex,” Mallory said.

Norman Mailer had a fetish for role-play sex

Erotic Technique

Better Fellatio

Want to become more able in performing fellatio? You may need to overcome your gag reflex.

Figure out your trigger point. Start by touching the tip of your tongue with your finger. Keep advancing to the point where you first begin to gag. That’s your trigger point.

Touch the trigger point with a cool object. Cold numbs the throat a bit, so try a popsicle with a condom on it (in case a piece breaks off into your windpipe) or a soft dildo that’s been in the freezer for 10-15 minutes.

Read the entire article: Overcoming a hyperactive gag reflex

Gender Studies

Maria Soledad Vela: Politics of Sexual Happiness

Maria Soledad Vela’s attempts to ensure sexual self-determination for the women of Ecuador has been provoking laughter around the world.

She explained that sex was a difficult subject to discuss in Ecuador and that what she wanted were clearer laws covering life, health and sexual education.

Not quite a laugh riot is it really?

Sex on Ecuador’s political agenda

Amorous Scholarship

Buddhism and Fellatio

Did ancient Buddhists anticipate the distinction Bill Clinton made about his relationship with Monica Lewinsky?

Moreover, it seems that as a means of popularizing Buddhism, temples at the time served not only as places of worship, but also doubled as a place of public recreation, including that of the raunchy variety.

Unfortunately the tenets of the Buddhist religion made it a sin for a priest to break his vows of celibacy and engage in nyobon — the woman crime — as fornication with a female was called.

Thus to keep Buddhism on the right track for those seeking salvation, forms of sexual gratification that did not involve actual penetration proved a practical approach.

Amazing academic professes to find the feudal foundations of fellating

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual

My Sister Can't Say She Is a Lesbian

Gay women have been called lesbians for over two hundred years. On the island of Lesbos a few cranky residents want to turn back the linguistic clock:

For residents of the Greek Island of Lesbos the struggle to protect their identity has gone on long enough and now three of these residents have asked the court to order the Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece to drop the “L” word.

Residents of Lesbos are commonly identified as Lesbians, an identity that has existed for thousands of years, and it seems the confusion with gay groups who have adopted the name over the past few decades has caused enough grief that change is needed. According to plaintiff Dimitris Lambrou “My sister can’t say she is a Lesbian. Our geographical designation has been usurped by certain ladies who have no connection whatsoever with Lesbos.”

The three plaintiffs, two of whom are women, insist that their problem is not with gay rights nor is their plea a target of hate but rather a quest to regain their Lesbian identity. The lawsuit, which will be heard in June, targeted the Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece because it is the only officially registered gay group in Greece to use the word in its name.

Robert Crombie finds his new film, Sappho, under attack:

“I was astonished at the level of the hatred in that room,” Crombie said later. Adelaja’s criticism centered on the film’s elements of homosexuality — Sappho was an ancient Greek poet who wrote on passion for both sexes, and Lesbos, the island where she was born, is the origin of the word “lesbian.” Crombie felt his work had been misunderstood: “It was like the sky had fallen in. I didn’t feel I had made a gay film, but rather a film about love.”

Love on the Isle of Lesbos

Gender Studies

Cuckoldry : A Historical Note

From the Times Literary Supplement:

… Matthew Pilkington, poet and clergyman, was also an Irish specimen of what Henry Fielding called “the modern husband”, in a comedy of that name. That is, Matthew sought to profit from his wife’s body by proxy, hoping that a rich friend would cuckold him, for a reasonable price – or, when Laetitia failed to succumb, that he could be rid of her by catching such a friend in the act of cuckolding him. Divorce would almost certainly favour the innocent, injured party.

An eighteenth-century memoir with a timeless refrain: all men are bastards

Sex Workers

The Humanity of Prostitution

Uncommonly sensible words about sex work in a review of writings on that theme:

If it is inhumane to belittle the miseries of the prostitute, it is no less inhumane to minimise the miseries that make some men their clients. There is at least this to be said about the Prada call girls with their obliging mouths and vaginas—along with the freedoms they insist on for themselves, they grant men the freedom to be creatures of desire. Why, when all is said and done, should a prostitute not be touched by a man’s shyness or ineptitude or sadness, or made curious by his turning up in her room looking for he doesn’t know what, or excited when on rare occasions what he does want coincides with what she does?

Prada Prostitutes

Gender Outsiders: Transgendered & Others

Restrictions Placed on Transgender Castrations

Thailand, land of the ladyboy, has issued a temporary ban on the castration of minors for reasons not directly related to physical health. This comes at the urging of Thai gay activists who claim that the youths aren’t mature enough to make such decisions about their own bodies.

Young men seek to have their testicles removed in an effort to become more feminine.

“It’s a totally wrong perception that castration will make boys more feminine,” Natee told The Bangkok Post last week. “These youngsters should wait until they are mature enough to thoroughly consider the pros and cons of such an operation.”

Temporary Ban on Castration in Thailand

The tolerance shown towards the “third sex,” as it is often referred to, has led to the country becoming a world leader in sex-change surgery.

Cosmetic castration banned

A crackdown on sexual reassignment procedures will probably move the traffic to parts of Africa and Eastern Europe where it sex related surgery is proving increasingly available.

The issue of their competency to undergo various procedures is constantly faced by people seeking sex change.

Gender Outsiders: Transgendered & Others

Transgender Rights Bill: House Bill 1722

A breathtakingly screwball reason for opposing a transgender civil rights bill in Massachusetts:

Opponents of the bill have accused it of doing some outlandish things. Contrada, for instance, alleges that it would force hotels to host BDSM conferences against their will.

Advocates, opponents of trans rights bill to have their say on Beacon Hill