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Violet Blue's advice to sex weblog writers

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Violet Blue, among many other things composes Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup. She has loads of good advice for those who hope their personal sex weblog will get a mention.

... have you considered that the world might not need another BDSM submissive blog? I digress.

Another female submissive, yes. But how many male submissives have a weblog?

Why else would someone shy from your sex blog? Well, are you writing about sex? If you have a sex blog, do us all a favor and don't write about doing the dishes, taking the kids to school, what you had for dinner, your computer problems -- unless it's sex-related. Get a life blog instead, not a sex blog, if you just want to tell us how depressed you are, or what you hate about your job -- unless it's sex-related. Stumped for ideas? Describe your genitals. Invent a new position, even for masturbating. Tell us about a sex dream, or a fantasy, or your ideal porn movie. ...

There is something disappointing to find yourself looking at broccoli washing techniques.

dworkin who? (a better waste of bandwidth)

Comments

the world has too many female submissives already. enough! but yes, violet blue's advice about sex blogs being about sex are really good. most people's regular lives aren't really worth a mention on a sex blog. unless of course, it's told with wit and intelligence. i think it's left out that even kinky exciting shit can cound blase and uninteresting in the hands of an awful and limited writer.

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Richard