24/7 TPE F/m Slavery

It is so unfair. Aside from being lovely, smart and good-humored Matisse is often right.

Recently in sharing requests for advice she printed the question of a man with that old 24/7 TPE dream:

I crave to become a real slave, into a situation with no end, total slavery, even financially. Note that i have a very well-paid job and as well earning money at the stockmarket.

I crave to become a slave under total control, the Ms control what I wear, eat, financial servitude (my salary goes to Ms account and I live on an allowance for example), chastity, no more women etc…

is it possible??

(Probably the food is dull to repellant, the chastity total - this is all pretty commonplace.)

Matisse replied:

Is it possible? Anything’s possible. Is it likely? Not in my experience. No one in my immediate circle has a dominant/submissive relationship like the one you’re describing. I have seen some situations that resembled it in some ways. But you know, very few of them lasted very long. Either the level of the D/s gradually dropped, or the relationship ended. I don’t think that’s sheer coincidence. …

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I rarely raise my own kink life on this site but I’ve had those same cravings. Really, I don’t know that I could tolerate it for more than two days. And while I may like the sadistic glitter in my beloved’s eyes some nights and she is quite happy to see me on my knees we mostly do the ordinary things lovers often do.

The men who get too caught up in this kind of lifestyle slavery tend to not understand that dominant women are more than just domination machines. And when seeking someone with whom to share their lives prefer a man with more rounded and balanced desires.

Often in wanting so much these guys wind up with nothing. You’ll be happier if you can keep your desires focused on the plausible.