A Selfish Adult Baby
• BDSM
Those of us with fetishes know all too well how badly we need the itch scratched. And how hard it can be to come up with the right partner - professionals aside - the right loving partner.
There’s no one sadder or stupider than a man who has been lucky enough to find a woman happy to oblige him but becomes unwilling to return the favor. So caught up in his specialized passion that he risks finding himself with nothing.
Dan Savage writes to the wife of an exceedingly selfish adult baby:
My advice: Take that break. Cut the little brat offno more baby games until he can successfully wrap his bonnet around this: Your pleasure matters as much as his does. Then tell him that although he may not be interested in regular sex, he’d better learn to fake it convincingly. And finally, BA, tell him that his continued failure to meet your vanilla needs is gonna get his diapered ass divorced, leaving him single and shit out of luck, sex-partner wise, for the rest of his adult infancy.