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Since my own beloved is practicing with her new single tail whip and there’s a sjambok on the way to say that I like spankings would to lie by understatement.

Yes i think men should be punished by women… I believe all males are beneath all Females and need to be spanked to keep them from doing and saying stupid things….but thats just the way i feel : )

Most definitely. Keeps everything in line but girlfriends need the same treatment

Being spanked and diapered by your wife is a great way to reduce stress. Go for it.

Absolutely! All men deserve a good spanking at the hands of their beloved partner’s!

Mistress

Being spanked by a lady is a great pleasure that I have enjoyed for many years, it does nothing for my behavior or morals or any of the other thingsthat righteous people claim. Itjust feels great, turns me on like nothing else can .

Everybody deserves to be spanked on occasion. Whether it should happen depends on the 2 people involved and their relationship. Some people aren’t comfortable with certain roles. Personally I spank my girlfriend whenever she deserves or needs it. She has gotten pretty good about not deserving it anymore, probably because I also spank her when she needs it which can be pretty often. She also can spank me whenever she feels I deserve it. Most of it is all in good fun but punishment spankings are meeted out when necessary and aren’t taken lightly be either of us.

Hi! I am Bianca.I am a firm beliver in spanking. I spank my boy friend once a week.I do this as I think he needs it.I usually spank him with my hand.If he really bad I use a thin long cane.

My name — but not my sex — is slightly changed for this message. The responses and comments I’ve read here have been shallow at best, and at worst ill-informed. Let me assure that I know whereof I speak. I am at least the 3rd in a line of spanking wives in my family. As with my father, and, I am told, my grandfather before him, my husband has been spanked regularly since he was 13. He’s now 32, and when I am not available to do the job of correcting him, he is spanked by my mother.

Spanking is a true blessing, both for the wives and those husbands who need it. Not all do, of course. But I have found that many American men crave it as a sign of love and support. In my capacity as owner/president of a women’s only bed and breakfast and health spa, I have severeal young men in my employ who know that if they break my rules they will spanked.

I chose to hire these males on the basis of their innate submissiveness — and this is my point. The mindset that you must establish with spankable men is critical. You must learn to read the signs, get them when they are still young and bring them along carefully and intelligently.

Without going into an extended exposition of what these signs are, let me just say that if you are a spanking woman, you know the little give-a-way mannerisms. All my spankable males are chosen both for their physical attributes as well as their attitudes.

Good sized, rounded bottoms, fair unblemished skin, soft eyes, lightly built above the waist, but with good rounded legs are part of the picture. I dress them in snug slacks, soft sweaters or blouses and penny loafers. They wear no underwear ever.

These outfits have a softening, submissikve effect on them, as does the fact that they are waxed free of hair below their heads. Their height does not exceed 5-6, which makes them easy to handle. I am 5-10, strongly built, and am considered a diva type.

Spankings are meted out on the spot. Over the knee, over the desk, under the arm, or standing. All clothes are removed so that their embarrassment is felt as deeply as the burn to their bottoms.

All my males are encouraged to cry. It is a good outlet for their emotions, and I find them quiet beautiful when their tears flow. I love everyone of them, with a special emphasis on my husband who also works under me at the spa.

But there are rewards as well as punishments. When they have been good boys, they are perched on my lap, where they are complimented, fondled and sometimes kissed deeply, at which point they usually swoon like teenaged girls.

If they are very, very good, and I am in the mood, they are taken to my bed and used to their heart’s content and given an orgasm.

Punishment and reward is the balance of a good life. All my males, believe me, lead happy, fulfilled lives under my rule.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If any woman tried to do that on me. There would be hell to pay. Granted, a woman could get a sucker punch on me, but I would never submit to it. All kidding aside, and not to get judgemental on anyone, I just think that the idea of hitting anyone is wrong, wrong, wrong. It is odd that not hitting people is called evil or questionable, but hitting people is call good. Go figure. I think it is really sad to raise ones hand against anyone, and say hey, that was a good thing. I am not a moral super dog, but I think the world would be a lot better, consential or not, if people would not consider striking the other person, no matter how just it may seem. The only thing I see in this “lifestyle” is arrogance. The ego of thinking one sex is better equipted than the other to lead humanity into a better life. Last I heard, arrogance is evil, which makes it not a very good practise. I hope this gets posted. I am not trying to preach, but give my two cents worth, nothing more. No matter how inate it may seem, it is a form of brutality to hit another person, In my opinion of course. There may not be any bloodshed, or any killing but there is the destruction of self. A person’s own self is damaged all in the name of discipline. This would be a more acceptable practice if it was not such a one way thing. I believe, if one is so bold to dish out discipline, then they should be able to recieve it as well. Women and men are human, no better or worse than the other but equals. When it is one sided, then I think it is not just bad but worse than two people getting spanked. I do not believe in control of either man or woman. I believe, again, it is about EQUALITY. I think it is a nice idea. Just my humble opinion. I’m human too and I consider myself an idiot but a good guy none the less.

P.S sorry about any miss-spellings.

My girlfriend takes a belt to my butt a couple of times a week. We don’t do it for punishment or anything like that. After a spanking we both feel more energized and have great sex.

Dear Michael:

Stop whining and start begging. You are a lost puppy in dire need of behavior training. You should first admit this to yourself, then go out and find a real woman who will know how to handle you. When she takes you in tow, I guarantee, that little tail of yours will be wagging all the time. Remember, in my first post, I wrote about little give-away mannerisms of spankable boys? Your wishy-washy scribbling creates an image of shyness, shame and neediness so prevalent in your species. So, ‘fess up, sweetcakes, and put yourself under a loving female’s hand. You won’t regret it, except perhaps temporarily. But as they say, “no pain, no gain.”

Some of you new to the idea consensual corporal punishment should realize (among many things) is that people do it for varying reasons. Some like Spanked Boyfriend finding it sexually energizing.

Others use it to discipline a partner who wants and feels that he needs to be spanked to help maintain his self-control. These relationships are as loving conventional pairings.

Some of you may enjoy this entry featuring artwork of women spanking men :F/m Spanking Art.

I see that my daughter has been posting her opinions on the site. It is true that she handles her husband, a cute little fellow with naughty tendences, with stern, loving care.

He is, at the moment, dressed in a little lace apron. He is so scrumptious. His bottom is bare and quite reddened from a thorough hairbrushing she gave him at a dinner party we held at our home. It was quite a sight, I’ll tell you. She stripped him bare and made him fetch the hairbrush while all the guests sat with their after dinner drinks, watching him literally high- tail-it out of the living room and up the big stairs to the bedroom.

Then, when he returned, she had him kneel before her as she sat on a love steat with a male friend of hers. He had to thank her for the discipline he was about to receive. Then she had him kiss the business side of the hairbrush and climb over her lap.

While Gerald held the hairbrush, my beautiful daughter began the spanking with her palm, then took the hairbrush from her weepy husband and finished the job. It took perhaps three minutes to induce the first whimper; then another three for the tears and the howling to begin.

When it was over, she stood him on his feet and told him to apologize for his poor behavior. There he stood, his smooth, lovely body with the rainbow bottom and that pretty tear-streaked face, what a joy it is, all twisted up with embarassment. It made my heart swell to see him so penitent.

Then, daughter Christine delivered the ultimate humilation. Smiling sweetly, she told the men in the room that they should retire to the smoking room, and, as they got up to leave, she told Gerald in a clear, calm voice, that he was to go with the grown-up men and tend to their needs.

The women started giggling, and the men snickered, while Gerald paled with fear and concern and said, “no, please, no…”

At this act of defiance, my daughter took Gerald back over her knee and delivered 25 of the most solid whacks I have ever seen, or heard. The impetus got him on the move, but this time, at my daughter’s instruction, on elbows and knees, with his bruised and swollen cheeks the highest point of him. As his beaten bottom disappeared through the door and into the next room, it looked positively virginal. Then we all listened with delight as the men used him without mercy, laughing uproariously when we heard him squeal like a piglet.

When they let him out perhaps an hour later, he was completely drained. He shuffled across the room to my daughter’s side and asked in a whisper if he could go to bed. She nodded, then excused herslef from the ladies, and took her sweet-bottomed hubby by the hand and led him up the stairs, asking him as they left if he had been a good little boy and done everything he was told.

He whimpered that he had.

Ah well. Just another day in the McDonald home.

Dear Christine:

I just got finished reading your post...hold on, let me stop laughing. It is not whining to consider, what I believe to be the greater good. Pick up a history book, all the greats who called for nonviolence have been called whining and so forth. Whether they are religious or political figures. My definition of a loving woman is not one who is a dictator or one that involve hitting all in the name of "love." In my opinion, it is a slap in the face to "love" itself to define it as something it does not stand for. Love does not ask but gives. Women or men who hit eachother, I believe are not acting in love but in hate. Like fools gold, it seems so nice and lovely-right. Put it to the test, and it is worthless.
I tell you the truth I bow down to no one-male or female. I do not wag my tale but bark when needed and bite if required. It is in my understanding that the greater good is frowned upon by some people who think that agression is the simplicity of life and the way of the righteous.
 I have come to realize that you cannot teach a man or woman anything.  It is all just a choice. My choice is to have a loving woman, who sways from what, I believe to be the evils of relationships. No woman, in my opinion would, who loved their husband would strike them. Hey, hold on, I have more whinging to do, so listen up. If you think it is so normal-Christine-then why are people who practice it the minority. It is because, the rest of us are shaking their heads in disbelief.
Look at Gaundi, who called for nonviolence. He helped free India. It seems to me that what seems easy is, nine out of ten, the road to something unjust. 
If I wag my tail, it is because I have awife that does not believe that physical violence is the road to a good marriage. She will go beyond what you consider LOVE. I'm curious Christine if you could take such discipline or is you gender beyond correction? You are human, and woman or not and despite popular belief, you are not perfect-nor am I.

Christine…love is great, love is pure, but spanking, like Trix, is for kids.

Love you, Stay pure

It is not a mock. Really-spread love, but is the way of nonviolence. I just read you mother’s post. Very sad, just in my hummble opinion.

By the way, I don’t believe in hitting kids either.

Peace out, I think I’ve made my point. Richard, interesting discussion. I’m wondering what made you come up with the idea to start this. I hope you were never spanked. Take care all of you, even the tyrants…just kidding. I will say that it is something I will always disagree with. Thank God. Anyways, peace out to Christine, whom I wonder can get as good as she gives….hmmm. Must be all talk and bravado…hmmm. I’m just teasing you-really. I know I will get a good wife, that only one can ask for, and if we spank eachother, it is only for erotic purpouses. We will be good friends who light up when we see eachother. We will love each other so much as not to humiliate eachother or hit eachother and call it good. Love, love, love demands higher respect. One last time, I will be bold enough to just call it wrong, in my opinion of course. If the person agrees to it, I don’t think it is their “thing.” “If it works for ya, do it.” Hey, I cured my headace by slamming my head into a brinkwall. It work but was it good. A greater pain to cure a lesser…hmmm Oh, one last thing, Christine. I respect your opintions, as I do for everyone. Yet, next time you want to slam me—say something intelligent to go along with it. Otherwise it is pure nonsense. Just my opinion. Take care of yourself. This I say from the heart. Take care Richard. Don’t heistate to put up more of these. They are great.

Sorry Richard for all the misspellings. I just took a sleeping pill. I better get to bed, before the spanking fairy comes. I just said this so Christine cannot call me out on it. Call me butter fingers, but not stupid. Peace out cool guy.

Michael,

Why I started this is explained in the first paragraph: a joke that brought unexpected results.

Do I like to be spanked? Yes. My girlfriend has good collection of canes, floggers and whips. She says I’m a sponge for pain. Why? Because it puts me in an ecstatic state. Has nothing to do with ‘discipline.’ And 90% we are just a girl and a guy who love each other.

Also, it isn’t uncommon for men to post as women as a way of venting their fantasies. No way to know. But the more carried away the story the more suspicious I am.

Really you should read something like Jay Wiseman’s S/M 101. People engage in spankings because it fills a need and gives pleasure. Sexuality simply is. There’s no arguing with it.

An interview with a ProDomme about her customers’ ecstatic response to spankings: Rush Limbaugh & the Dominatrix

And Whipping Therapy.

To the general public this may seem like an unusual answer, but….based on my own needs, yes, men and boys do need a regular spanking. Spanking (by hand, whip, belt or leather paddle) is not only something I enjoy, it is something I really need, like my morning coffee. As an adult, I haven’t been spanked a lot, but I’ve felt great after every spanking. It seems to relax me,like exercise or sex relaxes others. It also makes me more at ease and increases my self confidence. It is a great de-stresser. It probabley does other things which I am still not aware of. Right now I am looking for a steady female spanking partner who in Chicago who would be interested in spanking me on a regular basis. I suspect that men, both single and married, would be much happier and healthier if they were spanked regularly.

Michael:

I most sincerely believe you’re misguided when you say spanking “is for kids.” Nothing could be further from the truth. Spanking children often constitutes the violence and abuse to which you refer. So get that head of yours straight. Spanking is only for adults, who use it as a release. If it occurs in a disciplinary context, then it can be assumed that is the way the participants prefer it.

As to whether the story I told is real or imaagined, let me suggest that it doesn’t matter. I thought this site was about exploration and discussion of various needs — and fulfillments —in the wonderfully diverse world of sex. I didn’t realize it was also about moral preachments and religous proselytizing.

Perhaps I’m wrong, but I thought the original question posed — should husbands and boyfriends need to be spanked — was meant as a point of departure for engaging anectdote and playful interchange. Let’s not get too serious here.

Relax, Michael. You seem all stressed out. Is it possible that you need to be spanked occasionally?

Real or fake? I don’t really care.

I made the point to Michael because some naοve take everything the read online as literally true.

To whomever it may concern:

Spanking husbands has been in practice forever. The reason: 1) many crave it; and 2)it works. Why, do you suppose, so many professionals are making a living at it?

A household in which the female is the dominant personality should, quite naturally, be kept in good order by that same female. Males are workers, females are bosses. It is the way of so many societies over the long haul of history.

Females need the authority to run the show. Not enough, however, excercise that authority. But times, they are a-changin’. If you don’t believe me, read the polls that adress this question. They all show that women are gaining the upper hand.

More women are seeking higher education, and genrally getting better grades, than men. There is a new dawn breaking. I, and the women before me in my family, have merely been ahead of the curve. So, all you nice, submissive boys, listen up. The sooner you turn it over to your wife, the better you will feel and the happier will be your household.

Many of you men are like colts who need to be broken and trained to do what is best for you and everyone else in your life. Many of you women need to examine yourselves to see if that strength of purpose and righteousness is in you. If it is, step up to your responsibilities.

Take your man in hand. Teach him the golden rule. The age-old institution of spanking awaits your implementation. Like a brass ring, you need only to grab it. If you do, your self-esteem will grow and so will your husband’s devotion.

Hey don’t forget that lots of us girls like to be spanked by our boyfriends and husbands!

Oops … off topic … sorry … !!!

Christine:

It’s nice to see you and yo momma, like to tag team. What’s matter, not old enough to handle your own battles? Just kidding. Christine…sweetcakes…sex games are fun. I have no objection to them. I’m just wondering if you are a psychopath. Just a little humor. It’s all in good fun. Christine, if you want to think you are coming to more power and are gaining the upper hand over men, great! It is always nice to give females the illusion of power. However, I strongly disagree with you, if you are indeed serious, is that women are superior to men. Women-please! Look, I think men and women are equal in all respects. The trouble is that neither is willing to admit it. Women and men should work together for equal oppurtunity. Why is that concept so bad to you? I’m just wondering, that’s all. There is something we can learn from eachother. Sorry, Christine you are not excluded from correction by the opposite sex-in my opinion of course. If one choose to gain dominace over the so-called “opressor” then, in my hummble opinion, that one no better than the men one hates. Those selfish, pigheaded men-the nerve. Sometimes, we become what we hate the most. Sometimes we don’t. If you are just kidding around, I’m not. There are many who believe in these things, and truely abuse their husbands. It is not a laughing matter. If it is nothing but sex games, which I sometimes question the sincerity of, then sign me up. There is nothing wrong with a little hanky panky. Now a message to yo mamma. Mrs, please pull out those glasses and read more carefully. When I said “spanking, like trix, is for kids” I was kidding. I even said that I don’t approve of hitting kids in my message. Thank you for twisting my words around. I was kidding with your monster…I mean daugther. Just kidding. I’m such a smart ass. I bet you’d like to spank it. I have strong opinions about things. I kind of guess some things in here might be made up. Some of it is fiction. Your right about one thing, I am up tight. Yet, I like being a little wild. However, I refuse to lighten up. I like being very serious. Am I serious now? HMMMM??

P.S Everything I said is in good humor,or at least my humor. I’m only teasing you. I am not putting you down or trying to suggest that my opinion is better than yours. Its all about “=.”

P.S.S If there are any spelling errors—sue me. Peace out. Love to all.

I’ve been following the comments on this site for awhile. I’ve been married to my wife for over 30 years, and for the last twenty years, have been spanked by her many, many times. It started after being out together one night and having a few drinks, and when we got home, she became quite amerous. I was liking the way she was being the agressor and became very excited, but right at the point when I wanted to begin the sex act, she told me to “Just hold on!” At that point, I didn’t know what she was doing until she told me that I had embarrassed her earlier in the evening by talking to another woman at the bar and leaving her alone at the table for five minutes. I tried explaining to her that the woman was an old friend of mine, and she had spoken to me first, and I didn’t want to be rude. Her mood suddenly changed and she said, “So you think you can just come home and have your way with me after letting that little slut keep you from your loving wife.” I told her it was nothing like that, and she told me that she was going to teach me a lesson in manners. At that, she left the bedroom for a minute and returned with a flat wooden spatula that resembled a paddle and said “I am going to give you a good hard spanking the likes of what you’ve never had before”. I just kind of chuckled and asked “Are we playing a game?” and she immediately assured me this was no game and proceeded to swiftly pull me her across her lap, and with one hand on the small of my back, she raised the makeshift paddle up and brought it down with a hard smack across both cheeks of my up-turned naked ass. Wasting no time she began a quick rhythm, spanking me and lecturing me at the same time about disrespecting her and I don’t mind telling you, this both stung and felt good at the same time. I lost track of how many times she brought that wood cracking against my stinging butt, but when she stopped, I had the hardest erection I’ve ever had in my life. It obviously turned her on too, because she pulled me on top of her and we made the most powerful love we ever had up to that point. At the point of reaching climax, she let her one hand slide down to my still warmly throbbing backside and slapped me with her hand three or four times while groaning, “Oh you are such a bad boy, you need a spanking”. Well, needless to say, from that point on, I was hooked, and to this day, she still finds a reason about once or twice a month to make sure I get a taste of her “womanly power”, and I am always ready to receive what I got coming. All you men out there should be as happy as I am, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

IN MY HOUSE, MY WIFE SPANKS ME ABOUT 3 TIMES A WEEK. WHEN SHE COMES HOME, SHE WILL SIT DOWN ON THE SOFA AND PUT HE FEET UP. THAT IS MY SIGNAL TO GET DOWN ON MY KNEES TO GIVE HET A FOOT RUB.

AFTERWARDS, SHE MAY ORDER ME TO EAT HER PUSSY AS SHE RELAXES. ONCE SHE IS SATISFIED, I AM BENT OVER HER KNESS OR ORDERED TO TOUCH MY TOES. SHE WILL SPANK MY ASS UNTIL I BEGIN TO CRY AND BEG TO RUB MY ASS. MY WIFE THINKS ITS GREAT THAT HER HUSBAND IS BEGGING TO RUB HIS ASS.

SHE SAYS THAT ITS ABOUT TIME THAT THE MEN ARE ON THEIR KNEES AND GETTING THEIR ASSES SPANKED.

I thank the gentlemen who have most recently posted such positive attitudes toward their wives being in charge. They are the beneficiaries of of good old fashioned discipline, and they know it. They also know their place, which at times is over their wives’ laps. Their numbers are growing, which is a promising indicator of the future.

To that end, I believe more males should be spanked in the workplace. You have no idea how well my women’s-only spa works after I have tended to the disciplinary needs of my lovely, if naughty, male staff.

All you lady bosses out there would do well to consider what I suggest, and perhaps, if the owner of this site agrees, the discussion of male spanking could be expanded to the office.

Just think of it, ladies. Do you expect that production would increase if a hairbrush were used to motivate your male employees.

Wives should be loyal to their husbands-not dominant. Think about it, why are so many women speaking of hitting their man? Is it because it is easy and most affective? This is probably true. It is in my opinion, that anything easy, nine out of ten is not worth while. A relationship where the only way you can get your husbands attention, is by hitting him does not seem worthwhile. It seems to me that the woman is a complaining creature, when she doesn’t get her way, tough! It sounds to me that women are trying to make a relationship work, and push it in a direction it is not supposed to go. Why these men allow their loved ones to hit them is beyond me, however, I can theaorize. Sounds to me that the men are thinking with their penises once again. Otherwise, would they put up with it? You cannot make a person do anything without their approval. Without approval, there is rebellion-which I like very much. Men, allow me to influence you in a constructive manner. Respect yourselfs. If you want a woman, don’t be fooled by the outer exterior. Look on what’s on the inside. She could be the most beautiful woman on the outside, but the ugliest brute on the inside. It is in my opinion, and I am not targeting anyone or pointing fingers, that it is your mind that these women attack and convince that this is acceptable. Love demands higher respect. In my opinion, and I’m not getting preachy here, but there are many twisted forms of “love.” Someone I love I cannot bare to hit. Yet I know that many people will argue other wise ‘” if you really love yourself Michael, let your self be spanked-blah blah, blah, blah, blah.’” ’ ” It is for your own good. The more your spanked Michael, the more you wil love your wife’ ” Spare me. Women, in my opinion, should respect their man. Men put up with your garbage too. I guess it makes me a sissy-right-because I respect my body, and that’s what it is-my body, to let someone else touch it in such a mean manner. I hold my head up high, and respect my body. This does not make me any less loving towards the opposite sex. I make my mistakes, like everyone else. I take responsability for it, but no matter the mistake, I know two wrongs don’t make a right.

Just think of it, ladies. Do you expect lawsuits to increase if a hairbrush were used to seeminly motivate your male employees. At your own risk....

Michael:

Why are you even on this site? Don’t you see the pictures at the top of the postings? Do you see yourself as a missionary?

christine sounds angry with michael, michael wins the argument. its gotta be said hitting and punishing is morally dubious thats a good honest place to start.i think christine would be too easy to iritate she sounds aggresive and her lifestyle sounds like an outlet for this,that does not make for happy homes. One sided dominance is a euphemism for tyranny,now i like being spanked, my ultra together wife is someone I look up to, but i would never hand all control over to her,u gotta have some self respect self control and self reliance. Big Sister no thanks.

I see no argument here, and I am not made at anyone. I do object to attacks on others’ lifetsyles. When the lifetsyle is consensual,and does no damage to others, then there is not question morality. But judging others’ lifestyles on the basis of morality seems to be a sad fact of current life. What is interesting to me is that the person who decided who won the so-called argument did not post his/her name. My guess is that the she/he is Michael.

Go Christine! Your attitude and comments are right on target! It’s all about consent and communication along with being safe and sane … even if someone is “hurt” when spanked. Isn’t punishment supposed to hurt and make an impression?

Spanking makes the endorphins dance, and when they dance the said owner/spankee thinks clearer and feels better. Sounds like Michael has a lot of endorphins sitting around. Would anyone out there like to enable Michael’s endorphins to lead a more active life?

Finally, Someone who agrees with me. No, I did not leave that comment that said I won the argument. I can’t prove that I didn’t leave it but Richard should know—maybe—because the person had to have left an email adress inorder to post. Then again, maybe I’m wrong about that. Maybe you can post without that information. Yet, there is nothing that can take away that nice and truthfull comment that this person left about the subject. I know this because if I have anything to say about the subject, I will use my real name, unlike Christine who modified her own. Yes, my real name is Michael D. Hinojo. This is the name I post under. Guess what Christine, to a degree, everyone is judgemental. It seems you made up your mind about me just because I “questioned” your lifestlye. I have my “judgements” about it but doesn’t mean I hate you or anything. I just think you are weird—in my opinion of course.

By the way, a lot of people post without names. Feeling the pressure Christine. I’m giving you a psychological spanking!!! Just kidding, Just kidding, just kidding!!! I like to joke around. Christine. I think you are an interesting person. You are probably not a bad one but intereting. I don’t hate you or anything like that(nonjudgemental).

anonimity as a power base pass me the latex hood,sorry christin it was not michael who posted but litle ol passive me. As i said i enjoy being spanked sometimes,I could not agre more with what u said about morality bein used as a means to condemn others in these rightous days; but if u read my post i was not condemning you.I was raising a question which confuses me,certainly the precept that I know best therefore i can punish you would fit well with bullies and tyrants thru the ages. I’m saying that spanking should not be seen as a need but as a pleasure any other attitude is too self rightous for words. And theres my answer to the topic,no, b/f’s/hubs dont NEED to be spanked but can happily enjoy it. By the way the idea that women are in the ascendancy is comical look around the world a few cities in the US and UK does not make for a global movement, and women are probably doing better in schools because there more easily trained.

by the way i did not put a name because im lazy lzy ly no other reason honest

Dove:

I accept your word as true. That you are a lazy girl, and that’s why you neglected to post your name when you decided that I was angry. Please, therefore, accept my word when I repeat that I am not angry, just resolute.

Michael seems to be playing a game with himself. First he insults, then he backtracks, and says he is”just kidding.”

I admit that this annoys me, not angers me. I wish he would say clearly, once and for all, what he thinks about a man who chooses to be under the authority of a woman. I think he believes that such a relationship is unnatural.

As for the rise of women in authority, Dove, believe me when I say that all the statistics points in that direction. That does not mean that all women, or even most women, will soon be spanking their males.

It imsply means that a sea change is underway. I, for one, welcome it, since I have found that my authority of those men who choose to be under me very rewarding. But don’t think that such a position as mine is not without its burdens. I am responsible for assisting my males to reach their goals. Often that involves dealing out some very sound spankings. But it also involves dispoensing my love, affection and understanding, while not letting them off the hook of their ambitions.

This is what I do — and I love my work.

What do I think about these guys who submit—unfortuanate they do not know, in my opinion the way of true freedom. Keep in mind I have nothing against erotic spankings. Discipline is another story. Like women, men need to guidance but not this way. Men, like women, need to respect themselves. If a man was doing this to a woman, I am willing to bet you would be in an uproar. In my opinion, I think this is not a matter of discipline or guidence but power. Whoever has the most is obviously the better. I think, in my opinion, you are arrogant for thinking yourself higher than a man or somehow chosen to lead men into a better tommorrow. I’ve heard this rant before. A lot of men believe the way you do, that they must discipline their women to save them from whatever evil lurks in the world. I admit men are, at times childish, but so are women. I think our genders are so alike, that some women hate to admit that they are not much different nor no better than the opposite sex. Men are the same way. If it makes you feel better, I disapprove of men who hit their wives or girlfriends. I’m not onesided on this subject. A real man would never strike his wife or any women…unless it was life or death…or to save his own dignity. Speaking of annoying people. Remember, I only replied to your post, and I gave my hummble opinion, even if it was brutal or too intense. I’m not out to destroy your way of life, only question it. If you want to believe otherwise go ahead. Anything I’ve said to you has only been in a teasing manner. I never said it to hurt you. I just think, in my opinion, that you cannot take it when a man that doesn’t bow to any of what I consider nonsense. I’m sure you would like to spank the heck out of me. If this is true, why would you want to hurt me? I will repeat myself. I don’t care about playfull spankings. These are fine. I’m not that ignorant about the subject.

hello michael and christine Interesting discussion being had and im a lazy man christine with my tail wagging. it seems strange that christine feels there is a sea change occuring in the world, there is but its becoming more aggressivly masculine than ever,we have a new misoginist pope today not a great day for women.We have wars undreamt of when i was young and a rampantly masculine authority in control of America,where do u think it’s leading. The destruction of mens position in society was, imo brought about to enable the regaining of control by a male capitalist elite and now we all work harder with far less security.The world is burning and theres nobody to oppose the terrible things that are happening. Imo women have not gained from this, the real change in the world. Michael after much teasing has stated that playful spankings are fine and dandy but the idea that women are superior to men is as absurd as the idea that men are better than women,how can this be disagreed with,to do so ur gonna need some very hard evidence. The notion is intolerent; a state of mind that I’m sure Christine would denounce in any1 else and I would support her when she did,but ur personal life is not a template for any1 but you. The simple fact is we need each other I feel men and women are different with different qualities and faults, the secret is in combining these not in raising one above the other. X’s to all male female and undecided Dove

another add on im so undecided I had a play at being mistress on a chat room the other day I gave this man a terrible time (while pretending to be a woman)properly humiliated him. I did not find it sensual really I was sickened at the end by my own actions and the poor chaps pleasure in being humiliated.I feel that he was sick why would any1 accept being treated like that? He was disfunctional,he did not need discipline etc he needed therapy. So I Question, is manipulating that sickness ok because to me he needed help not exploitation.

Dove:

The sickness may be that you did something that is not natural to you. I don’t know what you said that could have made you feel bad. But whatever it was, don’t do it anymore. I ask only this: that you not not condemn, or criticize, others for doing things that you find distasteful when those very things make others happy.

Yes, the world is a mess, but its the only one we have, and women have done their part to make it a mess. The sexes have also done great and terrible things. Together, we have solved mysteries, cured deseases and found much happiness.

I think I will end this note, saying goodbye to you all. I believe we are off-topic, with no way of returning.

Be well

My wife has been the “spanker” in our household for some time. I have been the “spankee.” My wife finds that I am much more erotically attentive in every way after a good “warm up.” Our mutual affection for this erotic art began with a simple and naive pat on my fanny while we were making love. My only regret is that we didn’t discover this wonderful erotic dimension much sooner. My wife should have started me off on our wedding night (or even before).

His bare behind is made for correction

And its most approporiate direction

Is pointing up high

A-top of her Thigh

Being walloped to hot perfection

All young men (over 18 of course) can benefit from a trip across a womans lap from time to time. Be it a hand spanking or her hairbrush across his bare bottom, or the use of a strap or cane, he will be much more polite and respectful to ALL women when she is done.

I once had a girlfriend named Shirley. I went with her to visit a friend of hers named Diane. Diane was babysitting two young boys that were really bratty. As Shirley and I sat there with Diane the boys would not go to sleep after Diane put them to bed. She yelled at them to quiet down and go to sleep several times. Finally Diane got up from the chair and yelled out, “OK, I’m comminq up there and you’re qoing to get the brush!” It wasn’t long, and L heard the unmistakable sound of a hairbrush connecting with the skin of bare bottoms. It really turned me on, and I wonered what how it would feel to have Diane pull my pants down, take me over her knee and paddle my bare ass with the same hairbrush she had used on the boys. Two weeks later I met Shirley while she w s babysitting the same two boy. I could tell that she had spanked the boys before Ihad gotten there because I saw rhe hairbrush laying on the table. Shirley and L were hors9ng around and I finnally egged her into spanking me. Quicker than I could blink my eye, Shirley had me acrosss her knee with my hands pinned securely behind my back. Her spanking was a big letdown because she didn’t pull down my pants and spank my hare ass, and she didn’t pickup rhat hairbrush and paddle me with it. She only spanked me over my pants with her palm. 30 years later I still wonder and fanraxize about getting paddled bare from Shirrley with the hairbrush. I even think about what it may have been likr to have Diane paddle my bare ass with a hairbrush. especially one of those wooden ones that are known to raise welts and blisters. I’d love to experience a good hairbrush paddling while over a young woman’s knee.

I’d love nothing more than to have a strict young lady pull down my pants and underpants, put me acr0sssed her knee and light up my bare ass by paddling me with a wooden spoon, a biq wooden hairbrush, or even the heel of one of her flat heeled shoes. i,d like her to paddlle me hard and long until I’m crying real tears, and promising her that L’ii be a good little boy and do as I’m told.

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