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That don’t look like no spank’in on the cover.

Either that or you have some strange ideas about spanking.

I knew I was stretching things but I only have so many old paperback covers on hand. Oddly the ones I do have that just show spanking are just porn covers of the sort I won’t use for fear of having problems with my web host.

I probably have strange ideas about spanking as well.

Husbands should only be spanked if that is something which is agreed upon by BOTH the husband and the wife. It should NEVER be something that is forced within the marital relationship or used as an ultimatum.

It is a given that spankings and such are wholesome only in the context of safe, sane and consensual, whether role-playing or as part of a 24/7 lifestyle.

While a malesub may have some pretty wild imaginings no sensible domina would ever inflict harm as opposed to hurt.

I believe the Superior Amazon female has every right to spank her male sub

Well, this photo is not about spanking but about brutality so I regret that it is used to launch the discussion. Spanking by mutual consent in a committed marriage ought to be as acceptable as any other practice that both partners have agreed enriches the relationship. If the wife spanks as a form of discipline, then husbands should be spanked. We are as capable of poor judgment or behavioral mistakes as our spouses and equally in need of disciplinary correction. Such sessions should be administered only after fully-discussed, prior consent. If spanking is to benefit the marriage, both partners have to believe in the benefits provided. Many value systems support equality between the sexes. The Christian scriptures support the idea of mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21), a view that honors and respects both partners and that supports correction of the husband by the wife (also the other way around). A spanking should be given as a loving gift, carefully and thoughtfully, completely controlled while monitoring responses, never in anger, never sliding toward abuse, brutality, or disrespect of the one being disciplined. A spanking given for some purpose other than a disciplinary purpose should follow the same guidelines.

I’ve already said the the paperback cover choice was limited by what I had onhand. Not that many male submissives don’t find it exciting.

And I assume that worthwhile responses will come from people who know what safe, sane and consensual mean.

“Should”? Probably, yes, but not neccessarily.

“May”? Absolutely. If it works for both partners, it works. Nothing wrong with that. (Though I must say, my wife likes being the spankee more than the spanker.)

Yes, if it is an agreement in the marriage.

Only if they’ve been bad (which is most of the time) or if it excites them.

It’s worked very well for us.

Absoultely. Spanking can be a very effective tool for correcting poor behavior. It needs to be consensual and given without anger or a fit of temper. A woman is just as capable as a man for administering a good blistering to a bottom that needs it.

Husbands like me should be spanked often, as nothing excites me more than pain inflicted by a beautiful and desireable hand …

I think so as long as both partners agree on it. As Dorthy Spencer said in the Spencer spanking Plan “A modern whipping does a man good for several reasons First of all, there is the beneficial humiliation it causes. It is an act of complete submission. Just to stretch out obediently and get ready for the punishment does him good. Before the paddle is applied a single time—before a single stroke of the strap is delivered—the discipline starts being effective and beneficial for this very reason!”

consentual spanking between husband and wife is a quick and efectual solution for one who has misbehaved thus causing long periods of silence or extended qyarreling and bickering for days on end. once the deed is defined and the guilty party agrees, an over the knee bare bottomed session with a sturdy hairbrush takes only a few minutes and its over with the victim unable to sit down for a while.

cp is absolutely right.

Yeah, I definitely support the spanking of husbands. In my own failed marriage, I was spanked only as a mutually enjoyable feature of our foreplay. My wife and I had lots of fun with my bare bottom and my classic spanking submissiveness, but she could never summon the resolve to paddle me as hard as I paddled myself. It’s too bad, because I think a genuinely pro-spanking wife (ie. a wife who would’ve used spanking to discipline me) might’ve left me disinclined to reach out (but only through the mail) to female spanking enthusiasts. And if we’d stayed married, I’d presumably have had the several thousand dollars which I subsequently spent on professional spankings for other purposes.

So, certainly in theory, I think husbands should be spanked. But every relationship has its own interpersonal dynamic. As a physically and emotionally spankable man, I might well have been better served by a spousal disciplinarian quite willing to put me over her knee, but that’s not how it turned out. My wife and I had fun with spanking, but we only played at it. You have to figure that the husband who doesn’t somehow want to be spanked very likely isn’t going to be.

no,husbands should spank wives,not the other way round

This is an interest. I consider it a hamless interest.

arguments can be made either way. Now just to say that when my wife gets mad i should be spanked would be wrong ( and needlessly painful ). When she and I talk about the problem and alternatives, then the last resort spanking usually works well enough to open my eyes to the problem. She doesn’t spank often, but when she does it is for a reason and I usually know why. I also spank her when she gets out of line. This seems to happen to her more than me. I usually don’t talk as much before hand as she does but she knows why she gets spanked and I think it helps her to know that when i screw up, she can tan my hide also. It works for us.

Spanking and discipline should only be done within the confines of a relationship which both sides agree (even though the recipient will obviously have reservations). Done correctly it can not only alleviate built up tension and aggravations, but can be cathartic. Of course for many it will also add a little spice to the old “after punishment” moments. :)

Yes, but only if both parties are clear on why the paddle is being applied.

When I was married it took me years to be able to tell my wife what I needed. Only when we had other problems did it come out, and then it was too late. The fact that she is much more interested in the submissive side of things did not help.

For the last eleven years I have been involved with a women that knows how be in charge. We have a normal relateionship, but she is the senior partner. I think I could say that my status is much like a teenaged boy. I am not belittled or humilated in any way, but I do have rules (mostly common sense)and I’m punished when I go astray. My usual spanking though is about every other week, when I start to get moody.

Sometimes I wish this was not so confining, that I could have what I consider normal adult freedoms. But the fact is that I funciton better with the control, and even though I sometimes don’t like being across knees getting it quite soundly, I realize that without it I am just not truely happy.

What I’m trying to say is that for a man like me, the only way to make it work is with a woman that spanks. So ladies, if you think that is what he needs, give it a try.

I think if a husband feels as if he needs to be spanked it definately (sp?) good for a relationship. My husband and I nearly got divorced. The comment before about teh long silences was soooo true. I refused to talk to him for a week (forgive the immaturity of that I was 19) and he finally threw a belt at me and said just spank me instead. After two year of separation I mentioned in a friendly convo that if I’d paddled him then our marriage would have been okay. Now, 5 years later, he spends quite a bit of time over my knees and our marriage is finally a happy one. By denying our true nature (I was acting submissive and vice versa) we were making each other miserable. Now he’s a big manager in the office and my obedient husband at home. Most of the time ;)

Husbands need and crave discipline. The marriages that last the longest are the ones where the wife provides that discipline.

I personally don’t believe in either party hitting eachother. Marriage seems to be hard enought with out all of this nonsense. However, if a couple descides to use spanking in their marraige, both should get the same discipline, not just the man or just the woman. To me, when just the man or just the woman gets a spanking a caning or whatever, it is one sided and I believe it is selfish. The reason for this is because it is not done equally. Equallity is very important in a marriage. I don’t believe in this garbage of having a submissive wife or a submissive husband. I think there is so much conflict in marriages because men and women don’t think of themselves as eqauls. They are too busy trying to dominate eachother, saying crap like males are the supierors or women are better than men. Neither of that is true in my opinion. So, if spanking is to be given, it should also be recieved. Anything else would be deemed, in my opinion, wrong. I like what “red” had to say. If she gets her buns tanned, so does he. I like that because “red” sounds like he treats his wife like an equal and vise versa. In conclusion, spankings should only be given, aside from mutual consent and not doing it in anger and so forth, but in equality.

I think that the women is the supior over all men and should be told too do by the women with out question. If not obeyed by the women then the man should be spanked or diapered. What ever the women sais goes.

I would like to expand on why spanking is selfish, espescially when it is a one sided deal. Keep in mind, if you like the life style, hey, whatever tickles your feather is good. I’m just calling it the way I see it. Please, nobody try to get affended. I think when spanking is applied the spanker feels their needs are not being met. ” I want him to be this way. I don’t want the toilet seat down and so forth. Notice the key word “I”. That’s usaully the way it is, me, me, me, my, my, my, I, I, I. Sure it might get the husband to comply, but is his new behavior sincere? Is he behaving because he wants to do right for the sake of righteousness, or because he might get a red bottom, which brings me into the selfness of the spankee. The spankee is selfish because they are only doing what is right because they don’t want to get hit-“my butt this and my butt that.” In my opinion, they don’t seem to be doing right because they want to exercise morality, but are literally saving their own butts. No pun intended. I think both parties spend too much time on their own desires. Not that it is wrong to consider ones desires but if everybody gave, everybody would recieve. This opinion only applies to spanking life-styles where there is only one spanker and one spankee. Why do we have to hit? Aside from it being consential, if a marriage or any relationship cannot be won by reason, love, faith, and understanding then the relationship, in my opinion, is not worth it. When you have to hit inorder for someone to comply, espescially on a regular basis, one has to wonder why anyone is in a relationship. What is the worth?
Many people claim it brings a better marriage, sincere in all of its form. Somehow ,thanks to spanking, their marriage is more forfilling. My husband got swatted-praise the Lord. Now, he is a better and more obedient man. Gee, I could have the same affect if I went into a drug store and put a gun up to the cashiers face and said, give me your money. Of course he is going to comply. Try doing the opposite. Walk into the drug store and demand money with out the gun. The cashier will only laugh. In the same way, again, if you cannot reason with your husband, why bother. Is it discipline done out of love or some other desire brought on by selfishness. “ME, ME, ME. “Honey please do what I want, leave the toilet seat up or your going to get a swat. Chances are he’s going to comply. “Honey, please leave the toilet seat up because you love me, and it is a need of mine.” Will he comply? If he can’t do it because he loves you, then is it worth it? Did you reason, did you try to understand. Not literally folks. I’m not saying a marriage should be based around a toilet seat. I just wanted to use the best examle I could think of at the moment. I’m very tired right now. Anyways, that is just my four cents worth.

Mike you are so far off of the point it’s pathetic. Men who are spanked by the woman they are involved with want that kind of relationship. Far from being selfish, it is a very generous thing. It’s not like he’s getting this against his will.

You just have no idea and I’m not going to waste my time trying to explain it.

Don’t bother trying to explain it. I get it. Brain washing and abuse seem to go hand in hand with this selfish attitude. I hear the same stuff come out of womens mouth when men smack their wives around. My husband really loves me that’s why he does what he does. Hit a person in the butt, hey it’s discipline. Hit a person anywhere else, hey that’s abuse. Don’t worry, I’m not picking a fight. I respect your opinion very much ok. Don’t think I’m over here picking on anyone ok Bob. It’s just sad to me, to hear people say that they want to get hit, because they think they deserve it. Who knows, maybe they do, but I’m disappoited in the philosophy behind it. Husbands and wives, men and women, spend too much time punishing eachother, in my opinion, than excerising mercy. It is just in my belief, and no ones forcing you to believe it, just hear me out, that what you want is not neccessarily what you need. If it works for you, great. What works for one person does not always work for the next. Yet, I seriously doubt that hitting is the right answer. Who knows, one day, I might find a women to smack me around then have the nerve to tell me it was for my own good. What’s up with that? Life is so short, why hit eachother. Where does it end? If it is a matter of being a gift given in love and generousity, someone please direct me to the return department. I want my money back. Again Bob I’m not trying to be rude, I understand the “life style” very clearly. I just think it is sad. I heard your opinion, and I respect it, but darn, why would anyone want to be a punching bag all in the name of love and discipline?

You clearly do not understand how consensual spanking works. People do this for fun. Nothing else.

The lifestyle is called: safe, sane and consensual for a reason. I suggest you run those three words through Google before commenting again.

And you must realize many people are actually writing of fantasies, not something they’ve done or ever will do.

I ran those three words through google, and it says the exact same thing that I’m saying, absolutlely nuts. In case you didn’t realize webmaster, people are not just talking about fantasies here but actual disciplines. This is reality, and that is something I’m commenting on. This is not fiction. People actually do this, and not all of it is for fun. Playful spanking I have no problem with. It’s disciplinary spankings on grown men that I’m commenting on. That’s part of the reason why this poll was taken. Have you hever bothered to look up the topic of domestic discipline. That’s what this is, at least part of it. Twist it any way you want, but this is a truth—in my opinion of course. I get the life style. Some people are ticked because I called some people out on it. Further more, if it is so consenual, why are people whining about getting their whooping, yet at the same time wanting it. Sane, I doubt it. Safe, what is your definition of the word. It’s just an opinion. I’m going to follow my own advice after this post, and you can take the opinion for what it’s worth. If it is something, great! If it is nothing, great! In the end, what matters is what you think. The same goes for me. Sane, consenual, safe—compared to what. Like I said, just an opinion, even if it is harsh. One more point, why do the words, consenual, sane and safe even have to appear in the topic. Isn’t all of this a given if it is just fantasy? Peace out folks. It’s just an opinion, and I could be wrong, but it’s not worth getting into a heated debate. I just wanted to get my say, that’s all. No offense to any one. It’s just the way I see it. Don’t let it ruin your day.

“Further more, if it is so consenual, why are people whining about getting their whooping, yet at the same time wanting it. Sane, I doubt it. Safe, what is your definition of the word.”

I agree, I mean the consent of someone indulging an unwanted compulsion to be hit and/or humiliated (which doesn’t sound sane at all) seems pretty goddamn worthless to me. If you’re treating someone like a minor then you shouldn’t be playing sex games with them.

When I met my husband I found out shortly that he was still a bedwetter and while talking about his problem I realised that he was submissive and he agreed to my choosing what he wore to bed. I started diapering him then and have done so both at night and during the weekends for punishment as well as need and find that the cuter the diapers and panties the more sensual and loving that he becomes. I recently stated spanking him over my knees whe he makes me angry and we both find this fun and exotic for us. He is allowed no body hair below his fave and though it may sound strange we are very happy and have a baby coming in a few months so will have two in diapers.

If corporal punishment is an agreed and accepted part of a marriage or relationship, the husband reacts positively to receiving a spanking or a thrashing, and the wife is comfortable and controlled in administering it, then of course it should be practiced. But it should be a controlled and agreed situation. I have always been submissive and have always reacted well to physical discipline. In my first marriage, my wife would lose her temper and become violent. I did not react well to the situation, as she did not exert control. My current partner has much more self discipline. She realises my need for discipline. She makes the rules, but is fair and controlled. When I step out of line, she punishes me accordingly. It may be summary or more formal, but I am always told exactly why the spanking or thrashing is being carried out. Once the punishment is over, it is over, and there are no long periods of fretting on either side.

I’m watching the Moonlite Bunny Ranch right now on HBO 2 .What a trip!Love it!As for spanking men, you bet!! I’d beat his behind black and blue and make him give me his wallet,keys and savings book.Come here baby, give Mama some sugar!!! Bad dog! SMACK!

Hello, I am spanked,

I am spanked regularly by my wife and I thank God for it. We have been married 18 years and have the most fantastic marriage you can imagine. We date 4 to 5 times a week and tell each other how thrilled we are to be married to each other at least 30 times a day (and that is literal).

Having said all of this at times I can run right over her and not even know I am doing it. Also, I am sure 95% of all men do this (and men don’t ask your wives they will lie to your face about this). The problem is we have all the power and we know it. And when things get really tough we pull it out of our pocket and just squash our beautiful wives, often never really paying attention to what we just did. We almost think it is our birthright to do so. I did it for almost 18 years before I was blessed to find out the truth about myself from someone I know would never lie to me, my wife.

I then explored the “Discipline Wives Club” site and had her read it. While I must confess it sounded crazy at first, the more I read the more I knew it would be a real blessing to our marriage. It would level the playing field. No longer would I be able to run over her. No longer would she build up resentment. No more fights EVER! No more arguments EVER.

My wife loves me very much and would never do anything to ever permanently hurt me. What she does makes our marriage balanced and beautiful. If you think we are nuts email us at DWCinOhio@alltel.net and if you sound sane you I will email you a phone number to call us at and talk to my wife and myself.

I could say more but this could go on forever. All I’ll say is it takes a TON of guts to level the playing field. Most men just don’t have it. However for the few that do,life can be wonderful. It will take a while and it will be tough on both of you but in a few weeks you will become more aware of how you treat and speak to your wife and she will become more self-confident and believe it or not more loving.

The Truth, Bob W.

Would love to talk to other COUPLES who practice this lifestyle. We will NOT talk to men who call without the wife on the line. Women who would like to call my wife, Linda are welcome to.

Please email us so that we can find out if you are serious at DWCinOhio@alltel.net

Thanks, Bob

When I married my wife 16 years ago she made it very clear that she was going to be the dominant person in the relationship. I agreed even though I had no interest or knowledge about dominant/submissive relationships. I just thought I was humoring her and that all marriages naturally involved the man being the dominant partner. Six months into our marriage I realized how wrong I was. The first time she pulled me over her lap, yanked my shorts down, pinned my arm behind my back and swatted my naked butt with her formidable right hand I was ABSOLUTELY SHOCKED. (She is physically VERY strong and has no problem controlling me even though I’m in pretty good shape). It was extremely embarassing to me to have a woman discipline me in such a way and was even more mortified when she made me stand in the corner with my naked red behind on display. Of course I protested and tried to walk away but, before I knew it, was back over her lap for even more blistering swats. The second time she let me off her lap, I complied and stood in the corner without protest. You can only imagine the extreme sense of humiliation standing and facing that corner with my underwear around my ankles and I will admit to crying. Ulltimately I learned to accept and even enjoy my position in our relationship. I only get spanked about once a month but my wife keeps a wooden hairbrush on the coffee table just as reminder to me as to what will happen if I disobey her.I know this will sound insane to most men but this situation somehow works for us. My wife is convinced that most women should take the same initiative.

My Wife decided that certain ‘guy’ things annoyed Her. She told me that my lack of consideration for Her was ruining our relationship. She seemed to feel that all guys acted like i did.

i asked her what i could do. She told me two things: She wanted to discipline me physically when i acted in a manner inconsiderate and since she thought guys were so inconsiderate, she wanted me to turn into a girl as maybe that would teach me to be more considerate.

i didn’t understand Her. She told me that She would dress me as a girl, i would walk around the house like that for a while, then it would be time for a spanking, then corner time.

Yeah, i thought, if it makes you feel better.

Two weeks later, She came home from a daylong shopping trip with Her friends. Usually, She was exhaisted after one of those, but not this time. She ran upstairs, stayed there for a while, then called me up and yelled that She wanted me to see what She had bought me.

I went in the bedroom and there was laid out a lacy pink bra, matching panties, garter belt and slip. There was a pair of nylons omn the bed and pink high heels on the floor. She was dressed in a ‘no-nonsense’ white bow blouse and black, knee length skirt and heels

‘Let’s get you dressed and going’ she giggled I looked puzzled until She reminded me of what i had said earlier.

She had so much fun making me up and dressing me aand calling me ‘staci’ and wathcing me parade around the house like a sissy.

Then it came time for punishment. Yeah, ok whatever. i was in for a surprise. i didnt’t think she could support my weight across her lap while she sat in an armless chair (she could). i didn’t think she could hurt me with anything, but after numerous vigourous swats with a huge wood haribrush then a leather thing of some kind. She ignored my pleas to stop until She was atisfied, then it was into the corner with me.

We almost never bicker anymore. We have disagreements. If She is wrong, i get wiated on hand and foot while it’s game time. If i’m wrong, i’m her sissy for the evening and get punished.

Spanking and petticoating has saved our marriage

Hi ya’ll. I was just browsing ma nose around and found this site. All I can say is that this whole spanking thing is just a kicker. I can’t imagine myself hitting my husband, no matter how annoying he can be. i think a good argument is warrented every now nd then. What’s wrong with an argument now and then. I think women should have more respect for their husbands. Whatever happened to good old fashioned morals when it came to a marriage. Geez,, Sometimes men can be a pain in the ass but going around smacking them is a little out there, if ya know what I mean.

Sorry Laura, discipline is a necessary part of ALL relationships. But it can take many forms. It may be self discipline, knowing how to treat a partner, when to stop, not go too far etc. Or it can be enforced. In my case, I have a need for enforced discipline,and my partner has the strength and self discipline to impose it. She also recognises that I react best to corporal punishment (see my comments above) and administers accordingly. I may be considered weak by many, but I regard my recognition of disciplinary need as a strength. We argue, talk, laugh, cuddle, and make love like any couple, but we have balanced our relationship to suit us both.

Should husbands be spanked? If it works for you; go for it. Remember, spanking is a tool, a means to an end, not the end itself (no pun intended).

You know, there is a discipline involved in anything, true, but if discipline has to be enforced on a grown man in a child like manner, it is a shame. You are grown men and I don’t see how grown men can want such things. I just don’t regard hitting as discipline. Please spare me any bible references if you think of any.My husband and I don’t agree with hitting, period.

I agree that the “Savage Love” cover is a bit off point. Several years ago, there was a posting on some of the “alt.binaries” groups that depicted covers of a magazine called “Domestic Discipline” (actually, there were 2 different versions.) Both suggested that the contents of the magazine (no such existed) dealt with spanking husbands. Unfortunately, I don’t have the files. Maybe a reader does and can post.

Why not! I believe in corporal punishment for ALL disciplinary lapses; in school, in law, or in the home. I am 46, and my boyfriend, at 22 is considerably younger. I have my own property and he lives with me, therefore I dictate the rules. From the start I made him aware of my feelings, and whilst I love him as a partner, I find he needs firm correction to maintain respect, and I spank or cane him when I feel it is necessary. He may experience a certain enjoyment from this discipline, but if it keeps him in line, then the end justifies the means.

I wouldn’t consider this a discipline, no matter how sane it sounds. The end, “no pun intended,” does not always justify the means. Discipline, I think, is taken way out of context. Discipline is not universal in its ability to hit people, and I do not believe it should involve pain or humiliation. Some people say this works better for some and not for others. Tell me, do they know any different? I read some of the articles here and it is quite disturbing. My husband and I are getting a kick out of this. All in all I have to find the humor in all of this. What’s normal to one is not necassarily normal to the other right-girl friends. Just as a joke, I bought my husband a ping-pong paddle, then brought him into the bedroom and said it was acutually a great idea. I told him to take down hiw pants, because I was going to blister his behind. Then I said “Gotcha!” Then we played ping-pong on the new set I got. Play, I can see. Discipline, whooo, talk about communicating from outerspace.

Yes, I, believe it should be applied when necessary. I’m a macho guy in life,but years ago, my wife caught me playing with her panties,,and jumped on the opportunity to scold me like a little boy…ended up spanking me over her knee with a hairbrush, that left me crying. It changed our relationship and brought out the fact that I needed discipline in my life via her stern scolding and being put over her knee. She enjoys the ‘upper hand’ so to speak, and now knows that she is very effective in keeping me in line with her spankings. I find myself going over my wife’s knee a few times a week. Even if it’s only a maintenance ‘mood altering’ spanking before going to bed..or the severe hairbrush spanking that leaves me crying, for a specific naughty behavior. She also puts me in the corner after some spankings, while she watches TV..and sometimes sends me to bed early with a scorched bottom in a diaper..like a little baby ‘girl’..because she uses ‘pink’ baby panties over the diaper when she does that. Yes, her spanking and discipline is very effective.

If a man wants to get spanked, it should be possible and administered by a woman who is a femdom. this desire can be a combination of earlier means of disipline wnen growing up and the one desireing to get spanked is a means of relieveing frustration. many women want a whipping for the same reason. the process is painful while otk but is soon over and the act gets the results desired.

Men are little children that need the discipline of a good strong women. A happy fulfilling relationship is when a man finally finds a woman who isn’t afraid to express her dominering role and who takes charge of the situation at all times. A content man is a man who positions himself(bottom’s up) for his lady when she demands it and that his role is to be obediant and respectful.
More and more women are finding out the true secret of a positive longterm relationship. A man needs a strict no nonsense women who isn’t afraid to put him over her knee and administer a solid bare bottom thrashing. Men are little boys and need their mommy’s to guide them along. Once a man has found his mommy….he is in heaven. I have found mine.

Women are natural dictators who want nothing but power and money. I think men who allow women to boss them around as slaves are psychologically disturbed and should think of getting therapy. Men are not children but free spirits who do not follow the commands of women like a dog. Men are the superiors to women. It says so in the bible. I bow down to no woman

Most certainly. Just ask my husband. He toes the line in our household knowing what to expect for any divergence.He doesn’t have to look any further than my night table where I keep a large wood hairbrush in full view. We have a nightly ritual whereby William, now in his panties and nightgown and after cleaning up and putting the dishes in the dishwasher come to me in the bedroom.On closing the bedroom door he can’t help but see the thick leather, double length razor strap I keep hanging on the back of the door. I’m usually sitting at my night table on the straight back chair where spankings take place.Willaim never knows but could be asked to tell me of any misbehavior on his part during the day.The doubt serves to instill submissiveness. He’s learned the consequences of not being forthright.I decide if he is to be hairbrush spanked for any misconduct or for any observations on my part.He most often is allowed to go to bed without questioning but I never let a full week go by without doling out a good session with the hairbrush or strap to maintain my authority. Yes, husbands should be spanked.

Maude and I share the same attitude.Once you embark on disciplining your husband and he of course submisively accepts the punishment it should be rendered regularly. I keep my husbands conduct in strict control and allow no trangressions wihout responding immediately.It was just last evening when we were discussing my plans to invite my mother to visit with us for the coming weekeend when he audaudaciously remarked “hadn’t she just been here a short time ago?” I shot back “just what do you mean by that question?” He responded that he presumed it was too soon to reinvite her.I layed into him about his presuming any such thing regarding a decision on my part and instantly ordered him to the bedroom to strip bare for a well deserved beating which he received.I use an old English ebony wood hairbrush and with vigor especially when incensed over brazen speech. My point being, don’t hesitate to be vigilant in your resolve to keep your husband under tight cotrol. Once you let up he slowly reverts to his old independent ways.

With my live-in girlfriend, Diane, it doesn’t matter where we are or what we’re doing. When she deems that I have stepped out of line, she immediately applies correction to my bare bottom. It is her belief that a sound over the knee spanking must be administered on the spot. For most of my spankings she uses her oval wooden hairbrush on my bare ass and thighs. Diane generally carries it in her purse wherever we go so that it’s good and handy should she find a need to give me one of her on the spot paddlings. I’ve been paddled by her many times in front of our friends both in our home and when visiting them at their house. She has also taken me out to the car when shopping at the mall and blistered my bare ass in the back seat. If it wasn’t for the security guards, she’d probably haul me into the ladies room to bare my ass and blister it right there in front of all the other women who happened to be in there at the time. On occasions when she changes purses and forgets to bring the hairbrush along, she will take off one of her flats and tan my bare ass with it. That really gets me howling. It leaves my bottom very sore and covered with purple heel shaped welts. There have been other times when she wore spiked heels and her hairbrush wasn’t handy that she asked me to remove my wide leather belt and hand it to her. Then she orders me to take my trousers off, and to bend over or get up and kneel on an armless chair facing the back of it and my hands gripping the back of the seat. She then pulls my underpants down to my knees and proceeds to give me a severe strapping which has me crying in no time, and always leaves my bare ass and thighs covered with black, blue and purple belt width stripes. Once we were visiting her girlfriend Shirley who witnessed me get my ass tanned by Diane with the hairbrush. After it was over, I had to spend an hour in the corner with my fire red ass on display, I was informed that next I’d be getting it from Shirley. Boy, did I ever catch it. Shirley took me over to a straight back chair where she sat and patted her knee with the wooden bath brush she was holding. I knew that meant that I’d better get myself over Shirley’s knee, which I did, and then she gave me an ass blistering which left me unable to sit for several weeks. Diane has also paddled Shirley’s husbands bare ass and on more than one occasion. I’ve gotten my bare ass tanned severely by other female friends of ours. It makes no difference where Diane and I might be, when she thinks I need correcting, she doesn’t waste any time in pulling my trousers and underpants down, turning me over her knee and giving me the blistering ass paddling she feels I need. I love Diane because she cares enough about me to correct me if I misbehave. She spanks me in front of others to enhance my embarrassment and humiliation so that I’ll think about repeating any bad behavior in the future. All our female friends are allowed to spank me so I remember to respect them just as Diane has me respect her. I don’t feel that I deserve anything less for the way I tend to act up at times.

You misbehave because you want to be spanked. Admit it you little wanker.

If you always treated her with so much respect that she didn’t need to punish you then you’d really whine.

husbands should be spanked when necessary. a good whipping clears the air in a hurry. the bottom which has been spanked hard stings a lot and you need a pillow to sit down but the chances of repeating whatever you did to displease her wont be repeated

I always spank my boyfriend on the bare bottom across my knee..whether he likes it or not. Sometimes, I spank him like this in front of my girlfriend.It embarasses him, but it makes him behave!

when necessary i get a good spanking by my wife. she orders me across her knees and spanks me bare with a hairbrush. over the years she has become most efficient knowing just how hard and the exact spot which stings the most

when necessary i get a good spanking by my wife. she orders me across her knees and spanks me bare with a hairbrush. over the years she has become most efficient knowing just how hard and the exact spot which stings the most

I think that boys/mens schould be spanked from theirs girlfriend or wives. I am an boy/man of 50 and lives alone. I schold wish I had Laydy or Mistress with cold smack, cane or paddle my buttocks when I am doing some wrong thing or have disobeyed her. My favourite is the roleplay og “Teacher and School boy”. My Mistress schold be dressed strickt as a school mistress and I would be dressed as an school boy with shirt, short trousers and white knee socks. Then my Mistress scold order me in different spanking positions with my shorts and underpants at my ankles. After I will be put in the corner for sometime. That is my dreams. But I must admit that Laydies are the best spankers.

But of course he should. :)

Aloha I am a Husband who is spanked by my wife most times its more of a tease type game, but when the pants come down the game is over my wife does not play when she spanks she does it hard and there is no warm up just hard stinging spanking, she uses paddles and cane mostly but it has improved our marriage and when iI get rude or load its time to change the volume and adjust the Attitude,We have a couple friends in california who when we go there help to reenforce that I sould not talk or treat her with disrespect, And they blister Back side till I can’t sit down I LOVE my wife and respect what she and these lady have shown her to get me to become a much better Husband I not always nice but when I get way out of line I submit to her spanking me because it help her to feel I truly care about her feelings and she gets to unload some anger and flustration on my Back side so we both learn to be more aware of each others hurt we caused hers mental and mine physical OWCH!!

I am 26 and not married but I have spanked more boyfriends since my teens than I care to remember. It is an old saying but men are like little boys at heart and need a good spanking to understand who really controls the relationship. They say you should never spank in anger but I almost always spank in anger and find it the best way to destress. Some guys I have met have freaked at the prospect of a spanking but most accept it. To be honest though, I much prefer spanking a guy who is reluctant or has never been spanked before - what a buzz I get that first time. As to what I use, most often a hairbrush or paddle that I made an ex purchase for me when I was 17. I have experimented with outer things but generally find some quite scary such as canes and riding crops - though I like to make a guy scream and yell I do not want to cause him lasting damage - a bum like a baboon is enough - lol. As I am quite petite my hand does not make a big impression. So that is my experience and views on spanking, I think it is something every girl/woman should try once and many will enjoy more than they can imagine. If in doubt sisters go for it!!!

I think wives should spank their husbands, and cane them too if necessary. the most submissive wife sometimes needs her husband to learn a lesson and correct a behavior which botehrs her. He certainly feels a relief to finally get an unambiguous message from her. I just hope there is plenty of hot genuinesly loving sex afterwards!

Sometimes when my husband is bad, I’ll spank his bare bottom in front of my girlfriend. It embarasses him, but she loves it… and it makes him behave.

My wife and I are not into female domination and BDSM, but she does consensually give me a bare bottom whipping from time-to-time. We only use thin, light paddles that sting like fire but don’t really bruise or mark my bottom other than leaving a bright red color and a day or two of residual soreness. We enjoy and have incorporated this role reversal activity into our intimate lives. Most of our discipline sessions have romantic overtones, but I will let her soundly blister me for real discipline when we decide it is appropriate. We’re both reserved about intimate activity outside of marriage, but certainly give it its proper place within our relationship. Being long married and still in love, nudity is part of that intimacy, so I am always completely naked when my wife turns me across her knees for a thorough and somewhat embarrassing spanking. I may want and consent to the paddling, but the male ego still is a bit shamed at the juvenile treatment. I believe the original question was, “should wives spank their husbands?” For us, the answer is yes if it is consensual and desired by both spouses.

A husband should only be spanked if his wife gives him an enema afterwords followed by a good fucking with a strapon.

I strap and whip my male wife(mw) only when he disobeys or fails to meet my housekeeping standards. I take my time delivering each hit with the instrument being used to make sure it hurts. It does not matter what he promises or how bad it hurts him. The idea is to cause him to try real hard not to repeat his error again. He frequently will go 3 to 5 months being a nearly perfect mw. All sex is when I want it and how I want it.In my case I am very dominant and successful.