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Oh! Me me! waving hand in the air I can answer this one!

Yes.

I like to be spanked, the first time I was 17 and gave my boyfriend a hairbrush and draped myself across his knee to find out what happened. He was shocked I think, as we had never discussed it, but quickly figured out what to do. After that I never looked at it as anything but a part of sex and never worried about what anyone else thought either. I don’t give very well though, it isn’t in my makeup. I am certainly not a switch, though I have tried for the sake of harmony and while it feels good to be able to bring a man to orgasm over my knee, it doesn’t really do anything for me. And I’m a girly girl, I like the man to be in charge and that means I get spanked. What better way to wind down a stressful day or relax after being wound up, what better way to jump start sex than with a nice spanking. And when nice isn’t enough, move on to something harder. But I have no desire for a female to spank me, females are for other things and being spanked by one isn’t my idea of a good time because girls can be mean when they spank!

As to having anyone run, I realized the other night that I have never in my life or in any partner had one say no to anything I wanted to do. Maybe left speechless yes, but never said no.

And sometimes I am just in a really cranky mood and being not so nice a spanking is a good way to bring me right back to where I am supposed to be in a hurry.

Then there is the whole world of over the edge of furniture, over the knee, a belt, a crop, a cane and and and… I could talk for hours about this. Being spanked for any reason, is all good for me.

there’s nothing wrong with a good spanking.

All things being equal, I think I’d consistently choose to be spanked if it had to be one or the other - getting or giving. That’s not to say that I wouldn’t love the chance to pull down a naughty girl’s jeans, put her over my lap and smack her pantied bottom before sliding her undies down to at least mid-thigh, et cetera. But I’d probably feel awkward and self-conscious because it’s been a fantasy for so long and I’ve had essentially zero experience in living it out.

On the other hand, getting spanked is one of the things I do best. I just slip into the role of a naughty 12-year-old (or thereabouts) boy like I invented it! There’s nothing at all affected about it. It’s just my natural submissive self being allowed to frolic in a safe haven where my saucy bottom is the star attraction. :) In that sense, spanking is as much a part of who I am as my blood type.

The sting is a narcotic for me. I just want more and more and more of it. And my spankings aren’t overtly sexual. I don’t climax during a spanking; that’s not the attraction for me. Getting spanked by my maternal disciplinarian is an incomparable tonic for my spirit. Lying bare-bottomed across her lap introduces me to my truest sense of self.

To that extent, I’m quite sure I’m very much a product of a spanking-deprived childhood. Spankings were only ever threatened (by my mother and my oldest sister, sometimes explicitly ‘asking’ if I ‘wanted’ my pants pulled down), and meantime, my fascination with the baring/positioning and reddening of a naughty bottom laid siege to my imagination. By the age of 13, I’d begun spanking myself.

Anyway, I guess I answered the question. You can find me at

I just LOVE it when she spanks me!

I appreciate so much the comments of Bookish posted on June 14 under “Should Wives Be Spanked.” She wrote thoughtfully and eloquently, covering many facets of our special impulse. She identified the “relative embarrassment” all of us feel who have a deep need for treatment in a manner that is humbling, submissive, sometimes painful, typically embarrassing, always loving. The abiding desire for a stinging, reddened bottom, and the affection and acceptance that go with it, are, I believe, both genetic and experiential. This need will not go away—we need to state that and pursue it within the context of a committed relationship. I hurt for the male correspondent—on the same site—who spent 1000s of dollars on professionals then still had to face a failed marriage.

Bookish observed that to acknowledge this need and to incorporate it into her life has made her stronger, something that certainly matches my experience. I am a middle-aged, professionally successful male who likes/needs to be spanked by a devoted wife. Communication about this need requires great personal discretion but also the kind of support available at sites like this.

Like Bookish, I am not crazy. And I am blessed to know that I am not alone. I need simply to be taken in hand over a beautiful, loving lap.

I fantasise about being spanked the thought of bending over someones knee & slowly having my panties pulled down exposing my bottom while being lectured on my sins, the anticipation of that first stinging smack followed by one after another leaving a a sore & scarlett bottom. The stinging that lasts for hours.

I am a self spanker, my husband reciled in total horror the one & only time I draped myself across his knee & begged.

I’d like to do both, but I’d much rather be the one being spanked. like ‘spanky’ said: there’s nothing wrong with a good spanking

I would much rather get a spanking. Being over a knee for a good punishment just seems to take my troubles away and makes me concentrate on being a good boy

i spank myself daily and it fills me with sexual fantasies

Being spanked is abandon to bliss, the mind goes blank, the fantasies are realized, the games are afoot. Ohh god! Pure pleasure, no thinking necessary. What could be better… But is it too easy? It is tough to spank,to respect the limits, not to abuse the trust. The anxiety of pushing just a little further. It is truly the giving of a gift, the deliverance of joy and the satisfaction from a job well done.

I can get my wife to spank me on occasion, though she chooses to never be spanked. I am lucky enough to have a longtime friend who will also go either way and a safe place to play and I sometimes wonder what it would be like to enjoy spanking as often as I would like.

My wife takes me over her knee for a bare bottomed spanking as foreplay (or five-play as we call it) before having sex. On one occasion two years ago, our maid (who comes to do heavy cleaning once a month) walked in on us as I was draped over my wife’s knee and my red bottom facing her as her hand was raised high in the air walked in and froze. My wife apologized to her and said I had been acting like a spoiled brat lately. Maria who is around 60 smiled at Susan (45) and said she knew exactly what she meant. Just then my wife brought her hand down hard and resumed my spanking as Maria turned and closed the door as she left. I wonder what she thought as her last image of us was both of us naked, and my 6’0” wife tanning her 5’9” husband (40) over her knee. We had a great love making session afterwards as my wife rode me (grinding my poor bottom into the bed spread) to a memorable orgasm.

I have only been spanked twice in my life, both times I was in my late teens. I was caught having sex in my uncles living room.I got a spanking for that as that sort of activitity was not tolerated under his roof. The second time I got spanked I was arguing in the street and was told to come in. I went back into the house but then started giving him a load of abuse, swearing and stuff. He hit me again. Made the mistake of telling him that didnt hurt. So I got his belt across my bare arse, as I can remember It was uncomfortable to sit down for a while after that. Since then I have challenged older males in authority, I seem to have tried to push them , hoping that they will give me what I need. My husband has told me that I am going to get a spanking off him, for writing dirty letters, and watching porn channels. Maybe this is what I need. Maybe I will becoime a more obedient wife, and will not give him so much cheek if I knew that I was going to get a severe spanking for it

I have never done this before. My spanking fantasies are so personal. I have never been spanked as an adult. I did actually ask for one one time, and my boyfriend has caught me on the internet, and he has actually threatened, but never done it.

So I must settle for reading about it.

I love to spank and in our marriage of 22yrs I spank her each friday night it always leads to a great weekend for us both.

i wont a spanking.I’m a male 17 and from scotland. and i just love spanking so if anyone wonts a spanking, e-mail me

siy247@aol.com

I love to be spanked! When I have been lax in housework or paying the bills, nothing relieves the guilt and pressure like my husband putting me over his knee for a good spanking. Not only do I want it, but usually need it. But sometimes it’s just for fun, too, and sometimes I will spank him on the bare bottom. I would much rather be the one getting my bare bottom spanked, though

I would love to explore the possibilities of erotic spanking. My fantasy is over the knee,with the hand. I have a wonderful, very sexy and masculine lover. I would LOVE to be spanked over his knee by his strong hand. I told him of my desire, and true to his passionate nature, he was more than willing.Unfortunately, our time alone was very short, and now we are online lovers seperated by thousands of miles. I still long for the chance to fullfill my spanking fantasy…someday. Just the thought of being with him in that way, is enuf to stir very erotic sensations. I think sex would be really hot after a spanking session.

It has always been my fantasy to be spanked over a strong man’s knee. I finally got up the nerve to ask my husband, but he refused and said it was ‘violent’. He refuses to see how much I want this. Any suggestions.

i enjoy being spanked, at least in my dreams,my wife doesn’t think real people do this and i can’t afford a professional femdom. i have occasionally been spanked by strippers in lap dance situations, but that is so short a time as to not be worth the money for it! The only women i know, in the scene, are pros or not interested in a fat, old, kinky, white sub like me. i do still administer self spankings but they are rare since they really don’t excite me …

first, spanking is a great thing depending on how it is givin, over the knee is the best way with a hand,hairbrush, or belt, but not a can or a switch. Women could do a spanking if it is your mother or aunt or gandmother, but women should not spank men,spanking should be given in 3 circumstances, either when she is naught( this usually being the most severe), as a maintence spanking( this ussually being hard, but softer then a naught spanking) and as a sex thing ( this usually being playful, this should also be done with the males hand)

I love to be spanked and have asked my husband to spank me. Occasionally he will give me a few little swats but not enough to satisfy my craving! The last time I pushed him, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law were living with us. He told me he would make my BIL spank me and I dared him. That evening, I was being my normal bratty self and of course I had to be a brat with my BIL and SIL. The next thing I knew my husband was holding me over his knee and my BIL was using his belt on me. He must have spanked me for about 10 minutes non-stop. Before I could catch my breath, he handed his belt to his wife and she started in. She spanked me for another 10 minutes and that hurt worse than him doing it. Maybe because she was my best friend too, and I didn’t want her to be mad at me. They finally got done and my husband let me go. I thought it was all over and when I finally got my crying under control and back to normal, my BIL grabbed me and held me while my husband paddled my butt for a good 20 minutes. I was hurting so bad. I couldn’t sit for over a week without hurting. I didn’t ask for another one for a long time. Now it’s been several months and he won’t do anything. It’s driving me crazy. It’s not a sexual thing for me, I just love the sting of it, and the release of all the stress. This is the first time I’ve told anyone about this. I hope no one thinks I’m crazy.

I love being spanked by my husband. But then I also like spanking my husband

my wife really enjoys being spanked. I have always had the desire for her to spank me as well. She had popped my butt once or twice but never really serious. One time I had just gotten out of the shower and she had been talking to me. I replied with some smart* comment. The next thing i knew she burst into the bathroom yanked my arm down and swatted my behind hard about 5 times. Wow did it sting and feel good at the same time. Years went by with just a playful swat from her now and then. I still spanked her for real when she needed it. I finally asked her for a real honest to goodness ass whooping. She said no problem. She started smacking my ass with each of the implements we had to see which i ” disliked ” the most. It was to be a sort of discipline spanking. She found the paddle that best suited her and i and started on my butt. She was really laying it to me and then she suddenly stopped. She said she couldn’t do it and left the room. Now she won’t even let me spank her and won’t even discuss spanking me again. So be sure you know your partner before you bring this up.

I have been spanked on many occasions and I love to give and recieve them. In fact, I just got spanked by my girlfriend with hand, hairbrush, bathbrush and cane. My butt was real sore. Then I made her sore.

First off, I’m a pretty vanilla guy. People ask me what my biggest fantasy is and all it really is is a pretty girl coming over to my place at 10:20, staying there til midnight and then her turning into a pizza.

It’s fun to spank women. Over the years I’ve spanked a few (all girlfriends) and it’s a bit surprising to know how they enjoy it. It may be just a playful smack on the butt when your out walking together producing an “OOH!” from her or an extended session where she’s naked and draped over your knee, groaning with delight as you wallop her. I don’t practice the BDSM lifestyle and don’t get off on hitting women anywhere but their bare behinds. As far as receiving, I’ve been smacked on the butt by women or been pinched; but no woman has ever expressed the desire to put me over her knee and the idea of it does nothing for me.

spankings like any thing else can be good or bad as long as it’s not taken to th extreme. nothing wrong with it! i say enjoy!

I love to be spanked. I have since early adulthood. I have acted out my fantasies many times and in many ways. I mostly like erotic, but punishment spankings have their place, too. I like the feeling of temporarily giving up control, I lke the sound of the spanks and the rhythm, I like the sting and the warmth. If erotic it is relaxing and fun. Punishment spankings are by their very nature more intense. But all spankings are worthwhile and beneficial. I will never give them up.

It is funny that I ran into this log today. I am currently on my way to my slaves apartment to give him a good paddling with a wooden paddle. For some reason it turns me on to spank and keep spanking till that butt turns nice and red. He got me started by buying me a leather paddle and asked me if I knew how to use it. I bent him over and spanked him hard and asked, “Do you mean like this?” He begged me to do it harder, stripped his pants to the floor and I went at him. Paddling him has been a part of our sex life ever since. He’s very obedient now and we are in a Master/Slave relationship that has lasted over ten years.

GREAT log love the fresh scent of realism.See my comments and views on sm video of female star Cameron diaz .How i would enjoy the pleasure of spanking caning and slippering her beautiful naked bottom.Love emilyelise to reply.Also tweety,naughtygurl can i have her views on the male/female they would like to take over their knee and administer a firm spanking.Also can Simon reply to my e-mail.I would like to spank anyone who would enjoy it. Male or female.Although i have never spanked a male or bein spanked myself.I would like to experience the feeling of the sting in the tail.Who would you like to spank who is a celebrity.Answers to the site.or alternatively e-mail me at jim6surrey@lycos,com cheers stevense19

Why choose? I love to get a good spanking from my wife now and then as that is the only spanking activity she will participate in. She loves to turn my bottom red with the implement of choice, followed by hot sex. When I want to spank, I see another woman who is happy to have her bottom warmed. No sex for me outside of marriage, but it’s still fun to see her squirm.

I’ve spanked guys and also gotten spanked by them and I love it. This has been a fetish of mine since junior high school. I liked getting spanked more than giving them (though I like both) because I like giving up power to the other guy. Unlike bondage where a person is tied up, to voluntarily be over a guy’s lap for a spanking suggests submitting to him and I like giving up my power to that guy and taking whatever he administers, whether it is with his hand, a paddle or a strap. I like it all. There doesn’t have to be role playing or even any talking but it can add to the experience.

We are a married couple, in our 29th year, we love scolding and spanking play, and we switch roles as needed. We attended several Shadow Lane parties when they were still being held in Los Angeles, and to say we had a FUN time acting out in the public areas at the parties would be an understatement! ;-)

So, if you enjoy spanking play, go for it,

The Warmest of Regards, Uncle M., and Auntie C., the Red Pearls, staying nice and Warm in Southern California (|)

I would love to be spanked on my bear bottom and put over some ones knee. Mostly with a hand but would work up to a paddle, hair brush, or what ever.I prefer a female to give me the spanking. It would have to be a long hard spanking and brought to tears if she were willing to spank me that hard.

Since i have found this site and placed my comments I was looking for some constructive replies as to date no one has replied. My comments in precis form.What do the people think of celebrity spanking ?who would you like to spank on their bare bottom.Male or female. My choices are as folows: Kylie Minogue,Shania Twain,Tanya Tucker,Leann Rimes.Tara palmer Tomkinson angie Best.Kelly Brook and finally Nell McAndrew. Those are my choices . What are yours.?

in reply to emilyelise posted onjuly19 May i suggest you playfuly tease him and maybe if you tease him enough he will agree to your fantasy just for a quiet life. If all fails offer to spank him.post the results to the site.As for naughty gurl I agree otk is the best.Do you need a spanking./ Now for tweety great story more please.

inreply to borgmann aug 8th .Does it have to be a female ?Or would a male be acceptable.

I am spanked regularly. I am a very feisty attractive female who takes great pleasure in teasing men when I am out, bending over in short skirts and no panties. I have a boyfriend who spanks me regularly, he says that in order to curb me of flashing my bare bottom, he is going to make sure it is well marked and stays that way. He starts off with his hand over his knee, then I am sent to the corner. Then back to be bent over the bed for a session with the paddle, then his belt. Of course I always promise to never ever do it again, but he is a determined man, very sexy and dominant and will not be stopped once he begins a discipline session. I am often taken up my ass after, which hurts a little, as it is intended to, but I usually have a terrific orgasm later. Domestic discipline is a very important part of our life, I can’t imagine what trouble I would get up to if I did not often have to consider having a blistered swollen ass.

Spanking is a great part of our marriage. My husband takes me over his knee for a good spanking at least once a week. Most of the time it’s with his hand, but once in awhile he will use a folded belt. I look forward to him giving me my spankings and get all excited for hours before hand. The spankings are long and steady and this helps to remind me who’s the boss.

Yes, we should be spanked.

A Spanking should be givin to anyone who wants one. No judgements. The.word Spanking is enough to give goose bumps. Never gave nor received but would love too. Any females from the Philadelphai area?

Love spanking.Would like to get an extremely severe hand spanking OTK and bare.

Hi, I am back still thinking about the spanking I wish someone would give me. I love reading about it but ot only makes me want one even more.

I have been interested in spanking for sometime now and it has been hard for me to find someone to share the same fantasy with me. If I were to chose to be spanked or be the spanker i wuld chose to be the spanker and have a girl over my knee while i pull down her panties to expose her delicate bottom.

I love being disciplined. My husband gets very annoyed when there is something I should have done untouched. He immediately bends me over his knee or furniture or doggy style on the floor and depending on how angry he is he uses his hans or a leather belt. I generally find it very sore after a punishment and I can be bruised for several days at a time. Then on Saturday night, I have to wear sexy lingerie and I get a good whcking as a maintenance session, even if I have been punished. I must say I feel great about it though sometimes it can be awkward. I was recently in hospital with pneumonia and when I was getting injections, they thought I was a bettered wife and I had a Social Worker in to see me. I had to tell her I fell down the stairs. I am now due for another spanking because Peadar, my husband has read this over my shoulder and he has just seen that I told a lie. So its drop the panties afain and I am going to get spanked.

Hello, I am spanked,

I am spanked regularly by my wife and I thank God for it. We have been married 18 years and have the most fantastic marriage you can imagine. We date 4 to 5 times a week and tell each other how thrilled we are to be married to each other at least 30 times a day (and that is literal).

Having said all of this at times I can run right over her and not even know I am doing it. Also, I am sure 95% of all men do this (and men don’t ask your wives they will lie to your face about this). The problem is we have all the power and we know it. And when things get really tough we pull it out of our pocket and just squash our beautiful wives, often never really paying attention to what we just did. We almost think it is our birthright to do so. I did it for almost 18 years before I was blessed to find out the truth about myself from someone I know would never lie to me, my wife.

I then explored the “Discipline Wives Club” site and had her read it. While I must confess it sounded crazy at first, the more I read the more I knew it would be a real blessing to our marriage. It would level the playing field. No longer would I be able to run over her. No longer would she build up resentment. No more fights EVER! No more arguments EVER.

My wife loves me very much and would never do anything to ever permanently hurt me. What she does makes our marriage balanced and beautiful. If you think we are nuts email us at DWCinOhio@alltel.net and if you sound sane you I will email you a phone number to call us at and talk to my wife and myself.

I could say more but this could go on forever. All I’ll say is it takes a TON of guts to level the playing field. Most men just don’t have it. However for the few that do,life can be wonderful. It will take a while and it will be tough on both of you but in a few weeks you will become more aware of how you treat and speak to your wife and she will become more self-confident and believe it or not more loving.

The Truth, Bob W.

Oh yes.. spank me.. anytime, anywhere. the feel of a hand on my back side is so very erotic to me. i crave and desire it often. i have yet to be spanked to orgasam but am sure it can happen. do i like to spank others, no, personally it holds nothing for me. my excitement comes from being spanked or watching another get spanked.. and yes, using a paddle works well also. smiles.. bring it on i say!

Ever since I could remember, I always had this naughty boy fantasy of getting caught and turned over her knee with my shorts down. However painfully em-Bare Ass-ing it was being paddled til my upturned bare bottom was burning and stinging red, I was so submissively arroused that it became a loving romantic/erotic fantasy. In my early 20’s, I met this really hot gal named Brandy. I was helplessly seduced by her buxom thighs and wicked nylon stockings. I loved wearing real snug short shorts and show my sexy legs off to her as I told her my taboo fantasies. To my delight, she understood, saying how she dreamed of administering nasty and humiliating corporal punishment to naughty boys like me. To make the long story short, I really learned what it was like being turned across her lap as she put her hairbrush to my bare airborne derrie. I was crying tears of joy while kicking my schoolboy legs like a soundly spanked schoolgirl. My bottom was so burning red and sore, I couldn’t sit down the next day without a fiery reminder. I’ve had many more embareassing experiences over various women’s knees. I’m looking for someone new who shares my feelings about good, hard spankings over a stern ladies’ lap; possibly that dream-come-true LTR.

My husband and I have a great relationship. When we were first married we agreed that I would be the one to decide on the spanking routine. As it turns out, since it was up to me, it’s almost always him who gets one. I can tell you that giving him a spanking once a week sure has helped our marriage. We rarely fight or argue, not nearly as much as our friends do, and yet he is still very much a man to me and to others. It’s our little secret and we like to keep it from our friends.

Once a week, usually on the weekends, is when I decide to give it to him. I vary it between the living room, the bedroom or the den, but I’m usually wearing my short skirt or medium skirt. I almost always use my hand, but on occasion use the hair brush or paddle.

The first 50 - 100 swats make him very nervous and wriggly. It’s between the 100 - 200 spanks that he settles down and allows me to have my way with him. When we were first married the spankings were softer and shorter, but now that I know he can take a lot, I give him a lot. There are a few times when I start to talk about it on a late Thursday or early Friday which gets him totally excited about the weekend.

On a more personal note, we usually make love afterward and he is a very, very attentive lover. On some occasions, and when I feel that he deserves it, I will allow him to orgasm while he is over my knees. I’m not nearly as tall as he is and I know that he could stop me if he wanted, but as I say, this has really helped our relaitonship. He told me early on that there wasn’t much a thing better in life than being taking over my knees and shown how much I love him, and I always make it interesting for him during rest periods which makes it a whole lot interesting for me, since after the spanking he is always ready to please me however I want. Spanking is a nice activity. I recommend it for most couples, especially the ones who fight occasionaly or who don’t appreciate each other enough.

Thank you.

I am a romantic male sub, age 39, who has been delightfully haunted by marvelous fantasies of being spanked over a superior woman’s knee since childhood. In my view, women are undoubtably the supreme sex, and I envision an incredible future where women rule and the enslaved men must submit.

My dominant woman is Tara Wilkins, a dedicated female supremicist in her mid 30’s. We’ve now been seriously discussing our future LTR plans. Tara is wonderfully sexy, but also has made it clear who will be wearing the pants. I’ve been strictly disciplined as her house boy/French maid, and must be crossdressed in little girl’s snug fitting short shorts and knee socks.

I have been receiving much firm corporal punishments across her buxom lap. She is dressed as a superior authority figure in her mini-skirts and wicked black stockings. My shorts and panties are lowered as I dangle helplessly off the floor, with my bare bottom turned upward in the proper position. My fanny began to turn red hot as she put her hairbrush to it. The smacks really hurt as I helplessly wriggled, kicking my shaved girlie legs like a very naughty school girl, getting exactly what she has coming to her. My poor spanked bottom was burning and stinging beyond belief. I started to drift off into another world.

However embareassing our loving ritual is, I love it as my own romantic/erotic Femdom D/S fantasy come humiliatingly real. We are now considering a possible Femdom Marriage, where I will become the submissive boy wife. I’m naturally scared, but I’m also very inspired by her beautiful domination over me.

The fate of my adorable bare bottom will rest in her stern, comforting hands. I see us as the Femdom Couple of the future - at least mine.

A really hard whipping on the bare bottom gets me very hot. I’ve been spanked with paddles, straps, and switches, but what I fantasize about is having my bare bottom caned by a beautiful woman. I’d be quite pleased to switch places and give her bare bottom a good stiff swishing in return. I think canings are exquisitely sexy.

I have been a spanker and spankee. I prefer the latter.

I have known that I liked to be spanked since early childhood. By adolescence, I became aware that I could be aroused by images of spanking, or by reading about it. As a teenager, I spent hours in the library perusing articles on corporal punishment that I found in the Readers Guide to Periodical Literature.

I got my first adult spanking from a professional dominatrix. Later, I had a girl friend who spanked me on occasion. She would take me across her knee, pull down my underwear, and paddle my bare bottom with her hand, a hairbrush, or (my personal favorite) a wooden spoon.

My girl friend is gone now, and I miss the spankings she used to give me. I could find a professional, but its not the same. Its not easy talking to women about your desire to be spanked. Even if they understand, they decide you’re too passive, or not macho enough. During the last few years, I’ve been afraid to ask. Meanwhile, my bottom longs for the sting of a wooden spoon or a hairbrush.

Thanks for keeping this spanking blog going, Richard. I loved the other one (Should husbands spank their wives?) and enjoyed reading it over and over.

I personally love to be spanked and disciplined by my husband. He is very loving and good to me - he is not violent at all towards me and I would never be into violence, but there is something very comforting about knowing my limits and boundaries with him. I love to be submissive and enjoy my husband being the boss in our home. Our relationship has evolved over the years and we are just both very, very comfortable with his natural dominance and my natural submission.

I love it when he spanks my bottom - he also sometimes lightly and lovingly slaps my breasts and my genitals, which is a total turn on for me. Spankings can be either a tool for discipline or a tool for sexual arousal. My husband becomes very aroused when he spanks and slaps me, which leads to a wonderful time for both of us. Sometimes it leads to intercourse and sometimes it leads to oral sex. I absolutely adore sucking on my husband’s penis either during or after getting spanked. It makes me feel very womanly and submissive. There is nothing better than being on the floor on my knees, with a sore bottom and pussy, sucking my husband until he explodes in my mouth. I try to swallow it all, but sometimes it’s too much for me, so the rest of it ends up on my face and breasts. Then, when he is completely finished and relaxed, he loves to wipe his penis off and clean it with my hair, which is such a wonderful experience for me. At that point, I truly feel loved and complete as a submissive woman.

There is nothing wrong with a happy and consensual relationship between two people who love each other. I have never been happier in my life, and I know in my heart that I am a submissive woman who needs a strong, dominant man to look after me, discipline me, make major decisions in our life, and love me. Domestic discipline may not be for everyone, but for those of us that enjoy this lifestyle, there is nothing wrong with it. I enjoy being dominated by a strong man and my husband really needs a submissive, feminine woman, so we are perfect for each other!

I went into my marriage happily knowing that I was marrying a dominant man who expects me to obey him. When I don’t obey him, I get what I deserve. I also enjoy waiting on him hand and foot. He works very hard in his profession, and when he comes home, he deserves to have me take care of him. I actually love to serve him. It is a natural role for me and he is happy that I truly enjoy serving him. He jokes that I’m his slave in the kitchen and his slut in the bedroom! He doesn’t treat me with disrespect in public places or in front of our children, so I don’t mind that he considers me his private property. I feel safe and secure belonging to him.

So to all of those people who think there’s something wrong with us, try to see it from our perspective. Just because this lifestyle doesn’t make you happy doesn’t mean it’s wrong for those of us that enjoy it.

Since my junior year at college, I love being the naughty submissive male who needs a good, hard OTK spanking from a real dominant lady.

When living at the dorm, I spent some beautifully painful weekends as Linda’s sub. She showed me how in-charge she was by making me wear girls’ panties and a blouse. I was then tied up bondage style as she taunted and teased me. Lady Linda really had me fully seduced and surrendered - by the balls.

Then she put me over her knee and pulled my panties down as my bare bottom was helplessly airborne. She put her paddle to my blazing rear cheeks until they were red hot glowing globes. I went off wonderfully into sub-space, fully aroused in the most embarrassing ways. It hurt like hell but I didn’t care. I just gave in and let it carry me off.

Linda really took care of me in her bedroom after my humiliating, but erotically enchanting bare bottom spanking experience. I find it romantic and it leaves me feeling much relief later - even if I can’t sit so comfortably for a while. I prefer being her bottom.

Hi

I have read all the postings with much interest.I am a closet spanker who is looking for ladies in the uk to put over my knee.If interested e mail me on robertw7@hotmail.com To all you lovely ladies who need to entice your husbands to take you across his knee or better.You should be as difficult as possible and when he asks why you can tell him i will continue to be like this until you spank me to adjust my bad attitude,unless you want me to find someone to show you how it is supposed to be done. I believe that a wife should be spanked over her husbands knee to keep order in the home.No lady is too old to be spanked!

I good spanking across the knee of a wicked lady wearing FF black stockings & suspenders. Whilst over her knee you need to look up and view the stocking tops and the suspenders. The lady could be dressed in a smart office suit or be a St. Trinians School girl. Also a good lecture to tell you how naughty you have been. Any ladies that can assist?

I would consider spanking a good form of being disciplined. Though I have never actually being spanked before though I did receive the cane more than I wanted, the thought of lying naked across someones’ thighs and getting spanked across my bare buttocks is one thing I would like to experience. I would like to say Yes, I would love to be spanked.

You think this might be a little over the Top??

Hi. I’m that Italian man your mother warned you about.

Would you like to get it good knowing the person stinging your ass really liked you and whom you could trust not to damage you?

Would you like to be required to assist in the planning of your punishment? Or would you rather it be a treat for being so good. Or maybe both AKA 1 from column A & 1 from column B.

Would you like to give yourself to someone who mixes pleasure and pain to the point that when you start to scream you’re not sure why.

Would you like free lifetime tire rotation. Sorry got a little carried away.

If those or similar thoughts appeal to you, An interesting,humorous,over educated and incredibly irreverent adult(sic) male who loves to spank women as a part of lovemaking and who loves to laugh, enjoys exchanging ideas and will whisper the most outrageous suggestions at the most unlikely times can be in your future.

The spanking element is part of my basic sexual imprint and although it is an important element it is not the driving force in my life. (yea-right)

My dominant personality is not cultivated, it was factory installed. I’m dominant but not domineering but if you would like we can always work something out. I don’t switch although I’ve been known to use one.

Paddles, Straps, Hairbrushes, Floggers all with a sense of foreboding mixed with pulse quickening excitement attached to each. All waiting just for you. A little light bondage to stir your soul, sharpen your senses and whet your sexual appetite?

I have to stop for a minute. OK, I’m back.

I love to talk about it and believe that there is much enjoyment to be had by stimulating conversation, which can ignite the communication, so necessary to a mutually enjoyable and seriously debauched interlude.

Did I mention that I love to spank women?

I’m a large man 6’+ 220 in good shape. I am self employed and quite independent. I’m looking for someone with whom I have significant commonality of interest and with whom I can develop respect,friendship and mutual trust while enjoying an active intimate relationship.

I say what I mean and I do what I say. I expect the same.

If you’d like to talk, Ain’t nothing to it but to do it.

(Big Finish)

If you want to see where my head is(you know what happens when you get smart) send me a paragraph and I’ll return it with what it engendered within me. Well at least the part that can travel by email.

Just Do It. This is not a dress rehearsal.

Warren

I am 22 and for many years I have had a fantasy about being spanked hard by a man and after dating my present boyfriend for over a year, I decided to tell him about my fantasy in the hopes that he may consider acting it out. He was a little surprised at first, but agreed to do it.

So the following day in the evening I slipped into some sexy lingerie and walked into the living room where my boyfriend was watching tv. He looked a little nervous about the whole situation, but without saying anything I just went over to him and leant over his knees. He then began to spank me. Unfortunately, it wasn’t what I had been hoping for, and that was my fault as I hadn’t discussed it properly with him to start with. He spanked me with his hand with reasonable force for a few minutes before stopping, and we then proceeded to have sex. Clearly, when I had asked him for a spanking, he had assumed that I had meant it in a playful way, and so the spanking he game me was no where near as hard as I had wanted it, although towards the end of the spanking it was getting a little unconfortable, it didn’t leave my backside red at all, and wasn’t at all painful.

I explained to my boyfriend that I was looking for a harder spanking, and he was then concerned about the fact that he may hurt me, but I told him that it was fine.

It was a couple of weeks before I thought about trying it again, and this time I decided to come up with a reason for spanking me. Every week I record one of his favourite tv programs for him, but for this particular week, I told him that I had completely forgotton about it as I was too busy (even though I had really recorded it), he was obviously quite annoyed by this, so I took the opportunity and told him that he should spank me for forgetting, so that I wont forget to record it in the future, he liked this idea.

So again, he took me over his knee and gave me a spanking, and this time it was harder, hard enough for me to shout “OW!!” a few times. He also lectured me as he spanked me to remind me how important it was that I recorded his program, and I enjoyed this aspect of the punishment. Once it became evedent to him that the spanking was beginning to hurt a little again he stopped, although I really wanted him to take it so much further. I refrained from shouting “harder” because my fantasy is not about me controlling the situation, but being controlled.

After the spanking he asked me if it was better, and I said “yes”, however I explained to him that I was still looking for something significantly harder. He was again quite concerned about the possibility of hurting me, and I made my point clear that this wasn’t a problem, and was all part of it. This time I told him that the next time he spanks me, not to just think of it as a spanking, but instead the fact that he will be disciplining me. Basically, ive done something bad, and I should be punished accordingly by being given a spanking that I wont forget in a long time. I also referred him to some spanking sites on the internet, and told him to have a good look at them to get some ideas.

A few days later he came to me, and said that he had had a good look at the internet sites, and had a good idea of the punishment I was looking for, and was ready to give it another go at any time, and he seemed quite excited at the prospect too!!!

This time I decided to take the roleplay further, and make sure that he had a good reason to give me a very hard spanking. I decided to dress-up for this punishment. Although he had never told me, I had managed to find out what one of his biggest fantasies was, and that was a woman dressed up as a schoolgirl.

So I got myself a really sexy outfit to wear. It consisted of a white blouse that tied up under the chest, a proper school tie, white thigh high socks, black shoes, and an extremely short plaid mini skirt. I put on some makeup, and put my hair into pigtails (I have long blonde hair, so this looked great). All in all, I really did look the part, and it got me right in the mood, because I felt SO naughty wearing this outfit, I looked really slutty, which is so unlike me, but I loved it.

So I was all kitted out as a naughty schoolgirl for when my boyfriend returned from work, and when he came in and saw me dressed as I was, he nearly passed out. Before I let him say a word, I immediately slipped into my role:-

“Sir! I’m so sorry sir, it will never happen again, please don’t spank me!” My boyfriend thankfully slipped into role without me needing to prompt him (although he was still clearly shocked at seeing me in this outfit) “Exactly what is it you have done to be sent to my office Tamara” he said

..we continued this scenario for a few minutes with me being delibarately difficult and not telling him exactly what I had done. I also tried to talk my way out of it acting really innocently (my boyfriend loved that!!), but eventually he said quite agressively “JUST TELL ME!!”

I thought i would continue to tease a little and responded by simply saying “I got caught sir” At this point by boyfriend completely took control of the situation and actually shouted at me “IF YOU DONT TELL ME RIGHT NOW, YOU ARE GOING TO BE IN SO MUCH MORE TROUBLE THAN YOU ALREADY ARE YOUNG LADY” I then decided to tell him:- “MR Gibbs caught me in the stationary cupboard giving Tom a blowjob sir” At this point my spanking begun, my boyfriend got on of the chairs and placed it in the middle of the room, he then came over to me, and much to my surprise grabbed me hard by one of my pigtails, I struggled which frustrated him, but he had little problem pulling me over to the chair and putting me over his knee.

This time he gave me quite a rapid and hard hand spanking which I did start finding pretty painful, but it was at this point that he told me to stand up and go to the corner of the room. I assumed the spanking was over, and again I was a little dissappointed that he had not gone harder, however, I was so wrong, my spanking was not over at all. He dissappeared upstairs for a few minutes and when he returned he ordered me back over his knee, and this time he spanked me with a hairbrush, this hurt quite a lot, and had me struggling trying to get free, I was finally getting the punishment I wanted.

He didn’t finish at the hairbrush either, I was just starting to find it really painful when he ordered me to stand up at the table, and bend over the table. He stood the other side of the table so that i could see him, and I watched as he removed his belt from his trousers. He then walked round behind me and started hitting me with it.

Clearly all his concerns about hurting me were long gone, cos this hurt SO much. I let out loud screems, and eventually I ended up crying my eyes out because of the pain. He continued to spank me for a short time after I had started crying, before stopping.

I lay there over the desk, my butt very sore, realising that I had finally got the punishment I had been after. I was so shocked at what happened next however. My boyfriend stood the other side of the table, and I looked up, all teary eyed, to see him standing there holding a cane. Clearly he must have gone out a bought it at some point without me realising. My butt was very sore by this point, and this was going to make it a whole lot worse. I begged with him not to cane me, and told him I had learnt my lesson.

He ignored everything I said, and went round behind me and teasingly rubbed it across my sore backside, then all of a sudden…

“THWACK!!!” I let out such a loud scream from the pain and immediately started crying again, and grabbed hold of my arse. He was furious, he came up to me, again pulling my hair by the pigtails, and shouted at me to keep my hands on the table. He informed me I was getting 6 of the best, however, because of the pain, I couldn’t help but put my hands on my backside after every stroke, and in the end he gave me 12 strokes instead. At the end of the 12 strokes it was the end of my punishment, and he sent me out the room, I was still crying.

My boyfriend then came out of the room, and asked if I was Ok, and we hugged for a while. In the end we ended up having some amazing sex, but i certainly remembered the punishment, my butt hurt for several days afterwards, and the marks from the cane took quite a while to go.

After that punishment my boyfriend starting giving me hard spankings on quite a regular basis (not always as hard as that thankfully), and he really enjoyed punishing me.

I decided i should get my own back at some point though, and one day again he found me dressed up as a schoolgirl again, and i acted really flirty with him, and I managed to grab him and put his hands in handcuffs. I told him it was about time he had a spanking, and what did he think about this prospect, he agreed to it. (To be honest, whenever I put this uniform on, he agrees to practically anything!)

I really let rip on him, using a hairbrush and a paddle I had bought, and made him cry like a girl. I’m not sure he was expecting such a hard punishment, but he told me at the end he was ok with it, and enjoyed the role reversal thing a lot.

Since then, we regularly spank each other, althoug h it is usually me as the sub. If I decide I want to spank him, I just do it, he doesn’t really get any choice in the matter.

Spank or be spanked? Hmmm… Since I am the one who normally does the spanking, I think I’d like to reverse roles for a change. Going over the lap of a petite lady, one whom I could so obviously overpower, is an act of submission that has more than a bit of erotic appeal. Besides, I’m sure it’s good for an old top like me to be reminded of what it feels like to be on the receiving side. One becomes a better dom when one has an intimate understanding of the experience of a sub. There wouldn’t happen to be any “in charge” ladies in the Indianapolis area reading this would there?

I first got interested in spanking when I was 15, when me and my girlfriend got spanked because she gave me a blowjob. Before that, I hadn’t been spanked for several years, the last time being when I was 12, when my sister spanked me for being naughty at school. Now I spank my girlfriend all the time, and she often spanks me back. This is followed by hot and steamy sex.

My wife sometimes gives be a spanking while we are making love as she knows that makes me thrust harder and I come almost immediatly. But it doesnt really turn her on and she never does it even when we have rows so I sometimes visit pros. and persuade them to give me a good caning. EVER since I was at a prepschool and got caned by the headmaster several times and even given the slipper by the matron I have fantisised about taking a good thrashing. I even have perfected the art of self caning and masturbate afterc a session but it is nothing like the real thing.

Ok I have never really been into spanking or anything like that. But recently I have not been getting along well with my boyfriend. I was very rude to him lately and hung up the phone a few times on him. I know that I was pushing him and looking for arguments but I kept on. Finally one day we were at his house and I was being rude again and all of a sudden he smacked me very hard across my behind. He then said that if I cursed at him one more time that he would put me over his lap and spank me. I was very embarrassed at the pain I felt on my behind and the fact that I was actually scared of him for a moment. Is this abuse? Or does he just like to spank females? I love him very much and sometimes when we are having sex, I think about the smack that he gave me and the anger in his eyes and I get aroused even more until I orgasm. I have a big problem giving up control so I dont think that spanking really turns me on. Can anyone give me some advice thanks.

I have been a spanker for more years than some people have been alive, who post here: 36 years at last count. I began spanking a few buddies on our high school wrestling team (and played with them sexually as well); and continued throughout university and beyond. I’ve had the pleasure of paddling, hairbrushing and strapping both guys’ and girls’ bottoms, and enjoy them both. Each butt is unique, and has a ‘cuteness’ all its own - that I enhance with a glowing red blush.

The turn on for me (aside from any sex that I have with my partner after the spanking) is the visual enjoyment of the buttocks and the color change that a spanking causes. Also, the power and control issues are interesting. It’s great when some exceptionally cute guy or girl strips, bends over my knee, and submits their ass to my will. YUMMY!

Hello everyone!

I am male, over thirty and in a long term relationship. I’m struggling to become a lifestyle submissive (it’s a struggle within me and to help her trust herself and find confidence in the role which she has never been too comfortable with.) We’ve had a lot of success and unlike a lot of DS relationships, I’m the only bread-winner and the house-wife.

When I’ve displeased her it’s obvious and often I genuinely feel bad about my behavior. At times I’m not too eager to be punished but I always submit in part to help reassure her that what she says goes with me.

Even when I’m angry or feeling that she’s wronged me I still find that familiar feeling welling up inside when she tells me to get the paddle and drop my pants. I do as I’m told and she punishes me with much confidence these days. Each and every time I experience the same transformation - my attitude changes, I can clearly see how my own behavior contributed to the issue and I’m genuinely sorry, apologetic and grateful to her. I’m still amazed at how certain I can be that I don’t deserve a spanking beforehand and how honest I become with myself after a punishment.

Our relationship has become very strong and extremely fulfilling. With her guidance, our finances are flourishing (a trick I never managed on my own) and our home is a welcoming environment for both of us.

I’ve never been happier in my life and I love knowing that she’s getting everything she wants. I’m actually very proud that I’m able to please her and even I can see how beneficial her control has been both for me personally and in every-day life at home, work or socially.

Add me to the list of those who not only prefer to be spanked but also know it’s for their own good!

In some relationships there are three types of spankings. Disciplinary sessions, maintenance sessions and play spankings leading to sex. Discipline is for misbehavior and certain behaviors are punished with specific, known in advance, number of spanks with a specific implement, based on the severity of the misdeed. Belts, tawses, canes and wood paddles are bad, but lexan paddles are when the ultimate sin is done, or for repeated bad acts. The number of spanks and which tool used are listed on a chart which are kept all week and punishment happens both right after the bad deed is done and then again, on discipline night session, which is one night a week. Punishment sessions are done with no warm up and full force. Marks may last for over a week and after corner time, frozen foods layed across a burning ass are a reward for taking the punishement well. Maintenance sessions are conducted at whim, whether there has been any misbehavior or not. This occurs to show that submission is required and will be given upon command. These can happen anytime and often happens when behavior has been good for several weeks.
Again, these sessions can be light or can lead to deep bruises depending on the item used for the session and the reasons is was needed. Playful, or erotic spanking can occur right before or during sex and are just serve as a reminded that the ass is hot from a prior session. These are light, with the hands or belt only and are mild. All 3 types are needed to keep a sub in line. ANd one who loves you, will take the time to administer all 3 with a variety of implements, as needed. Nothing says love like a raised lexan paddle coming down on an already blisted ass - without the love, the repeated misdeeds wouldnt even be noticed. Love is also talking, carressing and rubbing cold ice on the aching ass after the punishment is over. No grudges are held and the slate is wiped clean, unless the wrong doing is repeated in which case the next punishement will be increased in number of strokes and in severity of the implement used. This is love.

I have received spankings for a few years and find them to be very good for correcting my attitude. I usually act in a much better way for awhile. I received one that caused me to think every think about it for a week. My bottom was very red. It wasn’t given in a mean or viscious manner. Rather it was given to a naughty boy with his pants down around his ankles and his underpants lowered to his knees. It was well deserved. I’m still looking for someone to do that again. My wife died and I have been at a lose since then.

I have giving both men and women spankings, whippings, and other physical treats for several years.

I respect all limits but will push you to expand your level of pain.

I am discreet, sane and a level headed guy that loves to give spanking. I am a older guy if that matters to you.

I feel that trust between the spanker and the spankee is critical to the relaltionship. Also, in my opinion, spanking and submission helps better understand needs and desires.

I am seeking those (guys and gals) in the Melbourne Florida area that wish to begin or continue enjoying being spanked. .

I have fantasized about being spanked since I was a child, I’m now a 30 year old man and I finally got to experience being spanked. Just yesterday I went to this gentleman club and one of the things you could pay for was spanking. I was so excited and paid for an hour’s worth. The woman who spanked me gave me all that i wanted. She used her bare hand, than a paddle and also a strap. During breaks of spanking she would give me a couch dance and then back to the spanking. My butt is still sore and their are some light marks but it was something I’ve longed for. I guess to choose spank or be spanked I would still choose to be spanked but I would like to spank a girl sometime too, it is fun to stick out your butt and have the stinging sensation, on the way home it was a cold day but my seat was warm!

It was extremely interesting reading all the comments. I have been dom most of my life but love been sub. I’m trying to get my wife into being Dom but she isn’t really into it as much as I am. Every now and then I get the urge to be spanked and often turn to guys, would love the cane but dont want wife to see the marks

i have always enjoyed bare bottom spankings. just have never found the man the could this as svere and long as i wish and need.

I love a good hard and long spanking on my bare bottom. I don’t care if its a female or male who spanks me. I always enjoy crying while being spanked. It makes me feel good to have a good cry while being spanked. I love how it turns me on to. It turns me on faster then any thing eles. I used to get into trouble just to get a good spanking in or out of school when I was younger. I like being put over some ones knee and spanked with a paddle best untill I can’t sit down. I just have not found the right male or female who will give me enjoyment from a good spanking that I know I deserve every day of my life for the last 2 weeks or so. To bad to. I’m in need of a good long hard bare bottom spanking badly.

My wife and I have always been into spanking from both ends so to speak. She is 27 and sometimes needs a good hard, red bottomed session over my knee and then cornertime to make sure she stays where whe wants to be. I, like many guys, tend to occasionally make smart remarks, do stupid things, etc and it’s always with trepidation that I catch that glance and know I’m in for it when we get home. I almost always “get it” with something like a brush or crop (hate that thing) but in all seriousness, this has been great for our marriage. We are both punished fairly and when need be but also use spankings as part of sex at times just because it turns us on. I seriously suggest it to everyone.

Punishment and “fun” are very different though and both serve their purpose in many ways.

My fiance had never spanked anyone in his life until I asked him to. He was a little afraid he would hurt me at first. Now he loves turning me over his knee and giving a me long, drawn out slow build spanking. He looks forward to it now.

i LEARNED THE SPANKING FETISH FROM MY MOTHER WHO BELIEVED IN SPANKING PUNISHMENTS USING A HAIRBRUSH ON ME AND MY SISTER’S BARE BOTTOM FROM AGE 4 TO 14. (mY SISTER EVEN GOT A GOOD DOSE AT AGE 15!) i NOW BELIEVE THAT mOM MUST HAVE BEEN A “SPANKO” ALSO. nEITHER OF US EVER GOT OFF HER LAP WITHOUT MARKS THAT LASTED AT LEAST A WEEK. tHEN, ONE TIME IN MY TEENS, i OVERHEARD MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBBOR AGE 12 SOUNDLY SPANKED BY HER MOTHER AND IT GAVE ME A GREAT “HARDON.” UNFORTUNATELY, AFTER i WAS MARRIED AND THINKING ALL GIRLS GOT SPANKED AS KIDS AND WOULD “ENJOY” IT, MY WIFE WAS NEVER SPANKED! sO i’VE HAD TO LIVE WITH VIDEOS, STORIES, PICTURES, ET AL WHILE KEEPING MY LITTLE SECRET.

Up until last june I was a very frustrated 40-year old man who’d been in a wheelchair all of his because of a stroke at birth left me with Cerebral Palsy. As a result, people have shied away from me — for the most part. Consequently, I’ve led an isolated and sheltered life. For some reason ever since I can remember, I’ve fantasized about having a tall athletic woman spank me. It could be that because I sit in a wheelchair for 10 to 16 hours a day, my butt gets numb and craves a warm up to get the blood flowing again, I don’t know! The odd thing is that I wasn’t spanked until I was 19 by the only girlfriend that I ever had! I don’t like the bondage scene in any way just OTK. Being a little bit of a sub(I guess), I’m very attracted to tall physical women who give OTK’S. Last June my frustration boiled over and pushed me to act! I decided my only recourse was to visit a legal brothel in Nevada. There I found a gorgeous 6 foot 155 ponnd athletic red head who stripped me naked;then, spanked and paddled me without pity. In the process, all of my pent up frustration and stress were carried away by the tears streaming from my eyes. My blood pressure was very low for 3 months after. I’m going back in May for more “stress releif”.

Every Saturday morning I give my wife a rub down while she is lying accross my lap. After the rub down she is spanked by hand only until she feels she has had enough. during the sapnking I talk to her about the last week’s problems and attitudes. I stop the spanking when I’m speaking with her and then continue the spanking. It seems to be a turn on for us and she looks forward to it after a long hard week. Sometimes she spanks me, but she doesn’t spank very hard. I wish she would spank me more often, but yet least she nows she lets me spank her a least once a week. Hopefully, in the future she will respond to my need to be spanked as well.

Hello all, I just had a wonderfully bizarre experience this past week and while googling the web on the subject I ran across this post. I’m male, thirties, submissive (though you would never know it if I didn’t tell you!)

During a recent appointment with a client to fix some of her computer problems I had to give her the bad news that a few of her files were lost and gone forever. She mocked anger and told me that I had better recover them or she would spank me. We both laughed and I continued my work for several more hours until her system was in excellent shape. Alas the files remained permanently gone…

As I was preparing to leave we talked about the changes I had made to her system and she thanked me for my help “even though” I hadn’t recovered all the files she has lost. Then she sat down and told me to come over to her… I was surprised but already walking toward her before I realized that something was odd.

She told me to drop my pants and bend over her lap for my spanking! She was smiling and her eyes were twinkling and I just stood there with my mouth open staring at her wondering if she was totally joking or not. Then she reached for my belt and began unfastening it and I blushed so hard my face felt about 1,000 degrees. She said something about me being shy as she pulled my pants and boxers down and then she told me to bend over her lap.

I was staring at the floor, still blushing and peeked at her face as I began to lean forward - she was looking me over and my blush grew even hotter as I bent over her legs and put my palms on the floor on the other side of her. I have no idea how many times she spanked me but I could barely keep still (and actually, my legs didn’t - I kept twitching) and I felt that panicky feeling that is so delicious when being submissive with a lover but I barely knew this woman!

All the while she was telling me that I had let her down and she expected better from me from now on. She sounded very calm and serious. When she was finished she told me to stand in the corner! I could not believe this was happening (and that I was meekly complying with her orders!)

I was in the corner for nearly an hour, pants and underwear around my ankles before she told me that I could go. I pulled up my slacks and put them right again and just couldn’t stop myself from thanking her. She was smiling and looking very pleased as she showed me out. We had arranged for a monthly check-up of her computer from now on and I am soooooooo very eager for that next appointment already. I’m going to setup an automated backup system for her. :) In my case at least, if you want better service, spank me!

Where have you ladies been all my life? I have been into spanking for as long as I can remember (giving not receiving that is) but with only minor support from my wife who unfortunately does not find it as big a turn on as I do. I am therefore reduced to dreaming and reading the forums on the net - better than nothing I guess! Oh for the opportunity to warm a nice round bottom!!!!

I would love to be spanked. Although it has never properly happen to me, I have been hit a few times on my buttocks by my boyfriend. I’m too embarrased to admit to him that I want him to spank me, but i always hit his bum, not while he’s over my lap but just whilst standing. I love the idea of him controlling me when I’ve been naughty, and wouldn’t mind giving him a good spanking either. But unfortunately for me he is much less controlling than i am in the relationship, i doubt he will agree to it because he’s such a softie and would never, ever hurt me.

I say yes - most women should be spanked. I am one of the ones who need it from time to time. I get irrated and my tonallity gets sharp. Then I know I need a good bare bottom spanking.I go to a trusted male friend, I have asked to help me with this. We have talked about it, so he knows what to do. My pants and panties are pulled down to my ankles. He takes me over his knee and places his hand firmly on my bare bottom. Before he starts the spanking, he reviews the reasons I am over his knee and about to be spanked. Then he starts spanking me hard, in one place on the center of my bare boucing bottom.When I begin to cry he continues the spanking all over my bottom until it is very red. When the spanking is over I have to remain over his knees until I am done crying. Usually with his hand firmly placed on my bare bottom. If I say I need more the spanking starts again. Until I know the issue has been fully addressed. The hard spanking by hand or ruler given, as stated above, greatly eases the pent up tennions that cause me to yell, get sharp,or corrects any of my bad behaviors. Being spanked responsibly, with a goal in mind, I believe is a healthy thing for most women. as long as you have respect for the man spanking your bottom. I believe a women should have a say about the things she wants to gain from her spanking, what things she needs work on by have her bare bottom spanked. after the spanking is over a women should be held, and reassured she is loved and her bottom soothed. I have read all the entrys. but I did not see any mention about spanking a womens’ bottom to help her control her self punative trates. saying bad things about herself,or self distructive behavior. Like smoking ,drinking too much, eating or doing things that are bad for herself. a good bare bottom spanking can help alot with these. Because you are not alone in your struggle. and a good hard bare bottom spanking helps clean the slate and motavates you to try harder. The spanking is there like a safty net, only if you need it. Which, by the way ladies, is in your control. So go find that trustworthy man you respect and ask him for this special type of help,don’t be afraid to ask for a spanking you know you need (or guys to give it). A bare bottom spanking can help clear up lot of issues for women, I know it has, and still does, work for me. Iam 46 years old and very thankful to the men who have spanked my bottom over the years.

My good wishes to Terry, and all others who believe most women should be spanked. In fact, just as does Terry, most secretly crave for it. There can be many reasons, but, frankly, many just feel the need to submit, as women of olden times did. They tire of the modern nonsense seeming to require them to assert “independence” or even dominance.

I have over five decades of experience giving consensual spankings to ladies in need. Most, now, in the immediate area of Peoria, IL. Retirement has curtailed My travel.

Keep it up, Terry, and if you ar