Clitoral bestseller

I remember noting She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman when it was first published. Had no idea that it would prove such a huge commercial and critical success. Do hope it is a real sign of increased erotic equity in heterosexual relationships.

Its message is simple: the clitoris is an astonishing piece of anatomy, dedicated to pleasure, and therefore cunnilingus is the best way to please women, and pleased women mean good relationships. Kerner is evangelical about the good practice and “coreplay” of skilled oral sex, which he believes can revolutionise relationships, as “the number-two reason for divorce in the US is sexual dissatisfaction”. He jokingly quotes Lorena Bobbitt, who, after lopping off her husband’s penis, told police: “He always has an orgasm and doesn’t wait for me. It’s unfair.”

The real C-word