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Those doing group sex "well" have ethical codes, she says. Sex must always be consensual. Condoms and lubrication are on hand, there are strong rules about behaviour and in many swinging parties, single men are not allowed unless they are with a couple who can vouch for them, as a precaution against would-be predators. The invitation may also remind invitees that "no always means no".