Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome
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I may have been writing about sex for years but I must confess that I’m an ignoramus in so many amatory matters.
I never heard of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome. Nor has my - sadly conventional - style of masturbation led me to use, much less become addicted to this position.
But many men do become anorgasmic from masturbating: if only from using such a fierce grip that no bodily orifice can ever reproduce the pressure.
A word to the wise:
Unusual methods can be riskyNow, if you do masturbate in the prone position, you should probably think about stopping, or at least stop using this method exclusively. The main idea behind why this position might not be so good for you is that it puts too much pressure on the base of the penis; this could eventually damage the tissue and could result in having problems pitching a tent. The other main concern about masturbating in the prone position is that it stimulates the penis in a way that is “unnatural”, in that it is impossible to recreate it during penetrative sex. Even the tightest vagina (or ass) won’t be able to squeeze you as tight or in quite the same way as your body weight against your mattress, floor, hand, etc. can (hence the anorgasmia during sex.)
Comments
Well, I’ve masturbated in this position for years. And I had my first sexual intercourse very late - at 29. What happened then was that I couldn’t get to an orgasm.
Yes, I would thrust and thrust for a long time and nothing happened. This was frustrating for my girlfriends. And for me, of course.
I thought it was because I was used to more pressure, as this author says. But then after a few years a girlfriend did brought me there. The problem was most probably in my head, not in my penis, I just couldn’t relax.
Posted by: Marcos | August 2, 2007 11:59 AM