Femdom Sissy ≠ Transgendered Person

Being in the local bdsm community for over 4 years now I feel that just being transexual to any degree black-ball’s you. I have such a hard time trying to even distinguish if the person is just looking for some sissy male to dress up at times or a real 24/7 pre-op trans. Being pre-op is much harder than post-op in the bdsm world. It has made me almost feel as if I’m a pirate in a group of people I would like to associate with.

Koneko

Oh, it can workout, trust me.

My lover is a pre-operative transperson and she is also the dominant partner in the D/s part of our relationship.

While I tend to think of the D/s community as open to pansexuality and transgenderedness I’m sure there are plenty of people with bad stereotypes and clichés in their brains.

My boyfriend is a post-Hormone therapy transexual, and the tales he tells of being arbitrarily excluded from play-groups and sessions simply for being between male and female makes me want to bash heads together. Believing that one gender ‘deserves’ humiliation is disturbingly sociopathic.

I’m a pre-op TS, and I’ve been treated with courtesy and respect at every event I’ve been to in the Southwest. I’ve been treated better by the bdsm community than the TS/TG community, so when it comes time to decide who gets my time and support, its a no brainer for me.

I think a big issue of distinguishing between a TS, and the ‘sissy maid’ types is looking at thier daily lives. A TS lives as a woman by thier choice. A sissy is usually only a sissy when someone ‘makes’ them do it, and otherwise lives a nromal life as a man.

Being Tg is not a choice its just a way of life, sorta like i like pink and you like blue, people think its ok for lesbians to be hot but gay men to be sick. that is more then the worse sterotype imaginable.i am TG and have been this way since i was 4, i remember the first day of kindergarten wearing my sisters ruffled panties to school.. only cause i got bust that day for it.. But it doesnt make me a bad person.. I love a womans body and thats why i desire to have it, ther are sexy and hot.. vrey hott… i have had implants and that took m\e a lond ways. but it still comes down that people just think im a freak,, well i think people are a freak for eating.. i prefer women over men but men prefer me over women and women prefer women over me. so where do i stand. A SEXLESS LIFE? I dont think so.. I get what i can as a way to the end…

First, what a wonderfull forum. this one has just begun exploring to being a pre-op m-f slave. my prospective new Master and Mistress are very supportive and i believe even appreciative that this one is a female, yet still has male genital. Master wants to train me to be the best woman\girl slave i can be.

I guess I am the FemDom sissy type. I have no interest in hormones, surgery or a transformation for myself. I just enjoy the taboo of wearing nylons, heels, skirts & the like. I love the feel & look & feel very submissive that way. This seems to make me an outcast in the BDSM community, too; people have said I am stopping my natural development by not ‘going all the way’. Finding that special someone to share this with has been difficult & I still search.