What's Your Sexual Template?
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Even though I wasn't consciously aware of it odd bits of my own sexuality were set in early elementary school. Too bad it took me so long to ferret out.
Maybe some people - those with a strong fixation or fetish - have only one sexual template but some of us have dozens.
At the root of human sexual desire is the "core erotic personality"--a.k.a. "sexual template"--which, in a nutshell, is whatever gets you off. "Everyone has in their mind an image of someone or thing they find sexually desirous," explains Dr. William Granzig, dean of clinical sexology at Maimonides University in North Miami Beach and president of the American Board of Sexology. That image might be a person of specific age, race or hair color, or it might be every person. It could be a fondness for a particular style of dress, objects such as women's shoes or fur-lined handcuffs, or behavior such as cross-dressing or exhibitionism. Whatever it is in particular, the sexual template is believed to develop early on during a childhood erotic experience--perhaps as early as age three or four--and it sticks with you for life.
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I have alwasy loved being tied up(or down!)But the main question is yes i have always been the one to step out into the deep end of sexualtiy even as a child of 14. My fetish is to be donimated! No if ands or but(ts) about it.
I have even gotten so far as to write and read erotica!
Is this normal?
Posted by: blue | June 30, 2006 10:31 PM
The desire, need to be submissive to a dominant partner is shared by many men and women. Some do it as play others as part of a D/s or domestic discipline lifestyle.
Posted by: Richard | July 4, 2006 6:59 PM