Penis size: do you or don't you really care?
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One of my other sites Sex is Funny is meant to be lighter and sillier than Amorous Propensities. Though at times I fear it in danger of becoming a website with too many notes about penises. But I guess you can't deny the penis a central, sometimes controversial place in sexuality.
It is normative in American popular sexual discourse to say that the size of a man's penis is irrelevant as long as it is large enough to function. And that what matters is the ability to employ it with skill.
But there are at least a few women willing to say that they like them large (and many more gay men). Two recent entries have drawn a couple of comments:
and
Shallow and Cruel, but its True: Size Matters
Each of the notes quote women who make clear that size is important to them. Possibly it is the iconic eroticism of a large phallus. After all size only has so much effect on results or can even diminish them.
If a partner's penis size does play a significant role in your sexual satisfaction I invite you to go to the entries and offer comments of your own.
Comments
If I were to say size doesn’t matter, I’d be lying. I suppose every women (or man) has a preference to whats best for them.
Posted by: Desired | April 30, 2005 9:52 PM
I hate my penis and testeciles and wish that I did not have them I would rather be female and have female gentials.(Bryan Samuelson in san juan capistrano ca.)
Posted by: bryan samuelson | May 13, 2005 1:15 PM
My girlfriend is a transsexual – a genetic male who feels the something the same. I don’ think that she would use hate, not sure. But she wishes that her body was a woman’s. Look for transsexual support groups and online. Best of luck.
Posted by: Richard | May 13, 2005 1:23 PM
I didn’t really mean for this entry to get comments. They properly go on either of the two entries cited above like Rating a Man’s Penis by Size. Head over there if you’d like to see what others have to say and share your own viewpoint on the significance of phallus size to your own sexual satisfaction or other women (or men) you know.
Posted by: Richard Evans Lee | May 13, 2005 1:27 PM