Queer Eye for the Straight Guy on Bravo, offensive gay assimilation by the mass media.

Oh? Smells like homophobia to me!

Posted by: Alex Greville | June 20, 2003 05:08 PM

Could they seriously be any more stereotypical of the gay community? Not all of us our self-loathing, skinny, "cultured", silly faggots. I mean, MY GOD, how many negative images (Jack on W&G, All of QAF) can they throw our way and still have us eating out of their hands. This show looks like yet another slap accross the face from the "straight community!"

Posted by: Eric Dawson | July 3, 2003 09:12 PM

I can't wait for the first show. It's going to be so good. It's about time they made something for our kind to watch. We need more selections though, we can't just stop here. I think we should have our own gay channel. Finally the sodomy laws are relaxing & we can be more open with our feelings without fear of persecution from heteros. One day we will be excepeted just like everybody else & not have to hide behind fake girlfriends or pretend to be something we are not. Live long and prosper my fellow men.

Posted by: JOSH F. | July 9, 2003 09:02 AM

Sweet Jesus my temperature is rising. Ted & I are just going to ravage each others love canal during this spectacular event. Lovee Lovee Long Time. Cya

Posted by: Josh F. | July 9, 2003 09:21 AM

I think this show is so great! These 'Fab 5' made my mouth open with their spontaneous make-overs; such a difference! No I'm not gay, but hey, their taste in clothes, fashion and interior is pretty good. This is a breakthrough for tv to have homosexuals have the spotlight and I think there is nothing wrong with that. This kind of variety is great to watch. Go Carson! And yay for the others! :)

Posted by: Mallory Ann | July 16, 2003 10:51 PM

I am a gay man who enjoys seeing gay themed material but I have to say this show was horrible. I could only sit through a half hour before I changed channels. I expected a little more out of Bravo. Wayne

Posted by: Wayne | July 17, 2003 11:37 AM

I think that the show demonstrates that it is possible for straight men to get along with gay men! Yes the FAB 5 are a little wild....but what's the point of a straight man with a gay man they don't know is gay...this way, if they can accept an openly out gay man, he can accept those he works with and interacts with daily!!! YOU GO GIRLS!!

Posted by: Lissette | July 17, 2003 12:52 PM

Friends, /Queer Eye/ is a total mess. The show's very premise, that style comes with queerness and vice versa, doesn't do us any favors. I know plenty of queers who can't dress, and I know plenty of hetero people who /can/ -- so why not just have a team of five /people/ perform the makeover? Why does it have to be "gay" people and a "straight" guy? Would they hire lesbians to make over a woman? Worse, the show argues that straight people /need/ queer style in order to be worth anything in an increasingly queer world. True, four of the Fab Five were friendly, like good folk who were offering their talents, and I appreciated that and would probably watch. But the fifth, the fashion fellow, was awful. He kicked off the show by insulting the straight guy's apartment and even his art -- some of which was really very good -- and then, inexcusably, violated the guy's underwear drawer and commented for the camera. He broke the cardinal rule of civil behavior: he made Butch uncomfortable. A good makeover works /with/ the subject to find a style that suits his tastes and makes him happy; denigrating everything the subject likes is a terrible place to start. (The fashion guy proceeded to make crass gay jokes throughout the show, many of which were also lame.) MTV did far more for gay visibility with /Dismissed/: it mixed same-sex and opp-sex couples (1) in a context in which sexual orientation was really relevant and (2) without trumpeting its progressiveness. Bravo's drawing an artificial link between style and queerity isn't doing anyone any favors. I'm afraid /Boy Meets Boy/ will be even sicker. Bravo was a lot more gay-friendly (/Cirque/, /The It Factor/, /Actor's Studio/...) before it "came out", no?

Posted by: queer who does have some style | July 17, 2003 03:15 PM

Acceptance by mass media means gay people become pop culture commodities like everyone else. If you don't like it, don't watch it. If you hate it, tell Bravo.

Posted by: Tight Sweater Boy | July 17, 2003 04:45 PM

My husband and I LOVED this show. We couldn't get enough of it. We couldn't believe the transformations. Did they really do it all in one day? It doesn't matter. The show was fun and we enjoyed ourselves.

Posted by: lisalloren | July 17, 2003 05:39 PM

My husband and I LOVED this show. We couldn't get enough of it. We couldn't believe the transformations. Did they really do it all in one day? It doesn't matter. The show was fun and we enjoyed ourselves.

Posted by: lisalloren | July 17, 2003 05:39 PM

I LOVED THE SHOW>...I WAS CRACKIN UP..THESE 5 GUYS ARE AWESOME..I HAVE A QUICK ? ON THE EPISODE WHERE THEY GAVE ADAM (UNIBROW) A MAKEOVER..WHAT KIND OF SHAVING OIL DID THEY USE?? IWANT TO GET IT FOR MY HUSBAND??

Posted by: Dawn MOe | July 17, 2003 07:46 PM

as a gay man living in in a posh home i just have o to say "LIGHTEN UP Queers" the Fab5 are great and have done some incredible makeovers

Posted by: Devin | July 18, 2003 02:04 AM

I am a straight, married woman with three children and I just LOVED this show! There are so many men (and women) out there who could use the help the Fab 5 provide. They will certainly never want for subjects! Just come to the midwest where I live if you really want a challenge! I laughed through both episodes and have watched them almost every night since they first aired. Keep up the good work! I really love Carson! You are all wonderful and I can't wait to see more! We are not all homophobic!

Posted by: vicki young | July 18, 2003 11:47 AM

Hey...I've been watchin Queer Eye, and i just gotta say, i absolutely love the guy in charge of culture, unfortunately i dont know his name...he's adorable though, just the cutest thing i've seen!

Posted by: Cute Lil Boy | July 19, 2003 12:43 AM

I've been watchin Queer Eye...and i just have to say i love it, and i think the guy in charge of culture, is just adorably the cutest thing i've ever seen!!

Posted by: Cute Lil Boy | July 19, 2003 12:46 AM

I've been watching and I think it's wonderful. It's funny and good-hearted. I get misty every time I watch. I can't think of any other shows where people are just helping someone else achieve a goal that's really important to them, helping out just because they can. It's sweet and fun. The gay men are each very good at what they do, unlike on daytime talk shows where the victims look worse after the makeover than they did to start. Despite the joking and wise-cracking, they managed to be genuinely nice and you can tell when they watch the straight guy at the end of the show that they are all really rooting for these guys to get whatever they wanted out of it and feel better and more confident about their lives. It goes beyond just fashion. I also agree it's showing that hetero and gay guys can get along and just be normal and laugh together and this country really needs that. It's awesome. It's the best new TV show I've seen in a long time. PS The skin care line was called ZIHR.

Posted by: wanderer | July 19, 2003 07:52 PM

This show is ridiculous. I am straight; there is no way in hell I would agree to this. If these guys want to come in and help me with their given expertise that is one thing. But, to for them to assume that it is ok to be making some of the comments they do, or to be touching and feeling the way they do is not something that I would go along with. In the hetero world one person is not allowed to touch another or make innuendos the way that these guys are being allowed to get away with. I think they are taking advantage of the person’s kindness and desire to not be labeled as homophobic. If I am not attracted to a person I do not want them touching me in certain ways, it is just way to familiar. I do not care if that person is male or female. If I tell a female that I do not like the way they are touching me it is understood without judgment. If I were to have the same reaction with a gay man touching me the reason for my discomfort must automatically be homophobia rather than I simply do not care for that sort of familiarity with someone I am not attracted to. I do not have really any problem with most of the cast members; the one I am speaking of more than any other is the fashion guy. His comments and touchy feely way would cause the show to take a different twist if I were the one on the spot. He would be told in no uncertain terms that that sort of behavior was not welcome and would cease. I would have no problem working with these men in a professional sense. They can come and give me advice based upon their expertise, but be professional. It makes no difference if they are hetro-, homo- or bi- sexual. If the person were a professional then I would take their advice. But I do not have to put up with behavior that is unwanted and unrelated to the discipline in which they are experts.

Posted by: BD | July 19, 2003 08:14 PM

My daughter and I thought the show was absolutely FABULOUS!! The comments made by the makeover crew kept the show upbeat. They respectfully transform the appearance of the homes and bodies of men in need and we think it's a smart concept for a show. Keep up the good work; we'll keep watching!!

Posted by: AF | July 20, 2003 12:54 AM

On the show: I enjoy it. I like that the 5 people have distinct personalities and that they don't all have stereotypical personas. While I think Carson ("fashion"), did get a little over the top in some of his comments, I don't think he made the gentleman overly nervous -- I was watching for that. I also thought all the team was careful to 'work with the style' of the person they were making over, not just creating a look the person would be uncomfortable with (vs. 'What Not to Wear' - talk about mean comments!). And to 'wanderer', who claims: "In the hetero world one person is not allowed to touch another or make innuendos the way that these guys are being allowed to get away with. " That may be true in your world. It is not the case in the "hetero world". Try looking at other cultures -- Latin, Mediterranean, European: most of them are more affectionate than the stereotypical white bread American. But, for some of us, the touchy-feely stuff does spill over from other cultures into our own, American, hetero worlds. My fifteen cents.

Posted by: Nicole | July 21, 2003 11:53 AM

Acutally it was I, BD, who made the "hetero world" comment and I stand by it, but I also agree with your comment on the comfort space of other countries being different than the comfort space in the States. However, when you are in a foreign culture it is considered polite to understand what is accepted and what is not. Maybe in Carson's world it is ok to act in such a way, but he needs to show respect for the client and do what is comfortable for the client, not what is comfortable or desirable for himself. He is very rude and very unprofessional.

Posted by: BD | July 21, 2003 01:48 PM

Well, I have to say, as a straight man, I think this show rocks. I disagree about the comments made about Carson (I think) being unprofessional. He's a New Yorker, he's doing this off the cuff. These straight guys didn't hire some team to come into their lives and change them, they were chosen for a TELEVISION SHOW. They're not "clients," they're "victims," just like on any other reality show. The difference is that these fellows, the Fab 5 -- smart, cultured, passionate fellows -- are not setting out to make a fool of a different person every week, they're there to help them improve their look, their environment, and their self-respect. So, if it can be accepted that these guys are coming around to do some good in the world, then any of them should be able to say anything they want. They're having fun with it, let 'em. People sometimes need to be shaken, and a good jibing can do that. I personally love seeing the straight guys deal with the sexual underpinings, and I think that this show has the possibility to really make a dent in the homophobic nature of America. My personal favorite thing about this show is that the Fab 5 are unabashedly homosexual without being purposefully flamboyant, or prissy, or anything -- they're just being themselves. They're just a bunch of men with a great attitude, IMO. I welcome the Fab 5, and I hope this series has a long, happy . . . let's make that a long, gay run.

Posted by: Str8Guy | July 23, 2003 02:08 AM

I just think this is such a fun show! So the Fab 5 are gay...so what? They have style and they can communicate it well and quickly. They're funny, incredibly optimistic (I mean, when they first encounter the straight guy challenge du jour, how can they keep from turning right around and leaving those slobs in their squalor?), and by the end of the show, you sense they really care about the success of the straight guy's makeover objective. I've seen the first three shows, and, to me, the first one was the best!! The makeover and art show had life-changing implications for Butch. Who could watch that and not get misty-eyed. It was great, great, great television. And remember, these straight guys volunteered, even contended for, an opportunity to be the makeover candidate, knowing full well that the Fab 5 were going to do it. And knowing, one would think, that there was going to be some 'over-the-top' commentary and actions. Did anyone doubt there would be gay innuendo? So Carson made fun of the guy's slobbiness. So Carson made jokes about unzipping the guy's pants. Puh-leeeze. Even Butch laughed at that. If it didn't bother him, why should it bother you? This is a wonderful show. No one gets hurt. Some people get helped. And we have fun watching. I'm just sorry there are only 8 episodes. However, I think that the quality would suffer if Bravo tried to produce 20 of these in a year. Maybe they'll do it like British TV and limit it to 8 a year, but keep the show in production year after year.

Posted by: empty | July 23, 2003 09:41 AM

Just another cog in the "what is beautiful, what is not", "this is how you should think and look" Brain Washing Machine! Don't know why I expected anything different. It IS Television afterall ;) Some things never change.

Posted by: Fafa | July 24, 2003 10:07 PM

I am a straight married woman with 4 kids. I LOVE the Fab Five. They appeared to be beautiful and witty and intelligent and exceedingly self confident. LOVED IT! Their personalities ran the gamut from the more stereotypical (Carson) to the least stereotypical (forgot his name ... the interior designer). Trust me -- I am an African American and so I know a bit about fear of stereotypes and tokenism -- this will be a great thing for the gay community. Straight people are not laughing at the Fab Five, we are laughing at ourselves.

Posted by: Rhonda Medina | July 24, 2003 11:15 PM

Oh my goodness! I am a strictly heterosexual female that happen to stumble across their show last week. I am now COMPLETELY HOOKEED! I love those guys and I think they bring such energy and sassiness to the shows guests. I wish to GOD that I could one day meet them and hang out with them. I think the FAB 5 ADD THE SPICE TO LIFE!

Posted by: MsStuff | July 26, 2003 08:01 PM

1) can webmaster put

codes between people's comments? Would make things a little easier .. at first glance it looks like Eric Dawson wrote "I can’t wait for the first show [..]". Someone has already thought BD's post was by Wanderer. 2) JOSH F. wrote: "I think we should have our own gay channel." PrideVision is available in Canada and is "coming out soon across the USA". from http://www.pridevisiontv.com/p/usa.asp 3) Lissette at July 17, 2003 12:52 PM "why not just have a team of five /people/ perform the makeover?" 3a) because it's already been done? 3B) because mix adds sexual tension ? (or is that sexual underpinnings?) truly, EF

Posted by: EF | July 26, 2003 10:26 PM

I attributed to “why not just have a team of five /people/ perform the makeover?” to Lissette, but in reality it was by Queer Who Does Have Some Style. sorry.

Posted by: EF | July 27, 2003 12:51 PM

Okay, I think the show has it's goodies and baddies. Of course, many gay dudes are still wearing their Grateful Dead Ts, slopping around on a Saturday night, never go to the gym, and can only think of pizza for dinner. Stereotypes in general are not good, but damn they can be fun, esp. when you realize what they are and how they are wrong. And maybe, are right on. For instance, I have friends that totally live up all the gay stereotypes fearlessly (think pink sparkly "I kiss boys" t's) and others who think it is just one aspect of their personalities not something to flaunt, as if a hetero would flaunt their heteroness. (Although, I usually counter them with the plenty who do, "pimps," "playas," chick who love that they work at Hooters, any girl on Girls Gone Wild and "big men on campus" strain of movies.) If people get sqirmy because Carson tells a subject he can "feel free to makeout with [him]" why aren't they up in arms at the RAMPANT heterosexuality, think Shipmates, Fifth Wheels, other crappy reality dating shows. First off, they didn't pick up any gay guys assuming all gay men are fashion forward. These guys have creditials, granted they are missing a florist, they are "typical" in their concerns. This is a double edged sword, it shows that finally straight men and gay men can break bread but that again, gay men must not be manly, dirty, messy, sport watching types or that there are actually straight men who enjoy shopping at Pier 1 and dress to the nines. The real question is can one bear a touch of stereotype for the gently loosening barriers being broken down? Look how many black women it took to act in the role of maids or welfare moms to have one finally win an Oscar? Hmmm, and she was playing another welfare mom.

Posted by: T | July 28, 2003 12:59 AM

Just wanted to say that I am a 38 year old married woman, and I LOVE THE FAB FIVE!!! I think they do a phenomenal job of helping the straight guy in question remake himself in order to bring out his best qualities without losing sight of his true personality, his likes and dislikes. To be able to help him without losing sight of that takes talent, and the Fab Five have that in abundance! As far as any jokes are concerned, I have yet to see any of the "straight" guys look or seem uncomfortable. The best part of the whole show, in my humble opinion, is when they watch Mr. Straight Guy onscreen to see how well he does after they have worked their magic for him. It really does seem that they are hoping for the best outcome and that they're genuinely happy when all turns out well. Isn't that supposed to be the spirit behind the whole idea, anyway??? Hello! Basically, what comes across to me is that these are five truly gifted individuals who derive happiness from taking "diamonds in the rough" and doing the work necessary to help them shine. Personally, I think it's something the world needs more of, now more than ever!!!

Posted by: brandygirl | July 29, 2003 09:31 PM

I am so moved by this show. Traditionally, striaght and gay men have had the widest gulf between them and this show suggests that that gulf can be bridged. I am baffled by the gays who scream "stereotypes." Being "cultured" is not "self-loathing" as someone suggested here. As gay men, we have always been at the center of aesthetics and culture in this country and the world. If it weren't for us, there would not be a hollywood, a Broadway, or any art, music, or literature. That is our legacy and our gift. I would hardly call that self-loathing. I love the fab five....

Posted by: Pirooz Aghssa | July 30, 2003 12:07 AM

I watched your show for the 1st time tonight. It was awesome. You're not the Fab Five.......you're the FANTABULOUS FIVE.........such talent!! I would love you to give my hubby a new "makeover" Good Luck in your new show!

Posted by: Kathy | July 30, 2003 02:29 AM

I love this show. I have watched four episodes and it is upbeat, zany and heartfelt. Queer Eye for the Straight Guy is a positive view of gay guys. Some people say it might be campy but in our community there are different types of gay people. Each gay person on the show has a different personality. Campy gays like Carson are fun and zany. Plus Zyan is not campy but cool. I love this show and the Fab 5 don't try to change the straight guys style but try to help them accent their own style to help them out. QE4SG shows that gay and straight males can bond and be relaxed around each other. That gay males and straight guys have fun together and can learn from each other. The show has heart and it pure fun. That gay guys and straight guys can have a great time together without feeling ackward. The show is a winner in this gay persons view. SOME GAY PEOPLE ON HERE NEED TO LIGHTEN UP...There are different types of Gay people out there. Don't tell me that several of my fellow gays on here have never met 'Carson's. Besides Zyan, Thom and the food and wine gay are not 'screaming queens'. You gay who are blasting this show should get over your hypocitical, self loathing, high and mighty selfs and realize that we gay people are as varied as the rainbow. Your the same types who are just has homopobic as the religious right...yes we have people like Carson...and I LOVE THEM. Because they are not a bunch of up-tight self loathing gays. They are comfortable being themselves and having fun with life. Maybe some of my gay up-tight brothers and sisters need to quit hating on those who want to act and be zany and crazy like Carson.

Posted by: Robert Smith | July 30, 2003 05:23 AM

I LOVED the show, especially Carson and now I will Never watch it again because of what went on in the "Cowboy's" bedroom!!! (Last nights episode.) The fab. 5 were asked not to uncover the bed and they did anyway! That scene should have been cut out! My excitment for last nights show turned into disgust!! The "client" I'm sure, will be embarrassed and humiliated for-ever!!! There are boundaries when it comes to a person's dignity. THEY NEED TO FIND OUT WHAT THEY ARE BEFORE THEIR NEXT SHOW! He was obviously embarrassed and I am deeply saddenned thinking about how he must have felt!!

Posted by: Leslie | July 30, 2003 08:53 AM

Some of you really need to lighten up. This is the best show I think that is on TV right now. The Fab 5 make the makeover experience a blast with their upbeat style and encouragement. Gosh...I love this show especially with comments from Carson such as: "call 1-800-alarm me, you've turned the crack den into a living room!" "God, I need a giant ridilin smoothie so I can concentrate on this disaster!" "There's a hooker from Trenton who wants her shoes back!" "she wants him so bad she cant even see straight..." "and when shes not driving big rigs Lisa enjoys..." "fear is the greatest motivator" "the old Tom never put poison on your fish" etc... All of you have to admit that these 5 do a fantastic job wherever they go. They enjoy making people's lives a little bit better as they say "one straight man at a time", and I think it is a huge step for television to be airing this. Some of you may think that this is disgusting, look at the new show Boy Meets Boy...which would you rather be watching? All in all this is a great show, funny as hell...

Posted by: Erika | July 30, 2003 04:46 PM

Azulene As a gay woman I just love your show keep up the great work.

Posted by: Azulene | July 30, 2003 07:30 PM

I would like to point out that this show is not for gay people. This show is meant for heterosexual woman that want to change men. It's the woman's fantasy to change everything about a man. Besides the fact, I believe this show is another male bashing show on television. Like what one person said, 'What can I expect? It's television'

Posted by: Mark | August 2, 2003 12:01 AM

It's hard to express my utter disgust for the people in this world who's mission is to say bad things about everything. This show, although a bit outrageous at times, (which is why I love it) has to be a little out there people because it wants ratings. If it was dull and the gay guys did what the "straight" guys wanted..there wouldn't be conflict and it wouldn't be fun. If I wanted to watch simple makeover shows I would watch HGTV instead of this show. I personally love the show. You people, that have taken the time to only write negative comments need to find something better to do with your time. Maybe the guys shouldn't do and say some things they do on the air. Well.....watch the Simpsons, or Roseanne, or beavis and Butthead...those shows were fairly outrageous at their beginnings. You straight men, who are completely afraid of gay men need to lighten up. Go watch the Man Show because I can guarantee that they say things on that show..and do things....that turn my stomach. Any show that degrades women or minorities makes me sense and it uncalled for. This is a decorating show folks. If you don't like it, you are going to have to deal with it.....sorry.....I have to flip past those stupid commercials "Girls Gone Wild." Although I do realize that these girls have to be willing to degrade themselves. Lighten up straights! Queers are here, have always been here, and will always be here. This is our time!!

Posted by: CollegeGay | August 3, 2003 04:20 AM

QE is am absolute blast! My wife and I love it -- its the funniest thing on TV. Sure the Fab five take pokes at the "victim" but the producers appear to pick stright men that know how to take a ribbing and really appreciate the help. Sure the show puts the Fab 5 in a stereotype light but these guys were selected because they are funny as hell and at the same time show that they really care about their charge.

Posted by: deadringer | August 4, 2003 01:00 PM

I think some folks need to get over themselves and the self importance of the gay community. It is TV, so what. Not even that good of TV but some folks have worked themselves into a froth of how it portrays homosexuals. A smash hit on Bravo consists of what, one rating point? Not reaching that many people. I just don't think it is even worth putting any energy into.

Posted by: Oren | August 4, 2003 04:42 PM

I read most of the comments and understand people's opinions about the negative aspects and stereotypes that are displayed on the show. However, I thought it was a good cross-section amongst the Fab 5. Between the guy that gives advice on hair (quiet and classy), the guy that shows you how to cook (bookish and composed), the guy that decorates the apt. (understated), the guy that gives advice on clothes (vampy and full of quips)...isn't that a varied display of personalities that represent the gay community? I love the show because there are no program formats that show men how to groom themselves, how to entertain, and how to keep their fricking apartments clean! (Did you see that episode with the long-haired guy whose entire apt. was completely trashed?! He was disgusting. Don't get me started on his witchy girlfriend!) I think, if anything, that it shows that straight men are fuzzy-brained, skin-crawl inducing pigs that need to be led around by someone else, be it gay man or their girlfriend/wife. Christina

Posted by: Christina | August 5, 2003 01:00 PM

This show is the saddest thing i have seen come on TV in the LONGEST TIME. it does nothing but further promote all the stereotypes that people already havey about gay people, that the are SKINNY, FLAMING, DESIGNER DRESSING, MATERIALISTIC, MEAN, FAGS. and that is not true at all, most gay people are entirely 'normal' (although i dont like to use that word, i just will for convenience sake) but just happen to like people of the same sex. You would think that they gay community would demand and have the balls to ask for more variety in how they are portrayed in the media and on TV, but i guess not. This show, BOY MEETS BOY, damn QUEER AS FOLK are not REAL AT ALL! and i am sorry, but if there was TV when women were trying to get the right to vote, and the only time you saw women on TV they were in the kitchen, or having kids, or baking, THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN PISSED, and WE SHOULD BE UPSET. This illusion that people have that somehow this will make people accept gay people more, is false. it only makes the stereotype that most straight people and homophobes, keep, seem far more real, and they are all far less likely to accept gay people. This is just the latest in a string of shows that do nothing but promote this new 'marketed gay lifestyle' of skinny boys, designer clothes, and mean little queens. and no, i am not a homophobe, i am not realigious, i am just gay with a mind. and i would like to see a little something with a bit more originality and personality. This show required no thinking up at all, and is as UN-REALISTIC as all the other REALITY SHOWS. But this also stems from my belief that the entire media and enterainment network has lost all conscience and taste in what they produce, and simply put whatever out there will make the most money, and i suppose we cannot blame them, it is a business after all. But we can STILL critisize, and DEMAND they at least TRY to change

Posted by: Noe - 17/m | August 5, 2003 03:06 PM

Could someone please tell me WHY Cirqu and Actor's Studio is considered "gay"? I saw someone comment above about the two being "gay" television. I'm confused as to how and why. By the way....another straight female here that loves and adores QE. I would love to see them do over several of my guy friends! And as for Carson being "mean"...please. That guy from What Not To Wear is as cruel as you can get! Carson's a puppy in comparison.

Posted by: Rachet | August 5, 2003 03:51 PM

I'm noticing a trend in the postings: straight people love this show, and gay people don't seem as pleased. I find this really interesting. I'm a straight lady, and I really love the show. I think it's sweet how these talented men share their gifts with those who feel that better grooming, etc will help them in certain areas of their lives. Here's a thought: I'm not telling any of the gay people in our communities how they should feel about the show, but one of the concerns I'm seeing repeatedly is that the show perpetuates stereotypes. The thing about positive stereotypes is they're confining and they paint only one picture of a certain group. However, that said, there is usually an element of truth to many positive stereoptypes. Why this is so is a mystery, but anyone who fails to note that a lot of pro-basketball players are black, or that many gay men enjoy a refined life style either don't follow sports or don't know many gay men. The fact remains, these are real, live gay men who have become successful in the professions they've chosen. It's not like Bravo went out and picked up some people from the street and told them to act a certain way. It seems unfair to the fab five to call them stereotypes when they are just doing a job. One fact that I hope will be cheering is that the audience of this show aren't going to be homophobes with no clue about gay people. We are friends and roommates of gay people, and we know that they don't all wear Polo or cook with truffle oil. Just the rich, professional ones. Those who would misconstrue the show probably wouldn't be interested in it to start with. I don't know, if my orientation group were somehow affiliated with one of the freshest, most entertaining, least mean spirited reality shows on tv, I think I'd be kind of pleased. I don't think a "Jews help you with your homework" show would be as popular somehow. A closing note, I initially thought Carson was too over the top, but as I watched him, it became evident that he really the bulk of the people whom he gives makeovers, and his sharp tongue masks a real softie. I bet he feeds stray cats in a beat-up bathrobe on his days off.

Posted by: Ruth | August 5, 2003 08:36 PM

The show is great. I am a gay man. For the gays that HATE the show, you are probable one of those gay men that have a complaint about everything. Especially when it comes to shows dealing with gay men. My only regret is that they don't offer gay men the same chance. My gay card has been revoked because I was born without a good housekeeping and style gene!!! WISH THEY WOULD HELP ME OUT!!!

Posted by: Ross | August 5, 2003 11:18 PM

Forgot to add this...to Christina, who posted above this post and is SO PISSED OFF AND THINKS IT STEROTYPES GAYS? You are yet ANOTHER pissy person that takes life allllll to seriously. Girl, give it a break. Find a new life, or hide with the one you have! I would be afraid to ask what, on any tv show, you would consider done right? Your angry girl...take a breath, your not comfortable with yourself. These guys are nice guy and that IS the way they are. I'd rather see some fun than your anger. And if people think that EVERYONE that is gay is the way they are, well...then they shouldn't watch any TV, Movies, Soap Operas, Theater at all. It's supposed to be entertainment honey, and at the same time they do something NICE for someone. Do you know what nice is????? If your not entertained, and I really don't think you could ever BE entertained. Then go to bed girl....and with your attitude, it will most likely be to bed alone...

Posted by: Ross | August 5, 2003 11:29 PM

Here is a theory for those who are upset by the show to consider... It seems to me that QE fits into a general pattern that seems to occur when mainstream culture is attempting to come to terms with a subgroup of people who are different. I think you can compare what's happening now with portrayal of gays in the media to the course of Jewish portrayals. First they are vilified, and seen as totally "other," like for instance in the past when every serial killer or scary, monstrous character was revealed to be gay, mostly in the 1970s. For Jews this period came much earlier, in the silent cinema. Once the fear of the other is expressed through portrayals like these, there tends to be a "noble savage" period, where you get something like "Gentlemen's Agreement" for Jews, or gay martyrdom AIDS flicks. I think QE is exemplary of the next stage, comprable to the "Jewsploitation" of the 1970s, where Woody Allen and Elliot Gould were big stars. This stage consists of a popular facination with the stereotype, and the participation of the out-group in the "performance" of the stereotype for the entertainment of the mainstream. I believe that the effect of this stage is to desenstize the mainstream to the stereotype, making it lose its power, and opening up the field {FINALLY} to more varied portrayals of members of the outgroup, who can then be looked at with sympathy, not fear or ridicule. On the Jewish timeline, think Ben Stiller in Meet the Parents, where it was a Jewish character that a mass audience was meant to identify with, and judging by the box office, did. So hang in there gay dudes

Posted by: Stark | August 6, 2003 01:37 AM

omg i love the fab 5 they are so cool and not to mention they have great taste. they work so well together! all you people saying they are rude and unprofessional i would say your wrong they are making Constructive Critisism. and really helping these guys out. so to fab five you guys kick bum keep up the frantastic work!carson I LOVE YA

Posted by: courtnie | August 6, 2003 02:19 AM

Holy Snack Packs! This show is mindblowing (and in a very good way). I love it! I have never had this much fun watching the show. As for all the negative comments... well, i think some people are just a tad bit insecure. I think Carson is unbelievably funny! And Kyan is such a goodlooking guy. The other guys are ok too. They seem a but quieter and calmer. The culture guy...Jai, i think. He is the most alorable guy I have ever seen! I hope this show keeps it up. it's doing a great job so far! Nai

Posted by: Nadia | August 6, 2003 03:23 AM

I can't believe it! This show totally makes me cry. The way these guys all are pulling for the straight guy to succeed. And then the straight guy turns around and is so appreciative of the Fabulous Five. I think some much needed messages are being sent here. Sometimes our 'United' States are just so filled with separatism. Communion and openness is such a great state...enables one to feel--yeah even cry! Think that's the best and most fulfilling way to make use of the physical life. PLUS--you might pick up a great recipe from the show!

Posted by: Kent | August 6, 2003 03:28 AM

Ok, lighten up folks - it's a TV show, nothing more or less. It's entertainment, and shockingly enough, it entertains. There are all kinds of gay people in this world and the QEFTSG show gives people a a glimpse of one segment. Gay people do not have to be one thing or anything - we can be any way we choose to be. I for one am not going to be ashamed or hide the fact that yes, I do have better fashion sense than most straight men because someone might think it's a stereotype. If you want to be angry about something that is actually hurtful, might I suggest being angry with the President of the United States who publicly states he wishes to change the United States constitution to limit one group's civil rights?

Posted by: Sidney | August 6, 2003 11:36 AM

Well put Stark. I think a lot of people overlook the simple facts of how 'minority groups' for lack of a better term are finally brought into the main stream of media. You're description was very accurate. It's taken a great deal of time to get where we are; where woman aren't painted as noire vamps or simpering wimps, where african americans aren't all depicted as servants or criminals, where every latin american isn't made to look like a gang member or maid, and where every gay man isn't shown as a screaming queen or a serial killer. Sure those images still exist, but they're not exclusive anymore. And as has been said on here before, stereotypes exist for a reason. They are overgeneralizations based on some level of fact. Sure, some men are very nurturing and some women aren't, but can anyone really deny that women are more so by nature? Of course there are strong women and weak men, but it would be stupid to pretend that in general the average man isn't physically stronger than the average women. Of course not every jewish man is good at math and finances, but those of you living in New York, Boston, Philadelphia...how many jewish MBAs do you know? Of course perpetuating stereotypes isn't a good thing, but ignoring the facts behind them doesn't make them go away. And acting as if every person who actually resembles the stereotype is doing a bad thing, well that's just insane. You're basically saying that, not only should an effeminate gay man hide his sexuality, he should hide his very personality from the world too. And as for the person living in the "Hetero-word" where is that place cause I can't find it on the map. I've had grandmothers in grocery stores put an arm around me and call me sweetie when I've just met them. My sisters friend drapes herself over people whenever she feels like it. And I've known men who's idea of friendly flirting (the kind not intended to elicit a date) is to say stuff like "Just how many kamikaze's do I need to give you before you forget your engaged?" (that was of course back when I was engaged). QE is a show about making over terminally unkempt men who happen to be straight by 5 talented professionals who happen to be gay. It's a gimmick which ads fun and comic relief to the show. That's something every new show really needs if it wants to compete. It's not supposed to be a documentary into the reality of gay men. You might as well say The Birdcage is supposed to be a depiction of an average gay family. It's not, unless every gay family also lives above a drag club they own and perform at. Did anyone hear straight senators complaining they're not all old fashioned candy-addicted prudes? Let the guys be who they are, and do what they do best, because QE really is a great show where it looks like the particpants are having as much fun as the viewers.

Posted by: Kat | August 6, 2003 11:40 AM

I have to admit that I myself am just a little bit in love with the Fab 5. Honestly, I don't understand how some folks have gotten so venemously upset at the show and other individuals; and then again, I can't believe I took the time to read all of it! Frankly, while there are so many problems with the country and our culture, one of the really great things is that there is such a wide variety of people and opinions and at the end of the day we are all entitled to rail vehemently against the show, and we are all entitled to turn it off. Maybe it is designed to reduce homophobia, and maybe it's designed as a vehicle for product placement; but if even one homophobic dude has his horizons broadened, or someone gets the confidence to be themselves more; then maybe we could all just chill and let other people just be.

Posted by: Carissa | August 6, 2003 12:37 PM

Sorry, but you won't see me or my family watching this. I don't hate homosexuals, but I can't stand the act of homosexuality. I think it is perverse, and although I'm not going to hate an individual, I also don't have to support the things they do. And for Network TV to plaster it all over TV like most stations are doing these days just makes me sick. The more I see on TV, the less I want me or my kids to watch it.

Posted by: Nathan | August 6, 2003 04:12 PM

I love this show. I'm a female and wish they would make me over...smile. The Fab 5 is just the FAB-U-LOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: Natasha | August 6, 2003 04:41 PM

I think Queer Eye is doing two things at once. On the one hand it is further stigmatizing gay men as superficial and silly. On the other hand it shows the compassion these five men have for our straight counterparts. Plus, our counterparts are shown as being welcoming rather than threatened by the fab five. Also, the straight men are being further stigmatized as dirty and clueless. So the show really is inclusive with its stereotyping. I think that some people will watch this show and have their homophobic stereotypes reinforced. I think that vast majority of people will watch this show and see five men that are happy and caring individuals.

Posted by: Gian | August 6, 2003 11:06 PM

I think Queer Eye is remarkable. Having known quite a few gay men in my life, I don't believe in this whole "stereotype" nonsense that is being thrown across this message board. I think each of the Fab 5 has his own personality. I've met guys who act more or less effiminate then each of these Fab 5, and I think that's the stereotype that's being thrown here. This show is very entertaining. That's what they're trying to do and they're doing an excellent job doing as such. So far reading these comments people either like it or they don't. So like any other show, if you don't enjoy it - don't watch it. Many shows are the stereotype, but we still watch them, yes? They're still getting good ratings. That's the goal here, to entertain us, and I'm being entertained. Why complain? I only wish I were a straight male so I could meet these talented and fun individuals. I look forward to their next episode.

Posted by: Sarah | August 7, 2003 03:02 AM

I have been watching this site's comments from the start of QE and as a gay man I am embarassed by the comments made by 1/2 the gay men on here. This show is amazing....no this show is astoundingly amazing. Grow up and take a good hard look at yourselves before you start to cry homophobia in America...you may just be screaming at yourself.

Posted by: RE | August 7, 2003 08:44 AM

I bet he feeds stray cats in a beat-up bathrobe on his days off. Posted by: Ruth on August 5, 2003 08:36 PM If I saw stray cats in a beat-up bathrobe I'd feed them too! Smile!

Posted by: Spider | August 7, 2003 05:09 PM

As an African American female, I love this show. Being especially sensitive to stereotypes, I believe that there is a broad spectrum of personality types featured. I appreciate the upbeat, over the top persona of Carson and the "calmer" inputs from the others. I will say, my initial intro to the show in which Butch was berated by the Fab 5 for the first 15 minutes made me cringe. Eventually, I got over it and found myself rooting for him in the end as he transformed himself from an ugly duckling to a swan. I WANT CARSON TO BE MY NEW BEST FRIEND!

Posted by: DN | August 8, 2003 09:11 AM

I tend to view things as not sterotypical, but instead archetypal. All art, regardless of its medium, harkens back to the archetypes of the human soul. These archetypes are neither positive nor negative, they are neutral. How we choose to interpret them is when a connotation of good or bad is applied. Regardless of sexual orientation, race, creed, age, or gender, we each possess elements of these archetypes and I personally believe that we seek out the elements that are lacking in us. This can be done in many ways, not the least of which is association with another who strongly exhibit the traits we lack. This being said, QE or any television show, will never have any power that we don't allow it to have. Watch it or don't. Enjoy it or don't. It is what it is, and personally I thoroughly enjoy it. Just a thought.

Posted by: just a guy | August 8, 2003 04:34 PM

I tend to view things as not sterotypical, but instead archetypal. All art, regardless of its medium, harkens back to the archetypes of the human soul. These archetypes are neither positive nor negative, they are neutral. How we choose to interpret them is when a connotation of good or bad is applied. Regardless of sexual orientation, race, creed, age, or gender, we each possess elements of these archetypes and I personally believe that we seek out the elements that are lacking in us. This can be done in many ways, not the least of which is association with another who strongly exhibit the traits we lack. This being said, QE or any television show, will never have any power that we don't allow it to have. Watch it or don't. Enjoy it or don't. It is what it is, and personally I thoroughly enjoy it. Just a thought.

Posted by: just a guy | August 8, 2003 04:34 PM

Um. Yes. LIGHTEN up people! Don't over-analyze a meant-to-be-fun series! If you don't like some of the comments they make, then promptly click to another channel. I don't think that's too hard to do.

Posted by: girl. | August 10, 2003 07:17 PM

My wife was the first one in our family to watch this show and when I sat down to watch episode #2 with her I was amazed. I am a fifty year old sraight man,who still has some homophobic hangups that I am working to correct. My first thought when I finished watching this show was the high degree of compasion that all of these men had for there victim. Sure they have Carson to be the cut-up and make fun at the guy's expense and it only plays if one of the 5 is the clever comic relief. I have read the comments about gay stereotypes but have a look at the straight guys, they seem pretty stereotypical from my side of the human fence. I know lots of men just like them, and it doesn't bother me to see any of them getting a makeover. It this show enlightens and opens up some eyes to a clearer, more tolerent vision then it's done it's job, and that's always entertaining. dan holland

Posted by: Dan Holland | August 13, 2003 12:15 AM

More anal than a go-go boy in a gay club's backroom!

Posted by: Sod O. Mite | August 13, 2003 11:36 PM

Many of the criticisms on this page follow a line of logic that goes something like this: The 5 characters on Queer Eye for the Straight Guy are stereotypes and not representative of all gay men, and their mission to rescue straight men from fashion and cultural slovenliness is insulting because it assumes that gay men are savvy in the ways of taste and straight men are not. Well, the problem with that line of thought is that no matter what kind of gay or straight men are on a show, someone can always say,"But they're not ALL like that, so this show sucks." Lighten up. It's a fun show. A lot of straight guys DO need the help, (coming from a straight buy, btw) and looking at over-the-top gay characters in a positive and humorous light seems to me to be a good way to fight homophobia.

Posted by: CPR | August 14, 2003 04:37 AM

As a straight male who happens to have a competent sense of style, who's clean and well kept, who is not homophobic, I just want to say that I love this show. My advice to all the bitter people out there - KEEP YOUR POLITICS OUT OF ENTERTAINMENT! This show is smart and funny and accomplishes everything it was intended to accomplish and more. I think America is smart enough to know that the Fab 5 do not represent all gays and the poor saps they make over do not represent all heterosexual men. Lighten up and smile! Josh

Posted by: Josh | August 15, 2003 12:04 PM

As a gay man I have mixed feeling about the show Qftsg. On one hand, the show shows one aspect of the gay communitee and if people would look at it from a broader perspective including all stations on television, it demonstration and helps to balance the communitee's diversity. I agree more gay shows with a variation in theme need to be produced in order to fill that goal if it is the goal of most networks. On the other hand, as a Black gay man networks who make attempts at showing the gay community in positive situations always always fail to realize that gay people are diverse and never include people of any color except on token color and if its a "reality show" the person of color always is voted off. Has there ever been a show were a person of color is the desired quest for affection? I cant think of one of any color other than white. I don't see anyone getting bent out of shape with this stereotypical portrayal of the white man or woman as the saught after party as if there is none greater. And if there is any doubt that there is any its probably from a white perspective. How can we show any diversity of culture when the people controling what we watch are composed of a narrow scope of society. We need diversity of television on, off, and behind the screen. QEFTSG may be just the beginning of what is needed on television. I can't wait for television to catch up to the real reality.

Posted by: tyrone | August 17, 2003 05:21 PM

I am in love with this show. Carson, Kyan, Ted, Jai, and Thom are wonderful, all talented in their own ways. By the way, I'm a heterosexual female, and usually watch this show with some friends who are gay, and we all love it. Its about time that we see more shows on tv that are more diverse!

Posted by: Dana F | August 20, 2003 12:07 PM

I still love this show, but I must say, as a straight male, I am embarrassed by the incredible slobs that have been found to be the makeover targets. For the guys living alone, I can almost understand why things get dumped in corners (or sometimes in the middle of the floor) and not put away, why furniture doesn't match, the bathrooms are EPA hazardous waste sites, and why dirty dishes pile up in the sink. I mean, guys by themselves seldom think about themselves in a way that makes them keep the place clean and the dishes washed. But for those guys with wives or the guys with the (semi-) live-in girl friends, how can those women put up with that garbage piled up all over the place and the dirt and grime all over? If a guy is willing to be filmed in his underwear getting a spray-on tan, he's probably not going to be embarrassed by the fact that he lives in a pig sty. But, boy oh boy, those women who don't say "That's enough! Clean up this place right now or I'm going to start throwing this junk out!" really leave me scratching my head. Can anyone help me understand this?

Posted by: Golf | August 20, 2003 04:31 PM

Let me ammend the above by saying my confusion isn't that it's WOMEN who aren't saying "Clean Up!" my confusion is about why another PERSON of any type would allow themselves to be in the middle of such a mess.

Posted by: Golf | August 20, 2003 04:35 PM

Just watched the show about the Port Authority cop and I am SO JEALOUS of his girlfriend who got to go "sneaky shopping" with Carson!!! What's up with that? Anyway, apparantly Carson knows how to dress EVERYBODY, regardless of gender, because he sure accentuated her assets, didn't he?? :-))) The cop obviously approved of her so-called "boobages"! LOL! That guy was hilarious because of the way he was trying to be so tough and manly in front of the guys and then went to being so animated, almost "girly" in front of his woman, even to the point of using the word "divine". Wow! Oh well, another great show from the Fabulous Five! Can't wait for the next one!!!

Posted by: brandygirl | August 22, 2003 01:34 AM

It's interesting to note that the most critical comments about this show are coming from gay men! Carson is too mean, it's too stereotypical, blah blah blah! Sweeties, when was the last time you were out anywhere? Don't you know what's going on? These are NEW YORK CITY QUEENS! All they are doing is being themselves which yes, involves reading (if you don't know what that is, it's basically the way queens fight - not with fists but with witty words) and yes, in the beginning i was cringing a little when carson (and the rest) were reading the straight guy pretty hard in the beginning - but i swear to god when he whipped out those salad tongs and started picking the straight guys clothes out of his closet i fell on the floor laughing! Come ON people! Thats not mean, its funny!! And the reason why it works is because after they have their way for like 5-10 minutes they grab the guy by the hand and run him all over manhattan going into places i only WISH i could have afforded when i lived there! I have never felt like these five guys were ever "acting" - can't people tell the difference, tell the falseness? Yes, gay people actually DO act like that - they really do! Not everyone, but i would probably say a LOT of them - what is everybody afraid of? whats wrong with being a little nellie with your sisters? I think sometimes that people equate being gay or being "nellie" with being weak - if you feel that way i dare i just DARE you to walk up to a fierce new york drag queen and say ANYTHING insulting - who knows, she just might pull a pistol out of that pretty little handbag and blow you away! I swear to god, you have been warned. Can you even IMAGINE the power and strength it takes to be a drag queen? ANYway...i'm a gay man (could you tell?) who thinks queer eye is fun, FUNNY, and even emotional at times - i have an image of Kyan and the cop standing in the tanning shower in their skivvies and the cop freaking out and Kyan gesturing to himself and saying "this is gay, but what's gay about you?" which means, there is no problem here because i am gay and you are straight and i'm not trying to hit on you and standing next to me is not going to make you like guys, can't we just hang out and get our tans?" Look, for some people its going to be too much to handle - that's fine, just turn it off...but i'm telling you you are missing history in the making, and a funny as hell show - oh, those queens give me gas! love and things chris

Posted by: Chris | August 22, 2003 11:16 PM

Ok, here's the thing. My husband and I watch the show and we love it. His take is that staight men in general don't really know what's sexy and appealing to women. They expect us to tell them, but most of the time we don't; we just get annoyed with them for getting fat, slobby and uncultured as time goes by. We read our fashion mags, and watch our soap operas and KNOW what we like, but the communication to our men is not there... QE gives ordinary guys, if they're willing to pay attention, a glimpse into the mystery of "what women want" Almost every episode has been focused on making a man more apealing to a woman. Simple stuff - but it's catchin on like wild fire. I wonder why? Keep it up -this show is the most interesting thing on TV right now. All I can say is: Spray, Delay, Then Walk Away!!! :)

Posted by: Carleen | August 23, 2003 05:24 AM

[Homophobic comment deleted.]

Posted by: Redneckman77 | August 24, 2003 05:06 PM

Howdy people! My (straight, female) roommate and I have been watching QE from its premier & WE JUST LOOOOOOOOOOOVE IT!!! We both have actually called out sick from work just to watch the show...it's just too bitchin! As a gay man who used to be posessed of a lot of style, but got too caught up in middle-age, the show has truly inspired me to get off my sweet & pretty duff and start infusing some real style into my life again. Even my roommate wants to be made over by the FABS...which is going to require every ounce of their creativity or a powerful magic wand to do in her case :) YOU GO GUYS! We're waiting on your shows with baited breath.

Posted by: Jim | August 26, 2003 12:32 PM

Carson is the most entertaining, I have known a number of people just like him, outspoken, funny, and sometimes downright rude. But Jai is the cutest, hands down. I'd walk 100 miles just to see him pee in his pants. Love, Izzy

Posted by: Izzy Weird | August 27, 2003 03:08 AM

I've watched the show and read some of the cheers and jeers for it. Yes, the show displays a stereotypical gay sense of style, fashion and decoration. Rather than condemn the show for that or the attempt to mainstream the commodification of these sensibilities to heterosexual consumers, the show and the criticism for it made me think. Frankly, who are the top fashion designers, interior decorators, style gurus, artists and culture mavens (notice I didn't say chefs)? They happen to often be gay men. why? Why do some gay men have a problem with this show? I believe it has something to do with superficiality of what is being presented as a "deep change" for the straight male subjects in the shows. Perhaps the stereotypical gay sensibility for the superfical has a lot to do with the difficulty of growing up gay, hiding being gay, coming out and living out in our country. What better "expert" could one find than someone who has spent much of his life having to deal with what kind of persona he is projecting to the world. The mastery of persona and image seems it would be required for a gay man's survival through transformation from closeted gay man to openly gay man. I'm sure it is a very difficult, confusing and painful process, finding one's own identity through the various socialized personas. The superficial and artificial, whether it be our dress, the decoration in our living spaces or being hip to the latest hair style, music or cooking trend are ultimately both a defense and a test fit of an identity. If a gay youth or -really - any youth has to deal with, in particular, not fitting an identity or socialized persona, wouldn't this create a personality who could easily develop the skill of what has previously been described as the gay sensibilities? If he had not had these sensibilities as a youth perhaps this is another socialized persona that is handed to him by the gay community he is eventually eager to join? However, I am not suggesting that these stereotypical sensibilities for the superficial are even prone to a gay person. I simply saying that it seems that that the process of a search for identity and the refusal to accept mandated personas as described above could create this type of personality. It is just as easily an artistic sensibility, having little to do with sexuality. Maybe this is why a number of gay men are appalled with this show. The true life of a gay person has nothing to do with these artistic sensibilites, perhaps these gay men are dissatisfied with the representation because it does not show what it is to be gay. How would that be shown? Is it any more than a gay man loving and having a relationship with another gay man (I'm not talking about sex, but love), and would that be much different than showing a man loving a woman? Just some thoughts. I'm a straight man with many artistic sensibilities: art, interior decorating, cooking and sometimes dressing well....I wouldn't really call it fashion. I have had very close male and female friends who are gay. I do enjoy the show, partially because I have appreciation for the artistic or sensual, and because it is a pretty funny show.

Posted by: nace | August 27, 2003 07:05 AM

I really like watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. It is a funny show. I know that a lot of people think that the gay men are "stereotypical" but it is still good entertainment. I wish they would come make me over!!!

Posted by: kristen | August 27, 2003 06:00 PM

I really like watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. It is a funny show. I know that a lot of people think that the gay men are "stereotypical" but it is still good entertainment. I wish they would come make me over!!!

Posted by: kristen | August 27, 2003 06:00 PM

I LOVE QE4TSG. I think they hired them because of there amazing knowledge, and just wanted a theme. I love it. Im a bisexual male, who is a kind of lazy person, but this show is sooooo choped with great great advice. if it was up to me I would not miss a single episode as long as it ran (but sometimes occupation runs into that)

Posted by: Jarod | August 29, 2003 12:03 AM

I've noticed the first comment people make regarding this show is, "they are so funny". You would think that the gay community as a whole, would be sick and tired of being lumped together with stereotypical, limp wristed, "Jack" like charactares. The gay community will never be taken seriously as long as the media keeps portraying them as whining, wannabe drag queens.

Posted by: Shan | August 29, 2003 06:09 PM

I watched this show one time and was hooked! The five men are a great blend of personalities, and they really try their hardest to make a difference in a "straight" mans life. You can see the confidence that these men gain at the end of the show, and you find yourself rooting for them along with the fab five!!! I hope Bravo continues this show, its classy and tasteful. My husband even loves it!! It really has a lot of humor, and great tips! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!!

Posted by: Daria | August 29, 2003 10:37 PM

I'm a fourteen yr old (straight) girl and my friends and I all love the show. I particularly like how it shows the straight men interacting with the gay men. Each one of the fab five have there own special areas of expertice. And I'm especially fond of Jai (culture) and Kyan (grooming) for obvious reasons! ;-) I think that there work is wonderful. There intentions are good and the show achieves it's goals by lending a helping hand to some men in need of some divine and FABULOUS intervention. I will admit it does show homosexuals in a somewhat stereotypical way but for the shows purposes the FAB 5 could'nt be any better! not to mention Jai and Kayan are GORGEOUS!

Posted by: Julie | August 30, 2003 10:58 PM

My straight boyfriend refused to watch QE and even give it a chance ( I don't need someone that closeminded).....So i broke it off with him. GO ME! and GO Queere Eye! I love you more than my luggage! :)

Posted by: Lorn | August 31, 2003 03:17 AM

I think its a great show--- great tips- even for another queer guy. now- where can i get that into music "all things, by widelife, vocal by simone".

Posted by: erick | August 31, 2003 08:55 PM

But Carson IS a big queen. Why should he not be himself? Do we want to hide the queens? So he fits the stereotype...but he is so real! We LOVE Carson. He mocks the straight guys and goes through their underwear drawers. Get over it all. Many straight guys have made a career out of making fun of 'Carson types' and now they're finding themselves on the receiving end. It's funny. It sort of makes you think. Just enjoy it for a minute. It won't last forever.

Posted by: jc | September 3, 2003 10:24 AM

But Carson IS a big queen. Why should he not be himself? Do we want to hide the queens? So he fits the stereotype...but he is so real! We LOVE Carson. He mocks the straight guys and goes through their underwear drawers. Get over it all. Many straight guys have made a career out of making fun of 'Carson types' and now they're finding themselves on the receiving end. It's funny. It sort of makes you think. Just enjoy it for a minute. It won't last forever.

Posted by: jc | September 3, 2003 10:27 AM

I am tired of people saying "Oh, Jack from Will & Grace is so stereotypical," and the men from QEFTSG are stereotypical... blah blah. We have all known men who range from Will to Jack, from Ted to Carson. They are who they are. Not everyone is out to "represent". Sit back and laugh at the comedy that they create being themselves. Nobody ever complains about Will being so stereotypical. OR maybe we should go back to the Jack Ritter days...

Posted by: Lynn | September 4, 2003 02:14 AM

I have only seen the show a couple of times and checked out their website and I don't know how people can get offended by it. People need to realize that it is entertainment and it is not to change perceptions of gay people. Kudos to Bravo and all of the guys, it is fantastic to see a nice variety of men and I love the fact that every spectrum of 'nelly to not' is being shown. (and kyan, if you read these postings, send me an email, i think we would get along just fine, lol)

Posted by: Colin | September 4, 2003 04:01 PM

Ok here is my problem with the show. Lets draw a parallel and let me know if I am wrong. The premise is to play off the idea that gay men have a unique sense of style and fashion. They find 5 men who exemplify this and it make for catty fun. Now lets say I wanted to make a show about Hispanic women. There is a stereotype of Spanish women as great cleaning women. I could find five wonderful witty women with thick accents to go into wealthy women's homes and teach them how to clean. It could be a very entertaining and valid show, providing useful advice to the home cleaning challenged. Would it ever air? Never. Because it's demeaning to pick someone of a certain ethnic group and say you are this thing, this stereotype, even to imply it. Why not make shows about Indians who own 7-11's? About black drug dealers? About Asian dry cleaners? There are certain truths in all stereotypes, but there is a responsibility in propogating them. It's easy to make a show about gay men who are fashion and style moguls. It's what people expect. It's a common theme in gay media. Gay as this sort of bridge between men and women. The gays can come in and show the straight guy how to understand the woman, to please her, then magically fly away and let the straight people get on with their "legitimate" relationship. The flaming fashion gay man isn't anything revolutionary, it's not something that isn'at already visible, it's safe and it's fine if they come in and help the gay couple. Now someone gay on TV who could actually be your neighbor. Now that would be something to see. A stereotype is a shorthand way to avoid dealing with the vast complexities that exist in groups. Unfortunately, queer eye for the straight guy does nothing to address that. Think about it. Leo

Posted by: Leon Dekelbaum | September 6, 2003 02:52 AM

What in the world can be wrong with an innovative channel like Bravo taking a small risk airing this smart, fun, entertaining "make-over" show? I admit I'm not a style maven nor is my apt. one for the magazines, but geez, people, what's important here? These men agreed to pool their talents (and what talents they are!) to give their brothers on the straight side of the street a bit of help. I have known gay men and women all my life and like many others who have posted here, can say from experience that the stereotypes do not apply to all. I'd love to meet Thom and talk quilting. I'd be willing to bet we'd come up with some interesting designs. Oh, BTW, I am a straight single woman, as if that should make any difference.

Posted by: Shannon | September 7, 2003 05:06 AM

I've watched the show several times and, while I find Carson grating and not entirely respectful of the "victims'" comfort zones, the show is fresh and interesting and informative. Yes, there are thick stereotypes, but the show is ENTERTAINMENT, not a dissertation on the gay lifestyle. Lighten up! Personally, I'd like to see them make over a lesbian. (i'm volunteering, guys) Take the show as it's meant - in good humor. If you don't like it, you can always change the channel. ~CW

Posted by: CW | September 7, 2003 12:49 PM

The post about Hispanic women captures the problem of stereotyping quite nicely. As would be show where five rednecks teach a blackman how to be white.

Posted by: Richard Evans Lee | September 7, 2003 06:35 PM

dear fab 5 I have watch your show from the begining and love how u guys transform a plane scene to something I am in need of a transform to is it anyway possible that u guys would come to detroit and help me out. My home is nice but so plane, an I am writin you because I had a dream last night that it happen so Please Please make my dream come true

Posted by: adolph | September 8, 2003 07:48 AM

This show is fabulous! You came into my life and my world never looked so bright! its, true you bring out the best in me, when you are around!

Posted by: lorn | September 9, 2003 12:53 AM

Comments on "Queer eye for the straight guy." Reality TV series seem to be on every channel, since networks seem at a loss to create new entertainment without "victims." We who want to watch some TV have to choose which "reality" is easiest to stomach! As a married couple of 15 years, my hubby and I find this show to be hilarious! A lot of gay men are just caddy! That is what makes it funny. Saying gay men are trying to empress others by use of "name brand dropping" or expensive designer labels is a bit unfair. How many single straight guys out there spend a third of their income on a hot cars to empress a potential date? Our whole society basically evolves around which designer label is showing across your ass. So the critics need to chill out on bashing these guys for putting some humor on television.

Posted by: S. Price | September 10, 2003 11:52 AM

I LOVE THE FAB 5! My sister, mom and myself watch the show every Tuesday on Bravo. I love Carson. He is a fashion God. Jai couldnt be more adorable. Im waiting for Kyan to rescue my brother from his hair situation. Thom is formally invited to redo my parents house whenever he can. And Ted is brillant. I love them. As a straight gal all I can ask is who wouldnt want to hang with them?

Posted by: Monique | September 11, 2003 03:47 PM

Stereotypes. Come on, now. Why don't we make a show about Hispanic cleaning ladies? Well, uh, maybe it wouldn't make for good TV. Where's the entertainment value? But get some red hot Latina teaching a while girl from the burbs how to do the Mambo and you got yourself something my friend. And when you think about it, how is this so different from cooking shows that teach us Gringos how to make authentic ethnic dishes? Is that a stereotype? Now, if you had a show where there were five gay men teaching a straight guy how to score in the bathroom at Macy's, well, now maybe you've crossed the line into offensive. See, I think some folks are confusing stereotypes with a simple sharing of culture. And before somebody screams, but why do the gay guys have to be hairdressers, interior designers, etc.? Well, have you been to a high-end salon? A high-end fashion boutique? Hired an interior decorator? They're not all gay, but quite a lot of them are. As for comments about why don't they show a gay couple who could be your neighbor rather than these attractive, smart, talented young fellas on the show... you're just not getting it. Not every show has to prove the point that gay people are just as regular and average as any other Ordinary Joe only they are attracted to men. I guess we all have our opinions. I just think some folks are letting their self-righteousness stop them from enjoying what is a great show IMO. And now that I think about it, these guys ARE a lot like some of my neighbors! OK, I'll step off the soapbox now, and say that I love the show. FWIW, I'm staight. My wife and I watch it every week. The first five minutes where they say what a disaster everything is is usually pretty damn funny, because it is a disaster. These people need help! And then when they work their magic and you see the victim, er, whatever you want to call them, really appreciate everything the Fab 5 has done is really something. Think about it. It's a reality show where people are building people up rather than cutting them down. And then to see the reaction of friends and family to the change is great. I somehow suspect it all falls apart after a month or so, but it's fun while it lasts.

Posted by: Chibi | September 13, 2003 03:11 AM

What a great show!!!!!!! I love it. But do right by the contract for Blair He was great with the origs. Keep up the great work!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: Kole | September 13, 2003 07:28 PM

What a great show!!!!!!! I love it. But do right by the contract for Blair He was great with the origs. Keep up the great work!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: Kole | September 13, 2003 07:28 PM

What seems most fantastic to me about this show is its basic premise: gay men have the insight and experience to help the less fortunate to EVOLVE. SO subversive and SO elegant. Not to mention these men are truly talented at what they do. What I want to know is are the makeovers truly accomplished in one day? Or is this the miracle of technology? And how large is the staff on hand to make the transformations happen? I've got NO problem with helping hands or even time lapse, I don't think the answer invalidates anything these men do, I'm just curious.

Posted by: elizabeth | September 22, 2003 01:23 PM

Elizabeth, In a fairly longish write-up about the show that I read a few weeks ago (not sure where it was that I found it), it said the transformation is actually 3 or 4 days in length. When you consider the conditions the Fab 5 find in some of the makeover apartments, coupled with Thom's research and shopping trips, and add in the actual physical repainting, rebuilding, refurbishing and cleaning, you can see why it would take that long. There was nothing in the article that lead me to believe that anyone other then the Fab 5 were actually doing the work of the makeover.

Posted by: golfer | September 22, 2003 04:47 PM

Okay, I'm a 34 yo gay guy who doesn't have a lot of "gay" in my life (sad huh?). I watch these shows to give myself a "gay break" and infuse SOME bit of queer in me from time to time. I have to say that I appreciate QE immensely. I know what people have said about stereotypes and gay images here or there but let's cut the shit now. What I like about QAF is that it's a wonderful soap opera. Yes, a soap. Like all the ones on the daytime TV with their catty women, bitchy busibodies, cheating men, and heroes and heroines. QAF entertains and it does so with gay life in mind and with no illusions about being reality; or did you think that straight people marry, cheat, fight the devil, jump into the sack on a work day at 3pm looking fabulous and staying fabulous, and have half as many cocktail parties in real life? Same goes for any show like that, if I want social commentary I watch PBS. If it's insulting I don't watch at all, and neither do you...and then poof off the air it goes. Now QE is different...it's "real" life as much as filming schedules, camera crews, and set-ups can accomplish that. I like these gentlemen, I would be honored to know them at least long enough to discover if they are truly as sincere, witty, fun, compatible, and willing enough to be a friend and then be more honored still if they would. I like that they seem to be who they are. No retakes. No apologies. No adjustments for the sensitive. They are presented as they are and for once I like the presumed honesty. How many of us wouldn't make jokes at how some of these guys live; especially considuring that they asked for everything they get. And as "cruel" or sharp as Mr. Kressley can seemingly be you cannot deny (as many have noted previously) that he does seem to have a kind heart after all. If Mr. Kressley actually did something that someone took offense to that he didn't apologise for (and I would be surprised if he didn't) I am sure Bravo and the editors would intervene. Each one of them is hot and gergeous in and out, in their own way and if I were in a position and in a league allowing me the opportunity to date any of the single members of the Fab 5 I would leap at the chance. As it is, I'll be more than happy to flip on the tube, settle in, and spend some vicarious fantasy time with my new "friends" on Tuesday night. They make me laugh, they make me happier to be gay, and they really do touch my heart in their relationships with each other, the straight guys, and with me via their presence on the screen. 'Nuff said.

Posted by: John | September 24, 2003 12:26 AM

how silly it is to compare the stereotypes of gay men being suave, stylish, compassionate individualss to the degrading stereotypes of mexican housemaids or african american drug dealers. last time i checked, being housemaids or drug dealers arent the worlds most noble positions. however, having style and sensibility is something thats worldly appreciated. and as for the asian drycleaner or indian convenience store clerk comments, duh, of course it wouldnt make great TV, how boring. but at the same time theyre not the worlds most negative stereotypes, considering the entrepreneurial aspects of both. as a younger straight male, whos maybe a bit more in touch with the art and style world, i enjoy this show greatly, easily appreciating what these guys do. and for christs sake, look at all the amazing things theyre giving away on this show. i agree with many of the folks here who say, "lighten up." if being stylish and having good taste is a negative stereotype...than what does that mean for the people the world over, homo or hetero, who have a fashion sense and arent afraid of stylish furniture? not all stereotypes are negative. if people cant get past the characters that some of the fab 5 have, and claim that catty queers are only furthering the negative homosexual stereotype, then they just shouldnt watch the show. if Carson is really that campy, then how horrible it is to say "shame on you." thats 20% of a cast of very noble and educated people, if you let that one guy get in your way of enjoying the show, then you really do need to lighten up.

Posted by: greg | October 1, 2003 05:24 AM

Hey all! I know there has been much debate over the show. I myself gay, think the show is great. Yeah, its a bit stereotypical of us queers, but its entertainment! And yes it may even feed homophobia and stunt our progress for acceptance. We need to understand this is not in any way going to hurt but help us. We need exposure, this is a perfect way to come into america's living room and have a chance to shine. We will look back at shows like this and thank the Fab 5, like we look back and thank Oscar Wilde and the like for being different and outlandish. Its the only way to be heard and can help make a difference. What have you done to help the queer community? Emails welcomed!!

Posted by: Vince in NYC | October 15, 2003 08:29 PM

More than anything else, "Queer Eye" is CAMP, something that is, sadly, dying away. I came of age in the 60's, when all of the faggots were dead at the end of the movie. The more lesbians and gay men on TV, the better. Oscar Wilde knew that all publicity is good publicity--just be sure to tune in next week!

Posted by: San Diego Dave | October 19, 2003 02:05 PM

I don't see how queer eye can be offensive at all! Everyday you also see the "typical" straight person on tv as well, it doesnt mean they are saying this is how every straight person is!! I love queer eye, its entertaing to finally see some straight guys being put in line by men who really know what they are doing.

Posted by: Alex | October 26, 2003 02:24 AM

Hello, my name is Ingrid Schweitzer and I love the show, I'm so proud that your concept turned out to be such a great success. I've noticed that there hasn't been any coasters on the table seetings. I'm a graduate from the School of the Art Institute in Chicago. I've been focusing on collages and for the past year I've narrowed my focus on coasters. I believe they will be enjoyed when you have a display of coasters by Ingie. They will be entertaining, and you will find your guests mingling over them. My coasters will be the final touch that completes your party. My coasters are looking forward to being invited to your next make over. I would love to send a catalog and samples for the guys. Thank you, Ingrid Schweitzer

Posted by: ingrid schweitzer | October 27, 2003 02:37 PM

Looks...im not going blab on and on about the show....its simply one of those TV shows that i absolutely love...and with QE...I LOVED IT! i hope and wish to meet these guys one day....it'll be great to hang out with sensitve, tasteful, funny, respectful, guys for once...LOVE YOU ALL! esp CARSON :)....keep the show going pls

Posted by: Jenny | October 27, 2003 10:09 PM

I am (another) straight woman who was hooked after watching one show- the Fab 5 truly are fabulous!! As of Sunday night, I have watched 3 episodes- the Port Authority cop, the single dad & the real estate broker Alan Corey-I was frankly a little disappointed in the Alan Corey episode. He plainly didn't want to be made over ( did his girlfriend submit his name),saw nothing wrong with his apartment, grooming or clothes, and actively fought the makeover every step of the way. John Verdi & Tom Minogue were unhappy w/ themseleves & their surroundings and *wanted* to change, just didn't know how. Alan Corey saw nothing wrong with himself or his surroundings & had no real interest in changing anything. His girlfriend must have submitted his name. And, frankly, I must agree w/Ted, he *did* waste his time on this guy. The apartment re-design was the only total success (Thom was fabulous as usual). Alan's clothing & grooming were better, and he had a slightly better grasp of culture, but the drinks/canapes were an unmitigated disaster. My suggestion, for the producers & directors of the show- ensure the person you select actually WANTS to be made over, before you start shooting, and maybe select another person if they don't-even the Fab 5 can't do much with a person who doesn't want to be helped. And it's less fun for the viewer if the "straight guy" doesn't cooperate. PS- Does Kyan remind anyone else of the amazingly hot Christian Kane (Idaho Guy from Broken Hearts Club??)

Posted by: Claire | October 28, 2003 06:04 AM

Please help my boyfriend! He has no cass! We live together, I'm 4'1" and he's 5'11". I love him so much, but, he is a very messy, uncordinated type of guy! Please tell me there's hope! We've been on the "Maury" show before....."Opposites Attract".....Lord knows I'm thankful they didn't show our "Ghetto"-ass apartment! Christmas is coming soon, and there's nothing else I'd want, than to have a "Gypsy" fantasy apartment to come home to and get the Magick started to!!!!!!! Ref. Charlieboii@gay.com My friend Charlie will tell you I'm worth your time and friendship! Love, Laveda (909)881-2118 laveda92376@yahoo.com

Posted by: Babygirl | November 5, 2003 01:48 AM

Oh my God! I just totally fell in love with Jai..what a honey you are so gorgeous. And Carson is so my big sister..well done guys for hamming it up and teaching the hetro guys we have a sense of humor and can laugh at our selves AND teach those guys something at the same time. I am surprised at negative comments posted on this site...get a grip girls it is all in good fun. I mean you don't get much more campy than Carson!!!

Posted by: luvgayjai | November 7, 2003 08:39 AM

omg, i LOVE qeftsg. it's the best show ever. it's funny as hell :) keep up the good work guys! people should just accept it as entertainment. besides, despite carson's occasionally shocking comments, you can tell he (along with the rest) genuinely care for the guy. this show's a wonderful idea and i LOVE the fabulous five! they're adorable.

Posted by: barbie | November 12, 2003 03:34 AM

For those haters out there... you must need the makeover yourself to transform the bitterness and also you must need to understand fashion. Anyone would know that in fashion culture many professionals only touch their model (gay or not) to create the perfect look that they are going for and not because it is tepmting, in no way is Carson taking advantage, he simply is a professioal that loves what he does. Personally, as a straight girl this show is inspirational and motivating, to use your talents to help others in turning points of thier lives or who need help in a big decisions. If it makes the striaght men feel more confident in the end how is that harmful? why can't we all just get passed the homosexuality and really see them for the positive, their true talents? Overall, relax, pop some corn, and have fun!!!

Posted by: falas5 | November 12, 2003 05:15 PM

For those haters out there... you must need the makeover yourself to transform the bitterness and also you must need to understand fashion. Anyone would know that in fashion culture many professionals only touch their model (gay or not) to create the perfect look that they are going for and not because it is tepmting, in no way is Carson taking advantage, he simply is a professioal that loves what he does. Personally, as a straight girl this show is inspirational and motivating, to use your talents to help others in turning points of thier lives or who need help in a big decisions. If it makes the striaght men feel more confident in the end how is that harmful? why can't we all just get passed the homosexuality and really see them for the positive, their true talents? Overall, relax, pop some corn, and have fun!!!

Posted by: falas5 | November 12, 2003 05:16 PM

This is my most favorite show this fall. I love the enthusiasm that these five guys have for life. So many of us, straight or gay, work so hard at the grind of earning a living that we forget how to make events special and how to make our surroundings more enjoyable. I think these five guys are not only bringing joy to the persons having the makeovers, but they are reminding us all to enjoy life. As for the comments on this website that the portrayal of gays is stereotypical, in this day and age most of us know that people regardless of sexual orientation, are of all types -- serious, academic, artistic, good cooks, lawyers, doctors, salespeople, creative, not creative etc. etc. What should be focused on commenting about this show is the enthusiasm and joy it brings, and that it reminds us to take time to be happy.

Posted by: Lee | November 15, 2003 11:38 PM

as a proud lesbian, i love this show. the guys are great at their jobs and they HELP these str8 guys and seem to really take it personally that they do well. i do understand that gay men see the stereotypes--for example, if they had a team of lesbians go in to help str8 women, i would be angry to see only manly women fixing things around the house. what i WOULD want to see is a femme lesbian doing makeup and fashion, a sporty les doing fitness, a brainy one doing culture, and a manly one doing landscaping and repairs--how funny would that be??!! this show has a variety of styles in the queer guys and they are genuinely funny and talented. stereotypes exist in our community because we have made them! i say embrace which one you fit and run with it, baby. ps even though i am a gay woman i have a disturbing crush on kyan.

Posted by: blissmine2001 | November 16, 2003 09:44 PM

This show has recently just started to air in Australia where I live. I really enjoy it! I think that while some of the comments regarding the men's fashion sense etc can be a bit rude, I assume it is simply the guy's way of behaving. We're a bit more reserved in stuff like that here. :-) I think the 5 really work very hard to help the men find the style that really expresses who they really are, and you can see they appreciate it even if some things do make them a bit uncomfortable, like the cop getting the fake tan. They are talking about doing a similar show here in Oz which would be totally awesome. I really don't give much thought to the 5 being gay or whatever, to me they are just 5 nice guys who really know their stuff, are fun to watch and have given me some excellent ideas regarding how to find my own look with sacrificing my personality, which is more than I can say about the other renovation/life style shows I could mention. Go you good 5!

Posted by: maggie | November 18, 2003 12:14 AM

I am doing a project on the way America responds to gay men in the media for school. This website is amazing; I didnt realize that so many people have such hatred towards certain groups of people. I love the fab five! They are so funny and so amazing at what they are doing. Everyone should calm down; being angry that there are gay men in the world wont make them go away! Anyways, thanks for this amazing website, I love it.

Posted by: Chels | December 5, 2003 12:36 PM

Much hostility to Queer Eye on the Straight Guy comes from gay people, not Christian maniacs like Focus on the Family. Some gay men (and women) feel that it reinforces heterosexual stereotypes of gay men. While I actually prefer certain types of stereotypical gay males (e.g., nelly flamers) as lovers I understand the objection. Most gay men are indistinguishable from straight men.

Posted by: Richard | December 5, 2003 04:06 PM

I don't care what anybody says, I'm all for the Fab 5. I think they are helping people. I almost wish they could help me, but I'm female. LOL to Kyan, if I ever have a son I'll name it after him.

Posted by: Jill | December 5, 2003 05:06 PM

Regarding the Queer Eye debate I think there's a really powerful benefit to this show that goes beyond all the differing views about it... It's the fact that it's generating so much discussion - between people of diverse sexual orientations. Gays and straights are talking, sharing their delights and concerns, their confusions and passionate beliefs, their personal and political theories. And I think that's fantastic! Just reading through all these posts - many of them extremely thoughtful and intelligent - provides an excellent learning oppurtunity for anyone interested in or not familiar with the issues of the media representations of gay men ands its links to gay liberation. If you got this far in reading the posts you'll know what I mean. To GOLF, as someone who lives with a domestically challenged man, you put up with it because you love them - and a clean sink pales in comparison to having a kind, gentle, wonderful human being to share my life - in my case for the last 20 years.

Posted by: Tony | December 10, 2003 02:32 PM

When I first saw this show advertised I thought "My God, can we roll every single gay stereotype into five people in one hour?" However, after all of my friends told me about the fab of the Fab 5 I decided to check it out. FABULOUS! Truly, these Fabulous Five are doing therapy for people who really need it. Yes, it may be superficial but that is where life changes usually start. For those men in need, it makes the world of a difference. I think it is great to see people being themselves(yes, the Fab 5 DO play it up sometimes)and helping other people. I say YES my fellow gays reading this. This kind of programming does help open the eyes of "straight" Americans to see that we are good people! It may not be the way we want, but it's a start to things just keep getting better!

Posted by: Tim C. | December 11, 2003 01:58 AM

When I first saw this show advertised I thought "My God, can we roll every single gay stereotype into five people in one hour?" However, after all of my friends told me about the fab of the Fab 5 I decided to check it out. FABULOUS! Truly, these Fabulous Five are doing therapy for people who really need it. Yes, it may be superficial but that is where life changes usually start. For those men in need, it makes the world of a difference. I think it is great to see people being themselves(yes, the Fab 5 DO play it up sometimes)and helping other people. I say YES my fellow gays reading this. This kind of programming does help open the eyes of "straight" Americans to see that we are good people! It may not be the way we want, but it's a start to things just keep getting better!

Posted by: Tim C. | December 11, 2003 01:58 AM

There should be monetary penalties against those who exceed Warhol's observation of 20 minutes of fame during the life of any individual, ones that are assessed not only on quantitatively exceeding the time limit, but also for the amount of human dignity they qualitatively degrade. If that were the case, the 'Fab-5' (groan) would owe enough to repay the national debt. Here's to the continued twisting of the knife in the back of the struggling, serious, and sensitive gay man.

Posted by: AgainstTheCrap | December 14, 2003 03:35 PM

Maybe I have missed something here . . . people keep saying that the show is portraying gay men in a bad light. Well incase nobody has noticed that’s what TV does best, TV has been making straight people look horrible for A LONG time, so maybe it's all fare. Anyway I love the show its funny, it's not meant to be taken totally seriously. While most of you sound sweet as hell, some of you just need to LIGTEN UP! Its okay to not like it it's a TV show that’s what the remote is for turn that bitch off it you don’t want to see it! Lol! Oh and as far as all women wanting to change a man my sister in law is straight and married and she wants me to add that, there is NO changing a man and she has no interest in trying she likes him the way he is. I just thought that was kind of sweet.

Posted by: raena | December 15, 2003 06:35 AM

But we're bombarded by stereotype at every turn in US culture and demanding that it comes to an end on one of the most powerful mediums in history is not only a perfectly legitimate response, it's one that must not be ignored. Also, enough of 'lighten up,' it's an offensive evasion that belies heart and depth of thought.

Posted by: AgainstTheCrap | December 15, 2003 04:08 PM

I certainly didn't mean to imply that it's alright for television to portray anyone in a bad light just that, very little can be done when soooo many people love this show and that it has been happening for years. Women have been seen has horrible people for years and gay women especially have a very horrible stereotype so I don’t blame you for being mad, but hopefully there are enough smart people out there to realize that it is only a stereotype and not how at all reality. I know that’s a lot to wish for but I am never going to stop hoping that one day it will be true. By lighten up I don't mean that it's not okay to be upset but it but that it simply isn't going to do any good to be so upset or mad at others for their opinions. If you feel that being mad about it will do some good then more power to you and I hope that it does. I also wasn’t talking to one side of the argument in particular; being mad at each other isn’t going to do any good. EVERYONE has a stereotype, not just gay people alone and I agree it’s probably worse for gay people but I think if you know yourself and the people who love you know you then you can make it through anything the rest of the world throws at you.

Posted by: raena | December 17, 2003 02:30 AM

I'm a straight 14 year old, and I may be too young to watch QE. But I really think its a cool show and I am totally in love with JAI!!! He is soooo cute!

Posted by: ilovejai | December 20, 2003 06:09 PM

Im right there with Jill. If I have a son I wanted to name him Kyan. I dont know why people have to be like all hateful to the Fab 5 they just help people and they have great taste. Nothings wrong with them and they can come to my house anyday!

Posted by: Sammie | December 28, 2003 11:30 AM

Your show is absolutely fantastic! I love watching it and have turned a few of my girlfriends on to it. (My husband thinks I'm nuts. Go figure, lol) All five men are endearing. Their personalities and the way they handle and treat each straight man is what makes the show. The humor is what gets me laughing and coming back. Some comments are just snuck right in there and if you're not paying attention....it can go right over your head. They just slip right in and slide right back and keeps going with the conversations. Good luck to all and I hope the show lasts a very, very long time. God Bless.

Posted by: tootie | January 1, 2004 07:32 PM

For all of you who are b*tching about being stereotyped on TV and how horrible Queer Eye is and all of the skinny faggots on QAF, and Will and Grace... AT LEAST IT'S ON TV! Homosexuality is being recognized, and shown a bit of respect, granted it's not the best light in the world, but bad press is still press. They show horrible quasi porn on Showtime and "skin-a-max," so are all females starved, fake-boobed, lip injected whores? NO, so are all gay men silly little faggots, hmmm... I'll say No.

Posted by: Divinity | January 13, 2004 06:51 PM

i love your show! but i only get to watch it sometimes, but when i do watch it i love it more and more! im only 13, and i no that sooo many ppl think gay guys..well they are against them, but i have to say i have never had a better friend then a gay guy! and also the show is the best show ive seen,(i dont watch to much tv ill lose my 4-pack..lol) i love the way you go in and just transform the guys into a gurls dream! Anyways keep up the good work and i hope i will get to see the show more! xoxo, Michelle

Posted by: Michelle | February 17, 2004 11:08 AM

I love Queer Eye....I watch it not only with my mom, but the ladies I work with. I have also talked with a gay women who absolutly loves the show. I am a straight woman who enjoys every aspect of Queer Eye. While I admitt I would like to see a show with a little more diversity of gay characters...I feel head over heels for Queer Eye. Its light hearted and funny, and educational! ^_^ Jai is my favorite!

Posted by: Skylar | March 10, 2004 10:56 PM

It's completely obvious that the producers of such shows as Will and Grace, and Queer Eye are appealing to to types of people: 1) The straight audience who will laugh at this ridiculous stereotype, and 2) The weakminded gay man who thinks the media is finally recognizing him. Listen, I think it's extremely insulting to portray these flaming, flamboyant men on TV and pass them off as the entire gay community. The more the media tries to bring it out into the open, the more of a kick in the face it is. It would all be acceptable if homosexual didn't have it's own place on TV, nor left out. The day homosexuality is represented fairly, subtly, and WITHOUT too much attention is the day that it will be accepted.

Posted by: Orion | March 16, 2004 02:07 PM

Love the show! I'm in Seattle and wondering when your gonna help us girls!

Posted by: Ruth Block | April 7, 2004 03:19 PM

I would like to get your input i've been single for over five years and i don't know what women want. I'm almost 33 years old and most of the ladys i know aren't looking for older men, what do you think i should do to have them notice me. I know there's ladys out there but there's got to be one for me, you know what i mean. Being single kind of sucks big time. I watch your guys show once in a while it's good, some good tips, for us guys. Well you could get back to me. Thanks from jalove

Posted by: jalove | April 25, 2004 06:08 PM

i thought this show was great. i'm a straight female. i LOVE the fab five. i think they are funny and witty and intelligent and creative. i agree with whoever said if you don't like it don't watch it. i have one other thing to say and that is this: that i am the first person to stick up for gay marriage, gay rights; i don't care what a person's sexuality is. if it makes you happy, go for it. but jeez the gay community complained b/c mass media was not inclusive of them and now some of the gay community is complaining because of the way the mass media IS including them. hey, everyone can't be happy. not all straight people are like "Friends" either, you know.

Posted by: ajila | May 16, 2004 11:48 PM

Dear Fab Five, I love your show! My husband and I watch your show every week, but what he does not know is that he could use your help.We have been married for seventeen years and have two boys 15&20.The man has no idea how to dress, when we go out to dinner he wears nothing but blue jeans and sneakers (what a look) the same look he wears to work but with a lab coat over it, the same look each and every day. The worst part is the jeans do not fit well, they hang off his butt and I can imagine what people say. You guys are the best, we need more shows like it on TV. keep up the good work. hugs and kisses, Kathy

Posted by: Kathy Toner | May 23, 2004 09:05 AM

i think that carson is hot but im not gay im bisexual i've been watching the show ever since it cum on. carson is so funny and really HOT love robbie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Posted by: Robbie | May 31, 2004 10:14 PM

I was looking for Queer Eye for the Straight Guy posts on homophobia, and have been trying to read this page several times, but thanks to the double-overlay of text on text, it's just literally unreadable. (I'm not having this problem with other pages in your blog, just this one.) If it's fixable, can you fix it?

Posted by: Yonmei | June 12, 2004 05:38 PM

What more can i say.... you guys are so great!!!!! this is very uplifting especially like me which also happen to be a GAY.... Bravo!!!! Kimbas from the Philippines

Posted by: Kim Bas | September 13, 2004 05:26 AM

For the fab 5,guys your the show i keep watching every weekends.And i think you guys are awesome...the show that change stright mens..is so beyond expectation from ,from fashions,to home,to how to dress n how to wear how to take care of our body and how to talk..and fab 5 you guys roxs! i am totally a stright guys who lives in malaysia..and when this show was broadcasted on 8tv..you guys keep me watching every weekend...you guys did a great job in every show..and it helps me to change abit everytime i watch your show so guys keep up the good work cause you guys are talented and understands what a man wants and how to impress the women that guys love...to me this is the best program i have ever watch...and i hope if there is a chance please come over to malaysia and change my life too...cause you guys really supprise me in changing things...and way of people living...i am truly a number 1 fan of you guys...hope you guys have some free time come over to malaysia cause i am really looking forward to see you guys...you can reply me through emailing..and hope you guys can setup a webpage...a stright guy that desperatelly need all of you to change my life too...thank's for the great show and keep up the goodwork cause we are watching you....

Posted by: Renard | April 5, 2005 05:10 AM

Gay is against law....i dun bother that much i think men live to love the one they love...i am totally a stright men...and i just love girls...but i am a open minded person i do have gay friends...and they are really friendly person with class and style...and to all those people out there some people out there that think gay is wrong and they disturb you well thats wrong not all gay paeples are going to gay you...tell have class, not those you see on the street or those who are terrible person that disturb you...those are low class people...i do have a friend that is gay and he has class just like fab 5 too...and hello not all of you guys they are intereted only with certain paople...so please respect those people with class...i understand cause my friend told me not all gay people are interested in all men..only those who are crazy gay people that you see dun have class thats what he told me and i have a different thinking from that day onwards that not all gays are bad gays....i have see it myself too.... so fab five you guys roxs...and you have never fail to supprise me how you guys can change a person...i am really looking that you guys can come over to malaysia to change my life too...cause i have a misareable life and my girlfriend has left me,i hope you guys can help me change to get back my girlfriend cause i really love her...and i do think the mistake is with me..please send me a email on how to do cos i really hope you guys can help me.... and i wanna say fab 5 your the best. i have love the show since the day that is broadcasted...and 5 fab have the best personality they are friendly n helpful...there is more i can say but i dunno is this really the fab 5 webpage...so fab 5 pls setup a webpage or proof this i the real fab five webpage..... And to those idiots out there if you dun like the show F*ck off nobody ask you anyway what you think of the show...if u dun like it, dun watch it..and if you say you dun like it why are you watching it to see how good they can go..well then you people out there should start thinking do you have something wrong in your mind..cos your watching a show that you hate... and please be more open minded causes the world is round sooner or later you see lots more different things will turn out..malaysia is a islam country and gay are not allowed or lesbian...but atleast is on malaysia national tv...that makes a different..they are here to help not here to spoil anything...if a normal stright men like me can accept gay friends and make a good friend too.you should think is there a problem wit you. not only me who accept gay friends but my friends too accept friends like them cause they show respect and a real buddy too when you need their help...do not think all gays are the same.... from r3nArD all the way from malaysia and i love your program keep it up!!!!!!! thank's

Posted by: R3nArD | April 5, 2005 06:14 AM

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