The Straight Girl's Guide to Sleeping with Chicks
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Jen Sincero writes in the introduction:
The whole thing was so inspiring I immediately started handing out surveys and interviewing other people to hear their stories and to get all angles. The more women I talked to, the more I learned that sleeping with chicks was either on the majority's to do list or already crossed off. Even the people who really looked like respectable, take-yourself-and-your-filthy-questionnaire-off-my-property types were game.
The Straight Girl's Guide to Sleeping with Chicks
But Sincero’s guide isn’t all fun and games. In the “And Boy Makes Three” chapter, Sincero is very clear about the damage and vulnerable emotions for couples who embark on group action. “Sure, it’s standard straight-guy fantasy for two chicks to get it on. But it’s a totally different story when they’re in bed, and he’s suddenly not included,”

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Here’s a question: why do women need classes and books to tell them how have sex with other women?
You don’t see how-to books and classes for guys on screwing around with other guys. They just do it. Maybe it’s the same as with setting up electronics: “I don’t need to read the manual.”
Posted by: Peter | February 23, 2005 12:07 PM
My wife and I have engaged in actually a foursome. It was 3 girls and myself. All three girls were first time bi-curious. All were game, but to different degrees. My wife was totally into it and want to lick pussy and have hers licked. Her goal was to get another girl off by licking her pussy. Mimi seemed game to have her pussy licked, and Sammi only seemed game to lick pussy. In the end it all worked out well becuase my wife achieved her goal by licking off Mimi, My wife also got off becuase Sammi licked her off at the same time, and Sammi got her goal becuase I fucked her from behind while she licked my wife. It was quite amazing and fun.
That was all our first time to do that. It was a one off event, but since then, my wife and I have engaged in other threesomes from time to time. You know, it is acutally quite easy to get them started. Its like anything, once you do it one time, it is easier the second time. You would be quite suprised how easy it is to get another girl to join us. I leave it up to my wife, but usually we identify another women we both like, make a friendship, and then just ask. Either they politly say no, or they say yes. In any case, no one has been outraged.
Between me and my wife, our rule is that love is love and sex is sex. We are partners, so if we want to have sex with others, we need to do it together. I have offered her to have a threesome with a man, but she has declined. I do and will always love my wife. I do and will always love sex. There is no reason we cannot combine the two and make it fun.
I encourage everyone who wants to to have a threesome or moresome. It will do wonders for your relationship. No need to go behind your wifes back if you can bring her along. Same with her.
Posted by: Chredwa | February 24, 2005 1:22 AM
I have a question more than a comment. I been trying to get my wife into the idea of having a threesome but she dosen’t want to. All I here everytime I say something is I’m scaerd It might ruin our marriage. I think about it too but I’m still all for it. Another thing she tells me is that we have two kids (4 year old girl and a 2 year boy). I tell her that they won’t find out. But the biggest resson that she gives me is that she dosent want to shaer me with anyone else(and what she means by that is with another women). What advice can you give me to make this threesome a reallity and not just a fantasy.
Posted by: chris | October 6, 2005 3:24 AM
Your wife needs a divorce lawyer.
Posted by: Dr. Sexology | October 6, 2005 8:47 AM
I like what somone said about “love is love and sex is sex”. My fiance and I have recently decided to further our sexual experiences (while we’re young and fiesty..hah) We had our first threesome last week with one of his male friends, it was quite nice. Truthfully, we feel even closer that we can share these experiences without feeling insecure. We’re looking for a girl now. I’ve always been a little bi-curious but it does seem a little difficult to approach another girl..
Posted by: lindsey | October 6, 2005 12:55 PM