Top, bottom: more than roles?
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In a weblog I read lately the word top was used as a synonym for S&M master. That was a surprise. It invests considerable role in being the man who fucks or is fucked. Not to imply that it can’t or shouldn’t be. Many guys like to play or be forced to act the bitch and others in placing them in that erotic mental space. But not every gay man.
Once again from my personal weblog (a weak entry I fear), for gay men does Top, bottom equals dominant, submissive?