Quick note on pansexual as a label
• Richard Evans Lee
I use pansexual for a couple of reasons. The married "bi guys" who would IM me when I was dating via the web were very creepy and seemed to think a statement of bisexuality made is instant partners in infidelity (if there's a monogamy gene I'm a carrier).
More importantly the last stage of my sexual evolution was the discovery that I could find the atypically gendered as lovable as genetic males and females. For many people transvestites, transsexuals, intersexuals are either gender trash or fetishes. I want to emphasize that my capacities for love and lust aren't merely the traditional binary options.
